爱上不该爱的人,男友疏远你的那些原因

 aishangbugaiaideren,jinqiyiweinvhaiqianquzixun，leiyanposuodexushuleguanyutadekunao，zheiquanmingshizuoahuidenvhai，zaijinglilejiejinwuniandeaiqingzhangpao，tahenanpengyoumingquechulailianggerendehunyindashi，danhaoshijiangjin，quefajuenanpengyouhuranduizishenbufangzaixinshangle，naizhiyoushihouhaihuijixushengshuzishen，zheirangtashifenyihuohexinhan，jiujingshishenmeyuanguhuirangzishendenanpengyoushengshuzishenni?jianxinchukaiahui，haowuyiwenyeyouxuduozimeidoushihuiyouneiyangdeyihuo，nanpengyouzenmehuishengshuzishenni?shijishangyuanguyouhenduo————neimeainidelianggeyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishangbierenderendewenzhangba。

缘故一：他的工作中太忙

 tangruonanshengdegongzuozhongtaimang，tahenyoukenenghuilinshizhaobuzheguanyunihegongzuozhongdejunhengdian，aishangbugaiaideren,yinci youyugongzuozhongdefanmang，zaizaijiashangtashigenvqiangren，neimenidenanpengyoudangranhuishengshuni。henyoukenengninengshuo，nandaoshuozishendouhaimeitadegongzuozhongguanjianma?nvqiangrenbuyiweizheduinibuzugaoduzhongshi，zhishiyouyuzhenduigongzuozhong，tahuijiangzhidangzuoyizhongxintaiheyiwu，dajiadeganqingshunxinruyi，ergongzuoyougengshigongzuodefazhanqi，yinci zheiyinanshengcaihuilinshihushinizhiguanxingongzuo。

缘故二：你太黏人了

 lianaizhongdenvhaizongjianxin“wenroutitie”zheigeci，yinci jiuyongzheiyixintaikandaizishendenanpengyou。queshi，wenrouhemaimengdequenengjiqinanshideweihuchongdong，shitadexinxinbaoman，danwojuedeyiweizheyaoshiyikaolingyifang，dajiadeganqingjiuhuihenpingwen。youdenvhaiba“jiezhu”dangzuonianren，chukaiwenroutitiedexingqing，zaiyiqieshiershangdoushihuinianzhelingyifang。buzhinayigenanshengnengchengshounvhaishishikekedenianzhezishenni?zheiyekenengshitashengshunideyuangu。

缘故三：你使他有工作压力

 xixinxiangyixiang，zaipingchangdechupengzhong，nishibushishitaganshoudaogongzuoyalileni?lirunidenanpengyouhaimeiyouwanhundezhunbei，dannizongdianjizhewanhun，yinciniyejiuyongyoukuyounaodenvrenfangshiposhilingyifang，tabushedejinixinhan，danyebuyuanguozaodetaruhunyinshenghuo，yinci caihuinengduozheniyejiuduozheni……

aishangbierenderen,pingchangliduojitamenyixiebaorong，qianjiuhezhaoliaonanshengdeyishi，bieyiqiedouyiziwoweizhongxin。

缘故四：你对他规定太严苛

 youdenvhaishiwanmeizhuyi，kandairichangshenghuokandaigongzuozhongkandaizishendouwubiyouzhishanzhimeidexintai。bansuizhelianggerendechupeng，dangzheizhongnvhaichajuezijidenanpengyoudeshenshangyouxuduoquexianshi，kenenggangkaishichangshiduinanpengyoukaizhan“gengxingaizao”，nidexinlihenyoukenengganjuetashiduitahao，jinyoushitayuelaiyuechusecaikeyichengzhiweijizhi。dannishibushisisuoguolingyifangdetihuini，henyoukenengnideguidingzaitalaikanqueshishitaiyankele，zishenzuobudaodanyoubuyuanyisaonidejingtou，yinci tacaihuitiaoxuanshengshuni。

缘故五：大家中间不足融洽

 ainidelianggewo,tangruozaishangmiannimeizhaodaoniyaoxiangdehuida，neimeniyingdangsikaoyixiazitanlianai，daoxianzaiyijing，dajiazhongjianshibushichongzurongqiale。nanrenhenvrendeganqingbukeyidanshicunyouyuyixingpengyoudexiyinzhushang，daliangdeyingdangqujueyuzhangqixingjiaowang，erkeyijuecezhangqixingjiaowangdezeshilianggerenyongyou xiangfangdegerenaihao，xianghujiancunyouxuduodexiangtongdian，tashilianggerenhuatitaolundequebao，chucizhiwaikeyizoudezhangjiuderenxianghujianliyingrongrulingyifangdeshenghuofangshi，jieshoulingyifangdexinnian……zheicaisuanshimaixianghunyinshenghuodequebao。