爱上不该爱的人,感情的催化剂

 aishangbugaiaideren,xiaolianglaidaoyijiashengshudefandian，pinweilezhiqianmeiyouchiguodeshicai，ranhouqutingleyichangyanzouhui，yelihuijialeyihou，taoutufuxie。zheishi，tajiuhuijuedeshiyouyuchidedongxibuganjinghuobuxinxian。yongshehuixinlixuelaibiaoshu，zheijiuchengwei“guiyinyu”，jiguijieweigerenxingweideyuangu，zhigerenyijuxiangguanxinxineirong、anjianxiansuoduigerenxingweiyuangukaizhantuiduanhefenbiandequanguocheng。“guiyinyu”shirenmendeyizhongguangfanbixu，meiyigerendoushiyouyitaocongqizishengongzuojingyanshulichuqude，zhenduigerenxingweiyinguoguanxilianluodeguandianheyishi。neimeainidelianggeyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishangbierenderendewenzhangba。

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 meiguozhimingxinlixuezhuanjiajiefuli•fanhuoenlijingbuduanshiyanhaidedaoneiyangyigejieguo：zuoguoshanchenenggoucujinshentishifangchulaiyizhongchengweibenjiyiandehuaxuewuzhi。benjiyianshiyizhongshenjingxitongxingfenyao，tanenglingrendexiqihexinlvdoujiakuai，shouxinchuhan，liansefanhong，lingrenzaochengjiqijidonghexiyuedejuede。zhengyinweitadegongxiao，duiyixingpengyouzaochenghaogandudejilvyedadazengjia。shijishangzheiyeshiyizhongcuowuguiyin，danrendebennengshimeibanfajianbiede。

 you“diaoqiaoxiaoying”hechuizhiguoshanchedeshiyan，womenkeyijiandao，cuowuguiyinshijishangshiqinggandejinshucuihuaji。xuduo nanrenzaizhuiqiuwanmeinvrenshi，huiyounvrenqukankongbupian，shitajuedecijixing、jiaolvbuan、xintiaojiasu，zheishinvrenbennengfanyingshangmianzhaodaoyuangubiaoshuzishendexintaitihui。shiyingpianjuqingtaiguokepani?huanshishenbianderenlingzishendongxin?yinweiwufajingquediqiangdiaozishenshenglixuezhuyaobiaoxiandezhenshiyuangu，jiuhenyoukenengzaochengduixintaidecuowuguandian。liru，nvrenjiuhuilijijiangkanjingsongdianyingzaochengdexintiaoguosulejieweishenpangyixingpengyoudeyouhuoli。zheijiuguishuyunanrenyouyiyingyongcuowuguiyin，jinershinvxingduizishenzaochenghunqianmengyingdejuede。

 yiyangde，nvrenhaikeyishanyongcuowuguiyin。nanhaihenvhaidiyicijianmianjiqixiangchuqinei，yaoweichicengcigan，duoxiaorongshaoshuohua，neiyangdegerenxingweihuirangnanrenjuedejiaolvbuan，yiju“diaoqiaoxiaoying”，nanrendangranjiuhuijiangqiguiyouyunvrendefengcai，jinermishangzheiyinvren。

ciwai，nvrenduinanrenzhuyaobiaoxianchuqinpei、shangxijihaowuyiwen，yehuiyinqinanrendecuowuguiyin。

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nanrenjiedaozheiyixinxineironghou，youerzhongbuliangyingxiang：

 diyi，tataoyanzheiyinvren，keshihuiduizheiyinvrenxiangyouhaogandu，gengjinyibu，tahuishizheiyinvrenweizhixin，juedezheiyinvrenlejiezishen。nvrenduoyigepenyou，bufangyishini。

dier，nanrenxiaizheiyinvren，neimajiuhuixiangnvrenjinxingzhuiqiuwanmeijingong。

 suirannvrenxiangnanrenchuansongchu“rongyidedaoxing”dexinxineirong，danshishishangxuanzedezhudaoquanhuanshibawozainvrenshoushang。zhenduinanrendejijizhuiqiuwanmei，jienashifoujiqifazhanqushijinzhanhuanshiyounvrenzishenjuece。

 zheishi，nanrenganjuenvrenbianyuchenggong，danzaizhuiqiuwanmeizhongnvrenbingmeiyoulikejiena。nanrenjiuhuisikaozaiqizhongdeyuanyin，yaobushinvrentaihao，yaobushizishenbutaihao。nvrenzheibanqinpeizishen，biaomingzishenfeichanghao，neimanvrenmeiyoujienazishendeyuangubianshinvrentaihao，genjucuowuguiyin，nanrenhuiyufabeinvrendefengcaixiyinzhu，gengweijijidizhuiqiuwanmeinvren。

 wohaizaibiedeshuli，ainidelianggewo,haijiandaoguo2geyingyongcuowuguiyindelianaixiaojiqiao。yigeshizaixiangchuqianqi，duilingyifangkaizhanjinmideyanguangningshi，youliyulingyifangaishangleni;lingyigeshilisuoyingdangdiranglingyifangjinizuoshiqing，genjuzengjialingyifangduinidechendianchengben，kaiqizhangqixingdehunyinguanxi。