爱上怎样的人?两性关系中的谈判技巧

 aishitiande,zairichangshenghuozhong，jingchanghuichanshengxialiejileiqingjing：neimeaishiliudongdeyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishangzenyangderendewenzhangba。

mamagenerzishuo：“nizuowanzuoye，woyepeiniquertongyouleyuanwan。”

jiaoshigenxueyuanshuo：“ciciqimokao，jiarubanlijunfennengjinbanjiqiansan，neimejiumeiyoushujiazuoye。”

xifugenzhangfushuo：“zhangfu，nijiangyifukuzixileba，yifukuzizangle，haoweihainidekushuaini。”

 zaizheigequanshijie，jiaoshe，meishimeishimeikedouhuichansheng。jiaoshebingbingbushirudajiaxiangxiangdehuoshishuji、dianshilianxujuligouledeneiban，xianghujinjinweiraozheyigedayuanzhuozuoxialai，chunqiangshezhan，laiquziru。wenzhongkaichangdesangeqingjing，shishishangdouguishuyujiaoshe。

 richangshenghuoxuduo shierdoubixujiaoshe，liru，nongmaoshichangliyoulianggehuotandouhuimaimalingshu，aishitiande,weilegenghaodishichangjingzheng，nimai5yuanqian，woyemai4yuan，nizaijiangzhi3yuan5jiao，woye3yuan，tashiboyi，zheileiboyidejieguozhiyoushibuleguande、tongguiyujin。zheigeshihou，shidejiejuefanganbianshibicizuoxialaijiaoshe，shangyichuyigeshiquanshimeidefangfa。

neima，gaizenyangjiaosheni?jiaoshezhongyoushenmeyaodianni?dajiaxianlaipouxihaoduogejiaoshebiaozhun。

jiaoshebiaozhunyi：yangzhangbiduanbiaozhun

zaijiaoshedeqingkuangxia，gaozhilingyifang，nenghuodeshenmehaochu(youshishi)，buranjianghuodenaxiebiduan(hehushi)。

 jidahuoerjugeshili，lirur“zhangfu，nijintianqubazujinjiaoleba。ruguobugankuaijiaodehua，fangzhujiuxuyaozhuanzengjibierenle，rujinzheigedifangjiaotongchuxingbianjie、cangkushineikongjianda，bingqiejiaqianhaihuasuan(yongyichuyoushi)，jiarucuoguolezheiyi，womennanyizaizudaoneimeshihedele(yongbiduanhehu)。”

jiaoshebiaozhuner：jiaxinrenrangbiaozhun

 zheiyibiaozhun，bianshizuixianmingquetichuyigebizishenyuguxuqiugengfukuadexuqiu，zaoshoulingyifanghuijuehou，zaimingquetichuzishenbenlaidexuqiu，biaocengshangkanqilaizuochulerenrang。neiyangdeqingkuangxia，lingyifangjiugengyoukenengjienanidexuqiu。

zaiwangshangyouyigejingdiandeyuenvwangfangfa：

 diyiciyuenvwang，chengyiqunpenyouhoutianxingyaoquyigedaoyuwansantian，yaoyuenvwangjiebanyou。nvwanghaowuyiwenhuihuijue。beijujuehou，ranhoubianshuo，neimingtianwodeshengripaidui，dahuoerlaibangwosongbie，ninengbunengshangguanglaipenggechangni?

 zheigeshihou，nvwangyouyuqianbianzaoyijujueleyici，yingduidiergeyaoqiu，congxinliguochengkaolv，nanyizaibaozhenghuijuedierci。bingqiediercideguiding，yudiyiciduibijianshaolexuduo ，yiner，lijingbizhao，nvwangdejingtixinyedilexuduo ，zuizhongnvwangyibanbianhuiyuanyile。ershijishangdiaosideyuanyi，bianshixiangrangnvwanglaibaomingcanjiashengripaidui，qianbiandehaidaoyoujinjinyigeqihaoeryi。

jiaoshebiaozhunsan：jianmobiaozhun

dangmeiyouzhangwoshierhuoshijushijiangruhefazhanqushideqingkuangxia，mingquetichuzishendexuqiu，suihouzhuanglongzuoya。

 cengjingdewotingyigeyingxiaozhuanjiashuoguoyigehenjingdiandetanpancelve。maiyigeshangpin，dangyingduiguketaojiahaijia，zishenbiaomingchengbenjia，suihoujiujianmo。yidansheixianzhangkou，sheijiushudiao。danggukexianzhangkou，tahaowuyiwenbianshiyaomaixialaizheigedongxile。

 youyumeiyigerenbennengfanyinglidoushihuiyaoxiangdapojiangju，yinci yaokezhizijidebennengfanying，suihouqiadangdiyunyongjianmo。danglingyifangbaituolejianmo，niyejiuzhandelezhudongquan。jiaoshezhong，bingbushishuosheizhanyoulezhudaoquanjishiying，zhishikanzuihousheidedao lexingjiabigao，jieguoduisheiyouyi，zheicaisuanying!

sanbiaozhunyiwai，jiaosheshihaiyouyigeguanjiandian，jixuqiudesanbutuidongfa：diyibu，tichuyaoqiuhuomeirirenwu;

dierbu，pouxiliyiguanxi，weixieliyou;

disanbu，quelibingyangezhixingxuqiu。

 jugeshili，laopoduilaogongshuo：“zhangfu，mingriqubachexileba(tichuyaoqiu，biaomingmeirirenwu)，guoliangtiannidepengyoubingbushiyaolaima，bierenjiandaowojiacheneimezangyebudahao，haihuijixuweihainidepinpaixingxiangni(xiepo)!bingqiezheijitiantianqiqinglang，jiexiaququanshidaqingtian，xilecheyaoweichihaojitian(youshi)。neiyangba，mingrixiabanlawozhufan，dengzhenixichedianhouhuijiale(zaiduquelixuqiu)。”

zheijiushiyichangjizhidejiaoshe，ranglingyifangwufajujue。

aishiliudongde,    zuizhongzaigendahuoergongxiangyiduanjingdiandehuihua：

xifuwen：“zhangfu，nishidaiwanihuanshixichuangdan?”

丈夫：“洗床单。”

guoleyihuier，xifuwen：“zhangfu，nishidaiwanihuanshishuawan?”

丈夫：“刷碗。”

youguoquleyiduanshijian，xifuyouwen：“zhangfu，nishidaiwanihuanshituodiban?”

丈夫：“拖地板。”

zuizhong，aishangzenyangderen?xifushuo：“zhangfu，niqiaowodaileyitianxiaohaile，niqupeibanxiaohaiba