爱上怎样的人?情侣间的说话技巧

 aishitiande,youyigefensiwenlewoneiyangyigenanti：“henanpengyoukuaijielehun，shuodaoyigenanti，bianshijiarujiehunhoutahuranguoshi(jiadingyishengwadezhuangkuang)，wonengburongyizaihun?”ruhedabijiaohao?wojiangzheigewentifangdaoweiboshangrangwangmindoulaihuiying，huidawuhuabamen，youxierendadefeichanghao，youxierenfangfozijuededadetingbucuo，shijishangshibuqingchuzheinantizhongdedongtian。wojidahuoerpouxiyixia。neimeaishiliudongdeyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishangzenyangderendewenzhangba。

 xianeryanshuotichuwentidenvhaiershizenmehuidade：tashuohuidengxiaohaizhangdale、huodakailangyihouwenxiaohai，xibuqidairangmuqinzaijia，jiaruxiaohaiyuanyidehua，tabianhuichujia。yincitananyoubianshuo，ruguoneiyangtahuixieyigezichanshenming，jiaruxiaohaiyuanyitaniangchujia，zhihoudecaichanjiuyebujitamen。

 congzheigewentihehuiyingzhongdajiakandechulenaxie?wangminhuiyingzhonghezheixiangjindehuidayeyou“jiarubiaozhunhaojiuzishenyanghaizi，biaozhunbutaihaojiuchujiajiwoyanghaizi”“jiarulingyifangnengkuanrongwodehaizi，duitahao，weilegenghaodiyijialaoxiao，huijia。”xianbuyongshuonvrenzaizhangfuguoshiyihouzaihunrenzhengyichang，jinjinnanrenxianzhubuqidaizishendexifuzaijia，dechuzheileihuidadenvhaiershifouyetaichengxinleni?jiufangfojiarunixunwenninanyou，“nihewomayiqidiaoshuizhonglejiushei”denanti，lingyifangshuo：“wobuzhidao，nimenliangsheiliwojinwoyejiusheiba!”nitingleshangbuyishanghuo?jiaruniwenzhangfu：“ninengshuoaiwoyibeizima?”tahuiyingshuo：“xianzaiwohenaizheni，keshiyi_zineimazhang，woyebumingquezishenshifouhuiaizhenineimejiu，danzuishaorujinwoshiainide。”bierenmeisahuangba?kenixiangtingma?

 suoyishuo，jianghualiusanfen，biequeshidetaiguofenle。jiusuanshiyijianzhenlidekeguanxing，niyemeiyoubixubuyiyulidisuoyouxushuchulai。aishitiande,genghekuangqinglvzhijianzheileinantiyuanbenbianshijiashexingde，nilanmanrouqingsishuidihuiyinglingyifang，jiukeyibianchengliangrenganqingdediaoliji;nilaiyongxinxiangxiangzheizhongshierchanshengyihoudechangjing，suihoulizhidipouxiliyubidedaoyige“haoyong”dejieguo，chukaihuihuaileqinggan，youmeiyoushenmeyong?

 shubuzhi，xinlideqingganhexintaishikeyiyongnixuyaodefangfaxushuchuqude。xiangtichuwentizheiyinvhaierpengdaodezheigewenti，lijihuita，“nisileyinweiwoxiangsile!”zheiyekendingshishuoshihua!suoyourenjiaruzhangfuhuranguoshi，haowuyiwendoushihuiganjuexiangsile。danbuxianghuoyoubushijiniqueshisiqu，yikaishiyidinghuihennanguo，keshiguo2nianjianjiandihenyoukenengbianhuiganjuehaodian，laidaodisannian，huoxupengdaogeshihede，jiujiale!jinguanzheizhongshigenghenyoukenenghuichanshengdeshier，danshinidequemeiyoubixubatamendoulijuyixiasuihoushuochulai。nizhibixushitalejie，dangtameiyoushi，ni“xiangsile”deqingxujiukeyile。jishitazaibiwen，niyeyaoyizhaozheiyiluojisiweijianchixiaqu，erbushiranhoutadenantiquxiangxiangjiujingxubuxuyaochujia、yaojiageshenmeyangderendeng。

 aishiliudongde,woxiangjiaodajiadebianshi：chengxindibiaoshuchunidexintaihexintai，bubiqujiangshuobailedezhenlidekeguanxing。gengguanjiandeshi：jiaruniduilingyifangyouzaiyi、zhiaidengqinggan，yaoxuehaoyonggengweireqingdefangfabiaomingchuqu，bubigongbibaimiao，gengbubiyizhitamen。youyuhuajinrutarenerduoliyihou，shihuibeilingyifangzaixinlidayigezhekouyouhuide。congniyaoxiangbiaoshudeganqingdaonijuedechurukou、daolingyifangtingjiannishuodehua，zaidaotarenweidenixiangshuodehua，zheimeduojieduan，jiarumeiyihuandoudagezhe，neimayigelianjichulai，nizuichudeneiyidianerjiqingzaoyiliaoliaowujile。shijishangzheileiyuyanjiqiaobudanjinxianyufufuqinglvzhijian，kandaiqinren、pengyou、penyou、lingdao，quanshibixude。

 zaijiangyigeqingjingyunyonggongxiangjidahuoer：ruguoyouyitiannizhengguangjiegouwugouwu，maiwanhuranxiangdaojintiannanpengyoushengri，yikanzishenqianjiayeyou89kuaiqian。niyongzhei89yuanjinanpengyoumailaiyigedangao。zaisongtashengridangaodeqingkuangxia，niyinggaishuo：

 aishangzenyangderen?“qinaidede，jinrizaiwaimianhuiyiqinishengchen，wojiuyongdeshenshangquanbudeqianrangnimailaiyigelipin，zhunishengrikuaile!”erbunengshuo：“jinriguangleyitianjie，yifukuzixiezibaobaogaimaidewupindoumaiwanhou，kudoujiusheng89yuanle，caixiangdaojiushinishengchen，zhiyourangnimaigedangaole。”yigezhenlidekeguanxing，meiyoubixubuyiyulidisuoyoulijixushuchulai，chucizhiwaibiaoshuyeshiyouduozhongduoyangbiaodaxingshi。zheizhongquanshibixuwomennulixuexide、yibeizidekecheng。