爱的永恒,即使邀约遭拒也能变成机会的方法

 aidoushiduide,keyihelingyifanglianxilaiwangyihou，jiuxuyaogengjinyibujindao「mingquetichuyaoqing」dehuanjiele。neima，tanruheyaoqinglingyifangni?neimeaideyonghengyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaideyuyandewenzhangba。

 dabufenderendoushihuixiangshuojiranyuelelingyifang，ziranqidailingyifangkeyishuook，yinciyizhisisuozheyaozenmezuocaikeyiranglingyifangtongyi。

 keshi，meiquchangshiyaoqing，jiuburongyilejiekefouhuodeokdehuiying。nijiushizheiyangdongxiangxixiang，wulunguoquleduozhangshijianyemeiyouguzuyongqi，zheishihoujiarubeilingyifanghuijue，yihoubianhuishifenxiaochenba。shijishang，yagenwuxuxiangdeneimashencengci。wolaigaosunifeichangjiandandefangshiba

neibianshi「lijimingquetichuyaoqing」，zheiqueshibijiaojiandanba。

 liangzhezhijianxiangfangshefayaoranglingyifangtongyiyaoqing，huozhedanyouzheiyikunaonage，tiyinibibushangchangshixiajuexinlijimingquetichuyaoqing。

 「danwoneiyanglijiyaoqingta，shifouhuilingtajuedebushuangni?」nineixinhuineimexiangba。niyaodeyidiandoumeiyoucuo!kaolvbuzhoudeyaoqingqueshihuilingrenfangan。

 yiner，「mingquetichuyaoqingyihoudejiejue」shifeichangguanjiande。jinixiangyixiangmingquetichuyaoqingyihoudeqingkuangma?biru，aidoushiduide,niyuelingyifangshuo：「xubuxuyaoqu○○」?jiarulingyifanghuiying「no」，nixuyaozenmezuoni?jiaruhuiying「yes

 」dehuayouyaozenmezuoni?zailingyifanghuiyingyihounidejiejuexintai，bimingquetichuyaoqingzheijianshiqinghailaideguanjian。zenmerangtajibian jiedaoyaoqingyebuhuibukaixin。zheijiudekannizenmehuifule。wojutidishuomingyixiaba。birushuo，nixianjuecehaoyaozenmezuo。ranhouxianglingyifangtaiyangshengqiyaoqing，jiaruhuiyingshi「no」dehua，jiutanchenghuiyingshuo「zhenyihan!」cike，haijideyibandaixiaoyedeleguanxintailaihuiying。yaoliuyibienongcuole，nikeyibieyouyuandihuiying：「zheiyanga……」zheileidehuarangfenweibianhouzhong。

qijinweizhi，wulunshitanlianaihuoshangtan，yinweiwocengbeitarenqiangshidihuijueguojiwankuaicile。

zaizheigeshihou，jiaruyilianshifenquehanyihandemoyangliqudehua，dequejiumeiyouxiayicidejiyule。

 fanguolaidi，ruguoshihuiying：「a，zhenyihan!neima，xiayicizaishuoba」，suihoukailangdiliqu，bianhuilingrenliuyouleguantongkuaideyinxiang。yihou，danglingyifangxiangdao「zhengquele，neishiwojujuele，neirujinlaiyueyueyixiaba!」deqingkuangxia，yekeyiqingqingsongsongdiweinimingquetichuyaoqing。yiner，yaoqinglingyifangyihou，tianjiahuode「bushang，huanshibubihaola」neiyangdehuiying，haiyaojiazhuangwenzhongdishuo：「shie~jianzhiyihan!」suihoubahuajiangwan，nizijibazheiyijianshierqingqingsongsongdaiguo，jiuburongyiranglingyifangjuedeshitaiyanzhong，fenweiyebuhuibianzao。

 zailejieyansurenzhendeshihuolingyifangwufahuiyingdeshishi，shirutongneiyangkailanglijiditiwen。liangzhezhijiandanzhanxinjing、zhuanwanmojiaoditichuwenti，suihouyouqingxuxiaochen，haibibushangkailanglijiyidian，neimezuozaixinlijiankangshangeryanyebijiaohao。

 gancuililuotiwen，gancuililuodaiguo，yaoshineimezuodehua，nijirendeyinxiangbianhuibianhao。youyulingyifangnenggouqingqingsongsongdihuijueni，yejiuburongyiweilegenghaodiduonierbibujianmian。yaoshiweichileguangancuililuodexintai，lingyifangdenohuoxuxiayicijiubianweiyesle。fuhexingdezhongyao——xunzhaozhangwolingyifangqingxudejidaguanjiandianzaicaicelingyifangqingxudeqingkuangxia，xianlejiexialieguanjiandiandehuahuishifenheli。

•jiaruzuoshenmeshiqinglingyifangbianhuikaixin

 •yidanzuoshenmeshiqinglingyifangbianhuifahuozheiliangxiangbianshizhangwolingyifangdeqingxudeguanjiandian。youyu，worenweihenduorenfenshoudeyuanyindoushiyouyu「shuozhonglingyifangzhongyao」deyuanyin。biru，yiqizhixiajiuzhizelingyifangzuizaihudeyibufen，huozhewanxiaoqingkuangxiapengdaolingyifangdezhadanzheixie。yixieshierdajiajuedemeiyoushenmelebuqi，danduimouxiereneryanqueganjuezheidadadesunhailetadezizunxin。

niyaobuyaochangshihuiyiyixiani?

jinguanpinlemingkuazanlingyifangfeichanghao，danlingyifangdefanyingquebingbushifeichanghao，yiqianyoumuyouzheileigongzuojingyanni?

 yeyou，shifoujingliyouyubujingyishangshuodeyijuhuaeryinqizhengchaodegongzuojingyanni?kuazanlingyifangquefanyingbujiashi，jinguanyehenyoukenengshiyouyulingyifangxiuse，dangenggaodeyuanguyexushikuazandeguanjiandianbudui。

aideyuyan,「qidaitarenkuazandebingbingbushizheiyidian……」huoxulingyifangdeneixinshineimexiangde。

 zaijinxingfuhexingxingdongdequanguochengzhong，jiarunengranglingyifangqingxukaixindehua，jinduyehuigengweixunsu。fanguolaidi，tangruobuqingchulingyifangdenudian，wucaidileiquerranglingyifangbushuang，henyoukenengjiulifuhexingzhituyuelaiyuemanzhangle。

yiner，qidaininengchongzuzhangwohuizhilingyifanggaoxingdedian、fahuodedianzheiliangxiangguanjiandian。

 neima，gaizenmezuocaikeyizhengquerenshilingyifangdeguanjiandianni?chukaicongshenghuoqijuzhongjizhongjingliquguanchawai，jiyuzhixin。jinguanhaikeyichangshishuogezhonggeyanghualaichaxunlingyifangdefanying，keshineimezuodehua，yeshiyouhenyoukenenghuidaozhiwufawanjiudejushi。

 yiner，aideyongheng,niyaoqinfencongpingshirichangshenghuozhangwozhulingyifangyinyiweihaodeshier、youxinxindeshierjiqichangchangzaigoutongjiaoliuzhongchuxiandehuatitaolunzheixie。

jiarulingyifangduigongzuozhongjuedeyinyiweihao，yidanyonggongzuozhongdeshierlaikuazanta，tabianhuijuedegaoxing。

 jiaruchangchangtanlundaojianshenyundongdehuatitaolun，aideyongheng,neimakuazanlingyifangshenjingxitongfeichanghaodehua，tayexuhuifeichangkaixin。