恋爱的法则之如何安然度过七年之痒

 lianaidesigejieduanyounasige？qinianzhiyangshijindaohunyinshenghuodenanhaihenvhaizuinanduxishuguodefuben，hunyinshenghuolaidaodiqinianbicijuedebushangyiqieshenmigan，ganqingdepijuan、richangshenghuodepingpingdandan、quexiandepulu、hexinliniandebuyiyangrangxuduo fufuyishidaohunyinshenghuozhonganhandenanti，ruchulizheiyinanti，qinianzhiyangfufukexinranduguo，meiyouchulihunyinshenghuozehuijieshu。neimelianaidinglvyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaidefaze,dewenzhangba。

 henduoren，youqishinvxingjuedeqinianzhiyangjiaoda deweijishihunwailian，shijishangbingbushi，qinianzhiyangjiaoda deweijishifufubicimeifaxianghupeihe。lianaidesigejieduanyounasige？youyuhenduonianlaifazhanqushiyundongguijidebuyiyang，zhengtishilidechaju，gongtonghuatidejiangdirangbicigoutongjiaoliuyuelaiyuedi，biaoshuganqingshiyouyushushierbuyongyangaizaocheng lingyifangyizhizuizhijiedebeisunhai。jiaruninenglejiedaoqinianzhiyangchanshengdenanti，gaohaojiehunqianfangzhi，jiehunhoushixing，shijishangqinianzhihouyebuhuiyang，qinianzhiyangdangranxinranduguo。

1、无私奉献核心理念

 hunyinshenghuozhongbubiyizhikekelingyifang，bubikongxianggenggailingyifang。wanhunyihounvxingbubidianjizhezishennengcongtaneibianhuodenaxie，zhishixiangqininenggoujilingyifangnaxie?shenghuoqijuzhongfazifeifudeweilingyifangzuodianshenme，jibian jitamenyigewen，yigexiaorongdounengjuyoufeichanghaodeshijixiaoguo。

2、留有室内空间

 lianaidefaze,hunyinshenghuoshiyaojiaojilingyifangshineikongjian，meiyousuiyidehunyinshenghuozhongjiumaixiangshenwang。shijishangjilingyifangliushineikongjianbianshiweizijiliushineikongjian，jiehunhouhaiyaoyouzishendeweixinpengyouquan，bubiyizhijinjinweiraonansheng、xiaohaizhuan，nixuyaoyouzishendejingshenzhizhu，yaomingbaichixudetigaoziji。

3、调节希望

 bubibaojingligaodexiwang。xiwangguogaoheshijidechajuyueda，zheihuijixianghudaozhifeichangdadegongzuoyali。nixuyaozhaodezhixiqinshushizuiheshinideerbushishide，yaolejieshidebuyidingheshini。

4、挑选离异

 lianaidinglv,jiaruwanhunyihouxianghudoujuedezheiyiduanhunyinshenghuoshibuzhengquede，jiarutaganleniwufarongrendeshier，hebutiaoxuanliyi。xuduo nvxinghaipaliyi，hunhundundundeguozhehunhoushenghuo，tashiduizishenjiaoda decuican，youshiliyishishidetiaoxuan。danshilihunhouniyidingyaomingbaifanshengziji，tongyangdebuzhengquebunengzaicifasheng，neiyangnixiayiduanhunhoushenghuocaihuixingfukuaile。