恋爱的法则之没有结果的感情

 lianaidesigejieduanyounasige？babamamalaoshigennizhuzhong，yaozhaoyigefuyoudemubiao，pianyaonimeiyigenanyouquanshiqiongren;zixiaobabamamajiuduinijiaodaoyanke，pianyaonimeiyigenvyoudouhensuiyi;zixiaobabajiubuzuweixun，chuanxiangzhushizuiguanjiandeshi，pianyaonidenvyoubingbushibukeyisheng，bianshibuyuansheng……neimelianaidinglvyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanlianaidefaze,dewenzhangba。

一、你在意另一方比较多

 niyizhizaichuduixiang，quebuquedingxinglingyifangdeniantou;nijuededajiahenshihe，tafangfobuyiweiyi;tameiyoushinitexiangta，nibuzaishitafangfomeiqubie，zheibiaoshishenme?

 “errenruobuyiyangxin，qiketongxingyeni?”youshihuichuxianyifangailingyifangjiaoduodeqingkuang，ruoshizaiwanshandeqingganzhong，huichuxiangengtidezhuangkuang，lianggerenlunzheshiyanzhuiqiuwanmeihebeizhuiqiuwanmeiderenwujiaose;danruguoyouyifangyizhishiyanyixingpengyou，neiyangdeqingganbuwanshan，chijiuxialai，ninengduiainannai，ninengganjueshoulingyifangcaozong，ninengjuedenaonu、shangdangshoupian、tongchu。

二、你爱的是另一方的发展潜力

 niaideshilingyifangdefazhanqianli，erbushilingyifangzhenshidemoyang，niaideshilingyifangjianglaihenyoukenengdemoyang，neitayagenbushinideairen，zhishinigengxingaizaodemubiao。

 dajiameiyicizuojiehunqiankehoufudaodoushihuiwen，jiarulingyifangwushinianneidoushizhongbubian，ninenglingrenmanyima?jiaruniyizhiqidainenggenggailingyifang，caiganjuelingrenmanyi，neimejiubingbushiai，zhishiduqian，yongbicidehuanlezuoweichouma。

 nigenyigerenxiangchushi，yaoaihezhongshilingyifangdezhenxiang，erbushitajianglaidemoyang，ninengqidaitazaicifazhan，lianaidesigejieduanyounasige？danniwubilingrenmanyitarujindemoyang。

三、你要想协助另一方

 nichangganjuelingyifanghenkelingma?nijuedezishenyouyiwuxiezhulingyifangzhenzuoma?nishifouhuidanxinjiaruliqulingyifang，tahuichibuxiaoyanlidaji?ruguoshi，niyexushige“jiunankuang”。

 “jiunankuang”burongyiquzhaoyigeshihedemubiao，zhishizhaoyigetasuolianmin、nenggouxiezhudemubiao。zhaoyigeshoudaowaishang、mingan、yikao、bushenai、biequderen，niyoulianshengai，tahuiduinixincunganxie，neiyangdeqingganhaoxiangyixiangyuanjiumeirirenwu，erbushiwanshan、junhengdeqinggan。

 lianaidefaze,zheieryaomingjideguanjianshi“zhongshi”，niaidemubiaowubijiushinikeyizhongshideren，niwubiyilingyifangweirong，nideairenbubinideyuanjiu，zhishixiangyaonizhenshizhangwota。

四、把另一方作为钦佩的目标

 nianqingdenvxingmishangdianyingdaoyan、xueshengmishangzhuanjiajiaoshou、wenmimishanglaozong……，mishangsuoqinpeidemubiao，zheileiqinggannanyibaochiyiqiezhengchang，youyulianggerenzhongjianmeifagongpingkandai。

 shuangfangwubiyaogongpingkandai，bushiwozhiyingxiangli，zhishixintai，bukeyiguoduoqinpeilingyifang。huimishangsuoqinpeimubiaoderen，yibanxinxinxiaochen，tamenganjuezishenhencaogao。

五、你仅仅被另一方表面吸引住

 meigerendouneiyang，duibudui?jiarunichajuezijibeilingyifangdemouyitexingshenshendixiyinzhu，yaowenyixiaziji，ruolingyifangmeiyouyishuangshenlansededayan、cixingdeshengyin……，ruolingyifangbingbushimote、burongyidalanqiu……，wodouhuigenta(ta)zaiyiqima?

六、短暂性无话不说的机遇

 lianaidinglv,niyulingyifangfentanmouyigongzuozhong，jingchangyaoyiqijiabanjiadian，yincinijuedeaishanglelingyifang……。niqudujiasanzhou，lejieyigeyelaixiuxiandujiadenansheng，nijuedehaoxiangzhuiruaihe……。duanzanxingdewuhuabushuo，jiushizhizaiteshuqingkuangxiacouzaiyikuai，bingbingbushijiben，zheileiqingganbukeyizhangjiu，youyuduanqineidewuhuabushuo，meifashinichedizhangwolingyifangdegexinghua。