恋爱的味道什么呢？借势顺力而为方得完美婚姻

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 “wozixiaodequejiujiaoweidandu，feichangshuoaiwozhangfu，buyuanjitamenzhaomafanpatajianxin，lianaideyiyiyoushenmeni？yinci rutongzhaoliaoyigehaiziyiyangdizhaoliaota……”yiweishiyeyouchengdenvshichuangyezheneiyangjiangdao。keshiniqingchuma?yigewurennengdideqizibingbingbushinanrenchongjingde，zaineiyangdeziranhuanjingxia，nanrenmenjingchangjuedebushangbeiyikaobeixinrenganhebeixuyao，naizhi，taganjuezaizheigejiazhong，tabingbuzhongyao。hanguodianshiju《meiguirensheng》，zaiqizhongjiuhuiyouneiyangyigeqingjie，nanzhupaoxiaqizilingzhaoxingbanlvdeyuanyinshi：“nihenwanqiang，meiyouwowusuowei;ketazhenkelian，lilewotahuichengbuxiaqu!”zheibiaomingbixubeiyikaodejuededuinanreneryanhenzhongyao。

 dajiarichangshenghuotongchanghuijiandaohenduodezhichangnvren，tamenshiyechenggong，danshizuihoudejieguoshijiazhongliekai，gushenyiren，ziranyishen。yiweishiyechenggongdenvxingjiucengnaonudijiangdao：“womeitianzaiwaimianleichenggou，taquenazheduozhuandeqiandaowaibianbaoyangnvdaxueshengernai!zheileishierwonanyirenshou，jiulilehunshi!”shijishang，zheimingnvxingjiuguishuyuhenaixianshixinxizishengongzuonenglidenvren，congbuhuizaizhangfudeyanqianshiruo，naizhiyaosuichuyaguozhangfu。zaiqiyeneiwaizhiyinxuduodenanren，laidaojiazhongyejiuzhiyinzishendezhangfu。zaishehuifazhanshangchupengdaodequanshimingshi，kanyixiazheizhongqudechenggongdenanren，zaichanghuijiakankanzishendezhangfu，zhenyixielannifubushangqiangdejuede。zhangciyiwang，ganjuezishendezhangfuruhekanyebukanbuguan，zhangfuyebukanchengshou，zaizishenqizizheierwufadedaozizunhewennuan，jiuzaikongjizhongquwaibianzhaoxunrouqingsishui。

 hunyinshenghuozhongnvrende“shiruo”、“maimeng”shizuilihaidewuqizhuangbei，tawulengwujiao，quenenggoumoqunanrendebianjiao。tahuibananrenjinruzaiwenrouxiangli，yirufanzhangdijiangfenqixiaochu，yong“yirouzhigang”laixingrongnvrende“shiruo”zaishidangdanshile。shiruojinjinyizhongfangshi，shiqiangcaisuanshimudi，zhenshihuishiruodenvren，shishishangshigehuizhangkongnanrendezuiqiangzhe。

 dangdaidehunyinshenghuozhong，jingjifazhanzhanzhudaoxingdeyibujinjinnanren，youdenvrenbizhangfudediwei、wenping、shouyidougao，ruoshiyudaojiusixiangqiangyidiandezhangfu，conghuidenvrenjiukeyiyong“shiruo”laijunhenglingyifangdexinlizhuangtai，zaijialishoulongguangmang，pingjingdikandaizhangfu，yiyikelianghaodexintaiquyingduirichangshenghuo。zhenshidedananren，jinguanzuibianbuyongshuo，neixinquehuilejieqizidebiequ，qiziyuefa“shiruo”，tayuehuiduiqizigengchongni，zheiyuyitiandaowanchenjinzaitongguiyujindezhengzhizhongduibi，jianzhitiantangyudiyudequbie。

 congxinlixuelilunshangjiang，wangluoyulunshihuipianzhongnaizhipianxiangzheixiekanqilaijiaochadeyifangde，nvrenderuanruotongchanghuiyingdewangluoyulundeguangfanzhichi，jibian shiyinweibicinaizhinvxingdenantierzaocheng liyihuoshishijiazhongliekai，nvrendounenggouhuodedaliangdewangluoyulundeliting。yinci conghuidemaimengnvquanshixinliwanqiang，biaomianruanruodenvren，neiyangdenvrenyetongchanggengfeichangrongyihuodeyoufuzhirenrenshengdaolu。yuefashanyushiruodenvrenxinliyejiuyuewanshan。fanguolai，biaocengqiangdadenvren，shijishangganghaoshipiekaileshehuifazhanshouyutadeyushengjulaideshidewuqizhuangbei，ercushizishenshenxianchuyubeidongdangzhong。

 lianaidewendu,jiajuguoshenghuo，mianbulekekebanban，conghuideqizi，fajuejiazhongyoushenmewentishi，runengxuehaozaihunhoushenghuozhongdixiatou，mingbailejiji、lijidizaizhangfuyanqianshiruo，zhengduohefenqitongtongdounengjiejue，shimianlinwajiedehunyinshenghuo，zaicizhaodaodangshidetianmei、wennuan。maimengnvxuehuileneidixiatoudewenrou，nanrenmenbianhuichenzuizai“zuishineiyidixiatoudewenrou，xiangyiduoshuilianhuabudilengfengdexiuse”defengyunzhong。

 ziran，nvrenshiruobingbingbushimingan，gengbingbushirouruo，neijinjinrangjiazhonggenghemeilideyidianerxiaoconghui。shiruo——shuobailebianshizhanxianzishenderouruo。nvrenyingxuehaoshiruo，gengyaoshanyushiruo，xiaochuzishendeguanghui，chongzuzhongshilingyifang。zheileishiruobingbushizhenshiderouruo，zhishiyizhongjijizhangworichangshenghuodexinxinhetanran，yifenqianqianderuanruo，zaojiuleyifennongnonghuanle，nanrenbianhuijuedezishenxiangjunwangyiyanghuanle，youyutajizheyouyigebixutaweihudejia，jiazhongyouyigebixutaguanaidenvren，tadexinyejiushizhongliudaoletadewangguoli。nanrendoutaoyannvrentaiqianghan，taiqianghandenvrenfandaorangnanrenjuedebushangwennuan，nanyiyutafenxiangxingfu。

 lianaideweidaoshishenmeni？yanglanshuo：“heshichengneng，heshishiruo，shiyigenvrendeaiyuconghui。”doushuonvrensishui，shuiweizuiruanruode，queyoukeyishuidishichuan，yinernvrenyingxuehaoyirouzhigang，zaihaonanrenyanqian，ruoyidiangengbeibierenai。nvren“shiruo”yao“shidaoqiao、shidaomiao”，qiaruqifencaisuanshishangshangce，zainanrenyanli，nvrendewenrou、minganhetingcongshijishangbianshiyizhongnengliang。