爱一个人是什么感觉？不可思议的沉默技巧

 aiyigerenyoucuoma？rutong“chenmoshijin”zheijuhuamingyan，chenmoshiyouzhangyuanshijiyiyide。danyijianmoeryan，zishensuoshengchanzhizaodejianmo，yulingyifangsuoshengchanzhizaodejianmo，queshiyoubuyiyangshijiyiyide。zheierjiulaibiaomingzaigoutongjiaoliuzhong，lingyifangsuoshengchanzhizaodejianmodaodishiweishenme?neimeaiyigerenshishenmeganjueni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaiyigerenxuyaoliyoumadewenzhangba。

 duinvshieryanhenyoukenengnanyilejie，keshinanshengzheileiweishengwushihuihezijiduihuade。dangnanrenjianmoshi，jiuyiweizhetayijinghezishenkaizhanhuihua。

 renmenshimeifalingwaisisuoliangjianshierde，dangyigerenyijingjianghuashi，nanyilingwaidianjizhechediwuguanjinyaodeshier。huanjuhuashuo，huihuazhongdejianmo，yiweizhezaiyiqianchangshuodehuazhong，cunyouzhehuirangnanshengxianghezijiduihuadeneirong。

 ruguonirenwei，jianmoyiqiandehuihuashihenzhengliande，neimajiudenghounanshengzishendapojiangjuba!juedezheicijianmobutaimiao，ersuiyizaicijianghua，bingjikaolvbianhuanhuatitaolun，younizheilidanfangmianfachushengxiang、dapojiangju，youshishihenbuyinggaide。duinanshengeryan，jianmoyiweizhetayijingyaohe、xiaohuaxishoubujiusuotingjiandeshi，zheiduanshijianshiyaobazheizhongshiliudaoxinlideguanjianshijian。yinci ，shibubiweihainanxingdeliucheng，bufangnaixindengdai。zhongshinanxingjianmodeshijian，nengjinisuoliuyoudezhenglianyinxiangzhangtingzainanxingdexinli。

 keshi，yaoxianglejiezheicichenmoshizhengliandeyuanguhuanshifumianxinxideyuangusuodaozhi，jiuzhinengyikaoyiqiandetanxintanhuaneironghedangchangdefenweilaifenbianle。birulingyifangjingchangdizhuanhuankuaqilaidejiao，huonashouquchupengmianbu，wailuhenzaihushijiandemoyangdeng，zheizhongdaduoshuguishuyufumianxinxideshentiyuyan，zheishihouniyejiuyingdangyaonengfenbian，tadejianmoqueshibutaimiao!jiarulingyifangshiduiniyouxingquaihao，yaoxianglejiedaliangguanyunideshi，huozhezhangkaitadeshuangyan，aiyigerenyoucuoma？shifangchugengqiangdeguanghuideng，jiukeyipingdingshizhengliandejianmo!zuizhongyaodeshiyaojuedechulianggerenzhongjiandefenwei，erqiexiangbanfaquxianghupeihefenweilaijiejue。

 neima，danglingyifangshiyouyufumianxinxideyuangucaigangkaishijianmodehua，yougaizabanni?cike，jiuxuyaoxianglingyifangmingquetichulejie。

 rutongyiqianshuoguodeyiyang，renmenshimeifalingwaisisuoliangjianshierde。huanjuhuashuo，dangtayijingneixinyuzishenhuihuashi，shimeiyoubanfalingwaisisuoyujianmodeneirongchedibuxianggandeshierde。dangtazaiyunijianghuashi，naozhongkeyisisuode，jiujinyoutayijingxiangnimiaoshudeneirongbale(dangnanxingshiqingtingzheshi，queshinenggousisuoqitashier，keshinanxingyijingjianghuashi，nanyisisuoqitashier。)cike，jiuxuyaokaotiwenwentiranglingyifanghuiying，haoxiaochudiaotaxinlizheixiefumianxinxideyinsu。julilaishuo，bianshixiangzheizhongganjue：

nan：“zuowan，wodadianhuajini，nimeiyoujieni!”

(nanxingzaizheiliyihougangkaishijianmo，tazhenggangkaishizaixinlikehuanimeiyoujietadianhuadefumianxinxiyinxiang。)

nv：“baoqian，wojiangdianhuawangzaijialile!nirenweiwoneishihouyinggaizenmezuocaihaoni?”

(yingyongnantihuiyingta。)

男：“……”

(gangkaishibiaolubumanyi，biaomingnineishihouyingdangzuodegerenxingwei。)

nv：“yuanxianneibanzuojiukeyia!zhenhenbaoqian，wojuranxiangbudao!”

 xiangneiyang，yaoshiyingyongnantilaihuiyinglingyifang，nanxingsisuodeneirongbianhuicong“daguodianhuaniqueweijie”defumianxinxihuatitaolun，bianhuawei“xiwangnicaiyongshenmexingdong”deshierle!yaoshineirongzaochengzhuanbian，huatitaolunfangwuchaoxiangqitafangweijinxing，jiuhuiyoujiyuranglianggerendegoutongjiaoliuchaozhengliandefangweifazhanqushi。

 zheishihouruguomeiyoutiwenwenti，zhishiweilegenghaodidapojiangju，zhejidigangkaishimiaoshuhenduodetuoci，zhenshijiutaibuconghuile!youyuwulunneishituocihuanshiqitahuatitaolun，nanshengdoutingbujin，zongshijingjingdebaduinidefumianxinxiyinsukehuazaixinli。

bingbushinijuede，zhishiyaorangnanshengzhangkou。

它是十分关键的。

ciwai，keyipanduanlidiyunyongzheiyi“jianmodeshijian”deren，haikeyisuibiankantoulingyifangdehuanghua。

 nishibushiyeyiqianyouzheileigongzuojingyanni?aiyigerenxuyaoliyouma？ruguonixianglingyifanglejieduitabuhaodenantishi，nanxinghuibipingshishuodaliangdehualaibianbo，haojinijienatadebiaoshu。ruguonigangkaishijianmo，tabianhuiweilegenghaodidapojiangjuerbianbodegengxiangxi……。

 tashiyou“yaoxiangkuaidianerdadaoduizishenbuhaodeqingkuangdexinlizhuangtai”suoyinqidezhuangkuang，dajiayaoxiangyanzanghuanghuashi，youqifeichangrongyichuxianzheilei“bingzheng”。ruguonijianmochulai，lingyifangdeqingxubianhuijubian，tasuoxiangzaoshoudejiaolvqingxu，bianhuibianweiyujusuikoushuochu。

 zongguiyiju，pengdaofumianxinxiqingkuangdejianmoshi，yaohaijidetiwenwentilaizhuanhuachengshunxiangsisuo。jiarupengdaodeshiyouyuzhenglianyaosusuodaozhidejianmo，neimayaoshixianghupeihelingyifangdebufa，xixindengdaijiukeyi，zheijiushishanjialiyongjianmodejianghuashu!

 ciwai，ruguoniweilegenghaodihuihuaifumianxinxidejianmoqingkuangertiwenwentiyihou，rengyouyouqibixuliuyidediqu。neibianshidanglingyifanggangkaishizhenduinimingquetichudenantihuiyingshi，niwubicaiyongbiyiqiangengweiyongxindexintaiqulingtingcaixing。

 aiyigerenshishenmeganjue？benlaijiushinimingquetichudenanti，quebingbushihenliuyitingtashuodao，naizhizaibantuqieduanta，youmingquetichuqitahuatitaolun，ruguonishilingyifang，huiyounaxiejuedeni?yidinghuijuedeniduitayidianyeburenzhenba!huoxuhaihuijixuzaocheng“nibujiumingquetichudenantijinjindanchunxingdeyaoxiangzhuanyihuati”deyinxiang。zheiyangyilai，zongsuanbaituozheicifumianxinxidejianmoyeyuelaiyuemeiyouyiqieshijiyiyi，youyujiuneimeyishunjianjingyoudaozhilexindefumianxinxiyinxiangle。