什么才算爱?挑男友6大黄金原则

 shenmejiaoai?hunyinshenghuodejichulaiziliangrendeqinggan，ertanlianaibianshiwanchengzheiyizongtimubiaodequanguocheng。tangruodajiatiaoxuanleyigebuyidetanlianaimubiao，bujinhuiweihaidaodajiazhihoudetanlianaihefuqiguanxi，lingwai，yehenyoukenenghuimanyandaodaodajiayishengdexingfukuaile。neimeshenmeshiai?younaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanshenmecaisuanaidewenzhangba。

zaitiaoxuantanlianaimubiaoshi，yaoliuyixialiebiaozhun：

第一：挑选一个能给你掏钱的男生

 yigenengjinitaoqiandenansheng，biaomingtashizhenxinshiyiduiniyouganjuede。henduonvshengdouxiaizhaoyigefuyoudenanshengchuduixiang，shijishangzheibuyidingshihaoshier，huoxunibuguoshilingyifangshoujiyouxidemubiao，yinci ，dajiazhaonanyoushi，yaozhaozheixiexinganqingyuantaoqiandenansheng，dantabuyidingwubishishifenfuyouderen(ziran，yitiandaowanweiqianfanchoude、queyishaoshideyebuhao，neileinanshengyagenjiumeiyoulianaidetiaojian)，youyu，tanengjinitaoqian，biaomingshizhenxinshiyiduiniyouganjue，neimadajiawanhunbingbaitouxielaoyishengdegailvjiushifengao。

第二：挑选门不当户不对的男孩儿来谈恋爱

 xiaodengdenanyoubizishenjiatingtiaojianchalehenduo，keshitabuguanbugubabamamadizhi，yulingyifangtanlianaile。shenmejiaoai?tanlianaishi，tazaijingjifazhanshangweilingyifangtouruleguoduo，jieguozaizuizhongwanhunshi，yinbicibabamamaxiyandejingjifazhanfenpeishangmeiyoudachengyizhijianyi，zaocheng bicifenshou。

 menyaodang，huyaodui。shijishangzheijuhuabaquanbudedouguinale。laozuxiandehuajianjiejujuchuoxin。hehehe，nianqingshihenduorenbuqingchu，juedetashixiache，zhihoucuobailijingduolecaijianxin。ziranhuanjingzhujiurenma!menbushan，hubudui，dangranyejiubushiyiluren。

 ziran，dajiayingdanghezishenwenpingfeichangderenchuduixiang，bukeyidajiagaoxiao，tazhongxiaoxue，yaoneiyangdehua，zhihoujiumeishenmegongtonghuati。zheibushiqiaobuqizheixiewenpingdideren，keshiyoudeqingkuangxiatamendesiweimoshibianshigenwomenbuyiyang，xuduo hualejiedeyehedajiaxiangchashenyuan。biaoshudoumeiyouyong，tahuanshiyongtadesiweimoshijianghua，shizhongshangbushanggaishangdejieti。

第三：不必与太本份的男生处对象

 cengkanleneiyangyigexiaohua：qinglvshuiyigewuzi，nvdehualegenxian：guoxiandeshiyeshou!diertianxinglaishi，fajuenandequeshiweiguoxian。nvdehenhendidaguonandeyibazhang：nilianyeshoudoubibushang!hehehe，laikantaibenfendenanshenghaiyaoxiakele。

 benfendenanshengshiweiyizhongxinxinerhuo，tamenzhizuohaozijiyingdangzuodeshi，erbushizishenxianggandeshi。danfanbenfendenanshengdoushihuiyouguoduodejielvqinggui，niruoaideshenle，tahuishiniqichu;niruoaideqianle，lianggerendaonenggouqianzaiyichu，jinjin，neiyangdeganqingbingbushifasebianshilewushengqu。

 ciwai，benfendenanshengyizourugongsibangongshibiankaishigongzuo，rutongyitaiyizijintouruqianbidejiejiyouxiji，duanqineichaodongnengdichongfenfahuizhe。jiaruzheitaijiejiyouxijihuranzhongzhile，neimayidingshiyimeijiaoruanruodeqianbicuotouguojinlai。

 danqie、pamafan、duozaiqiangjiaodenanshengzongshiyinlailingdaoganbutongshimendehushi，jishihuijiyuyixielianmin，yejuebunengyouxierenzaititazijintouruqianbile。

 nvrenduiguodubenfendenansheng，suifangyibaiershigexin，danzongganjueguoduxinqigao，ernvrendaduoshuxiainanshengweirichangshenghuozengjiadaliangdereqing。

jinguannvrendequeqidaimeiyijianshidouyangeanzhaozou，shenghuoandingbingqieshufu，dannvrenyexiangyaoyoushihou“reqing”yixia。

第四：不必与女强人处对象

 shenmecaisuanai?gongzuoshiyigezhenshidejizhijiazhongdeguanjianyuansu，nanshengyingdangjubeizerenxin，neiyangcaikeyirangqinrenderichangshenghuohuodeqiangyoulidequebao。youzerenxindenanrenaidongzhangxiwang，buchaoqinmuchu，yixinyiyishuanzaigongzuozhong，kanjianjiuxintong，dianjizhejiuxinyi。

keshi，jiarutashinvqiangren，dajiahuanshiyaoxiaoxindian，youyuhunhou，tadewentiyehenda。

 takoumendibuyuanpeizhenizouliangbudamalu，zuoshuoyoushuoshitapeizheniguangjiequezuiduogezaidaxingshangchangwaideshuyinxiadenghou。gengzhongyaodeshitadangwoxingwosu，jiazhongyitanzishiquansairangni，jiaonilaoliujiaonifan。

 jiarutadezerenxinguozhong，tayongzaijiazhongyunideshenshangdesixubianhuifeichangshao，nixuyaotapeizheniguangjiegouwu，tashuodaosuoranwuwei;nixuyaotapeinikandianying，tashuodaomeikong。tagongzuohuodelequdechenggong，niyegensuifengjing，danneishitarenjiandaode，tarenkanbujiandeshimanmanzhanglusuiyuelinidegudu。zheixiezerenxinbingbushitaizhongdenansheng，zemingbaiduiniguanhuaibeizhi、chongaiyoujia。

 shenmeshiai?taizuixinyugongzuodenansheng，daduoshuyouzhiyinbieren(baohannvren)dechongdong。hetaiyouzerenxindenanshengjiaowang，jiaoda desunhaishijingshenshizhicengmiande，ciwai，“youzerenxin”denanshengdaduoshuyouyuguodulaolei，rentijichuzaizhuanyenenglifazhanqushidedianfengqi，yezaoyuzuibuwendingzuimingandeqingkuang，xinxueguandengbingzhengyijingyipangzhizaibide，shaohaiyoujihuijiuchengxuerru。