爱真的需要勇气,暧昧是什么？

 beiweideai,changchangjuedewanxi，yixiebenlaikeyihenhaodeyouqingyinweiduifangyijuxihuannierwufahuitou，ruguoyifangmeiyoufanying，zheiyiduanyouqingsihuyenanyiweichixiaqu。zheiyenanguaiyouxierenhuiyincibukentachuzheiyibu。neimeaizhendexuyaoyongqiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankananquangandeaidewenzhangba。

cengjingnianshaoqingsedeshihou，youyigenvhaijingchangzaiwanshangdadianhuajiwo，yibuxiaoxinjiuhuiliaodaoshenye。

wojuedetashixihuanwode，zhishiwomensheidoumeiyoushuochukou。

zhongyuyouyitian，taqianzhelingyigenanshengdeshouchuxianzaiwomianqian，shuo，jintiantianqibucuo，bushima。

wozaixinlishuo，shia，haodegenshijiemoriside。

 neitianwanshang，wozuoleyigemeng，mengdaowobiaobaile，tayedayingle。woyoudianxinxiruokuang，nanyizhixin。menglimiantashuo：shagua，buxinnikeyiniezijilianya。wozhaozuole，ranhouwojiuxingle。

houlaiwofanshengzheiduanguanxi，caizhidao，zheijiushichuanshuozhongdeaimei。

zhidaoxuduonianhou，wohetaouranliaoqicengjingdexinqing，talveganyiwaiditanchengdao：

 henduoshihoubierenlianxini，zhudongzhaoni，qishibingbushiyinweibierenxihuanni，ershiyinweitamenrongyigandaojimo，suoyixihuanzhaoyuanyitingtamenshuohuaderen，worenshidezheiyangderenbuduo，erwoqiashiqizhongyige。duibuqi，rangniwuhuile。

 zheijiugengcanle，beiweideai,niyiweiduifangshizaigenzijiaimei，jieguofaxiantayagenlianneixiangfadoumeiyou，zhishengxianiduzidengdai。

 wobuquedingtajiangdeshibushishihua。danwozhidao，aimeijiushiaimei，dangyouyifangyinweiduifangdeyanxingjuzhierchanshengmeihaodelianxiangshi，tajiuyijingyunyu。ruguonizijibujuede，zhishiyiweiduifangxiangduole。neizhishaoyesuanshigewuyiguoshiaimei。

zaizhihouderensheng，wojianshidaolehenduoaimeideganqing，zhuomozhe，sikaozhe，yeyoulezijidekanfa。

暧昧是什么?

zaiwokanlai，keyifenweizhuguanyukeguan，zhudongyubeidongsigejiaodufenxi。

主观

 zhengrushangmianwodelizi，huoxugengjiduanxie，yinweilianxiangnenglitaifengfu，baduifangyigexiaorong，yigeyanshendouguodujiedu，yiweiduifangduizijiyouyisi，erchanshenglianaihuojijianglianaidecuojue。

 xianshizhong，queshiyouxierentianshengxinggewenheshanliang，xiguanxingduibierenhao，zaiyifangkanlaixishupingchangdejudong，lingyifangzehuifuxianglianpian，ziyiweishi。

dangranzheibijingshishaoshu。daduoshurenhaibuzhiyuziliandaolaohuaiyibierenaishangzijide。

客观者

 anquangandeai,xueshengshidaichangyouzheizhongfeiwennannv。jingchangyiqichuxian，yiqizixi，yiqishangxiaxue，liaotiandeshihougupanshenghuiqinmiwujian，jiusuantamenbenrenqiangliefouding，yehuibeiqunzhongqihongsongyong。

leisizheizhongaimeiguanxi，qishishiliangxingde，zheizhongaimeibenshen，yijingxiangshiyizhonglianaidechushijieduanle。

 kewangwangshidangshishuangfangsuiranhuxiangdouyouhaogan，queaiyumouzhongyuanyinbubiangongkaihuobicidouzaidengdaiduifangmaikaineiyibu。jisikanxide。

 daduoshudianshijuzhong，nannvzhurengongdeqingganzhangli，doushibiaoxianzaiaimeiguanxishangde。xiangneizhongyichulaijiushihuanxiyuanjiahuxiangkanbuguandouzuihusunde，guanzhongyiyanjiumingbaitamenchizaoshiyidui，zhishidouzuiyingbale。

dangtamenzuizhongdiedangqifuyinyuanjihuizhongyuyouqingrenzhongchengjuanshuhou，zheijuyejiuchabuduole。

 aizhendexuyaoyongqi,zheishishangzuiwunaidexijiushiguanzhongzhidaoniaitatayeaini，nimenzijimingmingyezhidao，kejiushisheidoubushuo，nishuojibujiren?pianpianguanzhonghaiyuanyikanxiaqu……