我会很爱你,初次约会指南

 wohuiyongyuanaizheni，genxiaidenanhaizichupeng，yuehuishitigaoxianghuguanliandeyibu，changchangjiandaoxuduo nvhaibuzaiyiyuehui，buzhuzhonggennanhaiziyuehuizhongdeguanjiandian，yizhiyubennenggoubawozhudeganqing，baisecongzishenshoushangwailiu。diyiciyuehuishijilingyifangliuyoulianghaoyinxiang，qudelianxiganheqinmiwujiangandediyibu，zaidiyiciyuehuizhongyoushenmeshitebiezhuyideni?neimewohuihenainiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanwohuiyongyuanaizhenidewenzhangba。

qingjilaozheizhongguanjiandian——

1.别觉得另一方所做的全是应当的

 youdenvhaizongganjue，jiranshizaiyuehui，neizuoweinvhaideyifangjiuyingdangyouzhezhudaoquan，wohuiyongyuanaizheni，yinci nanhaizisuozuodequanshiyingdangde，baohanfuqian，zaiyuehuizhongzhaoguhaozijidegegefangmian，yizhiyuyoudenvhaizaiyuehuizhongyifuzhigaoqiyangdemoyang，duinanhaizizhishouhuajiao，jibian lingyifangmoujiansuoshimeigaohao，yehuiyinererhenbugaoxing，naizhizeguailingyifang。

 tingzhiyixiaba!zheishidiyiciyuehui，dajiaxianghuhubuxiangqian，niyaogaoqingchu，dajialianggerenyuehuiquanguocheng，shijishangshixianghulejiehuxianglejiedehuanjie，bingbuhuiyouxianghujiandeliyiguanxi。rujindetabushinidenanpengyou，genghekuangjibian jiushinidenanpengyou，yebuyongneiyangyankeba，neiyangduitazhiyoushirangzheiyinanhaizigaoqingchu，yuanlainichupengqilaihenjiannan，jieguodangranxianeryijian。

2.客套

 diyiciyuehui，ziranzaisuonanmianxianghuketaoyixie，zheiquanshijichudexiandailiyi，shifenyiqiezhengchang。danzaixuduo qingkuangxia，wokandaoyoudenvhaitaiguodeketao，yizhiyurangzishenchuzaiyizhonglveqianxundezishi，zongyouyizhong“niyaofangzhe，quanbudeshierdoujiaodaowoa”dejuede。

 nidezheileigerenxingweiqueshinengrangnanhaizijuededaonihenketao，danzheileiketaohuilingrenxianghushengshu。shijishangninenghuanweisikaoyixia，tangruonishizheiyinanhaizi，zaiyingduizheibanketaodenvhaishi，ninengyouruhedeniantouni?

haowuyiwenhuiganjue，zheiyinvhaitaiguoduketaohua，haowuyiwenshizaishengshuzishenba!

3.一些潜意识的个人行为

 zheiyidiantongdiyidianshiyousuoqubiede，henyoukenengzaijiaowangquanguochengzhong，diyiciyuehuishinanhaizimingquetichulaide，yinci zaiyoudenvhaixinlingshenchugangkaishiyoudianerxiaopengzhang，zongganjuezishenfengcaifeichanghao，lingyifangnengmingquetichuyuehuideniantou，neizishenkendingshigaorenyidengde，jibian meiyoujuedelingyifangsuozuodequanshiyingdangde，danxinlidepengzhanghuirangzishenzuochuyixieqianyishidegerenxingwei，liruzhigaoqiang。

 wohuiyongyuanaini，youdenvhaizhigaoqiangbingbushiyoumudede，henyoukenengzhifanyingzaiyiyanyixingzhong，shijishangnidexinlibingbushiyouneimexiangguo，dannanhaizinanyikandechuzheiyidian，tamenzhiyoujiandaonijiaoweixiangyaolingjiayutadetoushang，zheiduinanhaizieryanshihenwufajienade，yinci tabuyuanyizaicixiangchuyeshiwukebimiande。

4.约会的实际意义所属

yuehuideshijiyiyijiujingshishenmeni?

 yuehui，shilianggerenyurenxiangchudejiyu，kenengshinizaizhuiqiuwanmeilingyifang，youhuoshizheiyinanhaiziduiniyouyidingdehaogandu，yejiushishuodajia2gexianghuyouaimeizhiqing，yinci liangyouxiurencaihuiyipaijihe，zhaoshihedeshijianyiqiyurenxiangchu。zainanhaihenvhaiyurenxiangchudeshijianli，lianggerenfeichangrongyizijintourusuozaidechangjingzhong，yizhiyuchanshengganqingdezhuangji。

yinciwohuihenaini,xiangzaiyuehuizhongxunzhaonageganqingqierudian，qingweichiyikepingshidexinlizhuangtaiquchupenglingyifang。