爱上别人的人,出现矛盾时为何男生死不认错？

 aishangtaderen,niyoumeiyouyudaoguoneiyangdezhuangkuang，ruguonihenanpengyouchuxianzhengzhishi，jiusuanshilingyifangyouwuzaixian，dannanhaizizongbuyuanyizhiqian，bingqierengzaibuduandizhaogeshigeyangdetuoci，kanshangquhaoxiangzaiyouyidingni。duinilaishuotashizaitiaozhannidedaodedixian，tayoucuozaixianbuyongshuo，zaizhengchaohouhaibuanshishi，zuoweinanhaizidoubuyuanyishuaidiaoqingmian，buzaiyinidetihui，rengzainidetiaoli，zheizhenshilingrenhenzhirugu。neimeaishangbierenderenyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishangbugaiaiderendewenzhangba。

 suiransheidougaoqingchu，nanhaihenvhaideluojisiweizaishizhishangshiyousuoqubiede，danwojuedeyiweizhezheijiunengbianchengzhengchaodeyuangu。danjiranyouyidingdezhengchao，weishenmenanhaizidoubuyuanyixiangzishendixiatouchengrencuowuni?chuxianfenqishiweishenmenanhaizisiburencuo?shibugouaizishenme?huanshiyoubiededeshishenmeyuanyin?xiabiandewenzhangneirongzhongdajiajiangguanjianjieduzheizhong!

1、男孩子是爱面子的微生物

 tangruodajiababaohanrenyineiquanbudeweishengwuguinazaiyiqi，tongjifenxiyixiayouguan“sheizuiaimianzi”zheigewenti，neiwojuedehuidayidingshi“nanren”，meiyourenhuichuqier。nanhaizishijiweiaimianzideweishengwu，youqishizaizishendenvrenyanqian，quanbudenanhaizidouxiangyaoyoushizudeqingmian。aishangtaderen,erzainanshilaikan，hezishendenvpengyouchanshengmaodun，nvpengyouquanbudeyujuhegerenxingweiquanshirangzishenqingmianshouyingxiangde。

 zheileiqingmianganrangtamenganjuezishenshimeiyoubuzhengquede，yinci zaipengdaoshenmeshiqingshi，tamendouburongyijuedebuzhengqueshiyizishendeshenshanglaide。zheijiufangfopingchangmoudianjiandaozangwu，tamendiyifanyingbingbushisikaoshifouzishendiuqide，zhishibierengande，yinci tamenhuizaidiyishijianbengchulai，gaoshengdezeguaidao“tashisheidiudezangwu!”

 gengshizheileiluojisiwei，rangnanhaizizaizhengchaoquanguochengzhonghehuiyizhengchaoquanguochengshi，doushihuibuzhengquedejuedejinyouzishenmeiyoucuo，yinci tamendouhuijuedebuzhengquezaini，jibian buzhengquemeiyounineiyemeiyouta，yincitamenzaizhengchaoshizongbuyuanyidixiatouchengrencuowu。

2、产生矛盾时，她们会感觉你一直在责怪他

 chanshengmaodunshi，zongzaisuonanmianhuizixiangcansha，zheizaiyidingshuipingshangmiandaozhixianghujiandewuhui，lirunanhaizihuibuzhengquedejuede，nizailiaodadaolishishijishangshizaichizetadebudui。yingduizeguainanhaizibudanhuinankan，genghuikanqilaishibeiweifanle。

 shangyidiandajiajiangguo，nanhaizishijiweiaimianzide，chukaiaimianzizheileigerenxingwei，nanhaiziyeyouyizhongbijiaomingandeshenjingxitong，tamendouhuiganjueyixieyujushizaizeguaizishen。lirupingchangtahuijiawanle，nijinjinwenyiju“ganshenmelaidaoa”，nanhaizibianhuiganjuenishizaicaiyita，erzaiyingduinidezeguaishitamendebijiaominganshenjingxitongbianhuiyouyidingdeweifan，dangranyehuigangkaishisiburencuole。

3、因此 争吵时应当给男孩子点阶梯下

 aishangbugaiaideren,zaizhengchaoshinvhaidouhuibeinuqimengbiledanao，chuxianzeguailingyifang，jienanpengyoulaodidenggerenxingwei，youqishijiandaonanhaizibuzaiyinvpengyoutihui，zhishihuiguzhebenshendeqingmian，yousiburencuodegerenxingweishi，nuqijiangbeiyinrandegenglie，zheiyeshizenmezhengzhidoudangzhongchuchoudezhuangkuangyuanyin。

 danzaizheiergaozhizhuweizimeideshi，zaizhengchaoshibuyinggaizhituzheyishixuanxiedekuaile，liyingxixinxiangyixiang，cicizhengzhitangruoyizhibuduandehua，dajiahuichuxianruhedechujingni?shijishangxuduo qingkuangxia，nanhaizixinlizaojiulejiedaozishendebuzhengque，danaimianzidetamenzaiyingduinidechizeshi，zongganjuedangzhongchuchou，yinci zaiqingmiandezhichengdianxiatamenshisiburencuode。

 conghuidenvhaiyingdangxuehaojinanhaizidianjietixia，pengdaozhengzhishifeichangjiandanyeshizuijizhidefangshibianshi“tuiyibukaikuotiankong”，zheiyidianshuodaofeichangrongyidanruguobaozhengdehuaquenanyi。kexixinxiangyixiang，dajiadezhengzhiqueshigengyouyiyima?juedaduoshuquanshiwuyiyide，zhiyoushoushangxianghu，rangdajiaaidejiqingtundiaoxuduo。

 yinci aishangbierenderen,zaipengdaonantishi，jibian lingyifangsiburencuo，yehuanshijitamengejietiyixiaba，zheicaisuanshijingyinghunyindefangfa。