我会很爱你,健康亲密关系模型

 wohuiyongyuanaizheni,yingguohunlianjiaoyouguanlianquanweizhuanjialuobote•aipumingquetichudeshenxinjiankanghunyinguanxishitimoxingdeguanjianjianjieshi：yifenshenxinjiankangqinmiwujiandeguanlianshichuangjianzaicongzhangwo，daoxinrengan、yikao、fuwuchengnuozaidaoqinjindejibenshangde。erjiuzheihaoduogechengfendeshuizhungaoailaijiang，dezhuangkuangshiqianmianyizhonggaoguohoumianyizhong。huanjuhuashuoyiqiezhengchangdenannvguanxishi，lianggerenchongzulejielehou，caihuizhenshizaochengxinrengan。xiangfan，zheixiemeiyoulijingxianghuzhangwo，jiumangmugenfengxinrenganhuoshifuwuchengnuodenannvguanxibingbushilianghaoshenxinjiankangfazhanqushide。neimewohuiyongyuanaini,younaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanwohuihenainidewenzhangba。

•掌握•

 yiduanhunyinguanxiqiyuanyuzhangwo，nixuyaozhangwolingyifangyunidepipeidu(baohanjiazhiguannian、gexinghua、xingquaihaodenggecengmian)、renjijiaowanggongzuonengli、jiatingqingkuang、pinxing、xinlijiankanghezhiliangzhibiaodeng。zhangwozunzhao“sangeyuejibendinglv”，huanjuhuashuo，jiarunixuyaodabufenlejieyigeren，neimazuishaoyaolijingsangeyuedechupengqi。

 zhangwoshibicitaruganqingdediyibu，yaoburannikankanzheixiejieshaorenxiangqinyuehuidelaodajiemenzaiquanniquxiangqindeqingkuangxiayongdeyidingshi“xianzhangwozhangwo”，erburongyishi“xianfuwuchengnuofuwuchengnuo”huoshi“xianqinmiwujianqinmiwujian”，shiba!

•信任感•

 xinrenganshiduilingyifangdezhongshi、tourudeganqingjirengetezhidezhenshiyouxiaodengsuobaoyoudezixinxin。wohuiyongyuanaizheni,jinyouzaiduiyigerenquanfangweizhangwodejibenshangcaikeyixinrenganyigeren，zhangwode-shuipingjueceleninengxinrengandeshuiping。

 zhangwobugoujiuxinrenganhuichuxianshenmeyuanyin?liruyouyiweijunxiujinduodeqingnianren，niyizhizaimanmanzhangwotadequanguochengzhongfajuetajingranshiyunnandalidefuheiwangye，renyouchixinbugai，youyongyoumou，nizifangxinanxu，suihoujianjixingshile……kanqilaishizaizhangwodejibenshangtourudexinrengan，keshi，nilejierenjiayouwangfeime?nilejiexiaogan、xiaoruan、xiaoqin、xiaozhao、xiaokangshenghuome?nilejiechukaihuangfei，biedeyuta“jianjixingshi”denvrennaizhiyunnandalidoumeilaiguoma?

•依赖•

 yilaishibiciconglingyifangdeshenshanghuxiangkaolvgezhonggeyangxinlixuqiudeshuiping。zaizhengshikeyichongzuxinrenganyigerenqian，buyinggaiyikaota/takaolvzishendehuaxuewuzhihuojingshenshizhibixu，buyinggaiwanquandiyilaita/ta。zhengshiyigerendexingweishibushihehuyugushibixushijiande。zheigerenkeyirenshouni、shiyongnibu?zheigerenkeyiyunigongkuganma?

ruguoniyikaoyigebuzhinixinrenganderenshi，ninengchuzaiyizhongbuanquandeguanlianzhong。

•服务承诺•

 wohuiyongyuanaini,wofuwuchengnuoshibiciduijianglailianggerenxianghurichangshenghuozuochudechengnuo。woyouyaojuduanlaoshihetadenvpengyoumendeshilile，zaixiezheibenshudeqingkuangxia，duanjiaoshizhenyingsuanshishangshishizhimingguidenanyihao，bulunshiganqingyuansuhuanshixingduicejichulilunhuoshishizheierdefuwuchengnuodegongxiao，tadouyanyilejizhidetaiben。zongdelaishuo，xiaogan、xiaoruan、xiaoqin、xiaozhao、xiaokangshenghuoquanshibeiduanjiaoshijingzhandebiaoyanhexubaodefuwuchengnuomengpianle。zaiwoguo，congguzhijin，haoxiangduihenduoreneryanjinyouwanhuncaisuanshizuizhenzhengdefuwuchengnuo。youyanjiubiaoming，hunqiantongjuhuijibicijianglaidejiaowangyuguanlianweihubaoyangdouchanshenganquanyinhuan，duanjiaoshidenvpengyoumenbingbushidouchiwanzheiyikui?

•亲近•

 qinjinshibicichuangjianzaiganqingjibenshangdeshentijiechujixingshenghuo。shenxinjiankangdenannvguanxishi：zaichongzuzhangwohoucaigangkaishixinrenganlingyifang，zaichongzuxinrenganhoufazhanqushichuyilai，zaichongzuyilaihouxianghuxianghuzhijianfuwuchengnuo，chongzufuwuchengnuohoucaizaochengshentijiechu。wohuihenaini,yongyouzheiyishenxinjiankangguanximoxing，jiubuhuitainanmingquerujinshifouyulingyifangchanshengqinmixingguanliandeqiadangqingkuangxiale。ruohoumianyizhonggaoguoqianmianyizhong，yejiushiruguonixiangyaohelingyifangyouqinjindeshuipingchaochuduilingyifangdezhangwo、xinrengan、yikaoshuipingshi，dajiadeguanlianbianhuizaoyufengxian。