爱是甜的 和男生接触为何不能太主动？

 aishitiande，bansuizheguanniandeduiwaikaifang，zhuiqiuwanmeinanshizaojiubianchengshifenshouhuanyingdehuatitaolun。shijishanghenzaoyiyouxierengaozhinvhaimen“nvshengzhuinanshengjiacengsha”，zhuiqiuwanmeinanshishiyijianfeichangjiandanhenqingqingsongsongdeshier，danwogengxianggaozhizhuweinvhaideshi：ninengzhuiqiuwanmei，danwulunshizaizhuiqiuwanmeiquanguochengzhonghuanshiliangxingxiangchuzhong，douqiewubukeyiguodujiji，burannikenengdiaorudichu。neimeaishangzenyangderenni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishiliudongdedewenzhangba。

liyingcongheshuoqizheijuhuani?womenhuanshixiankanlaigeqianbujiuwobujiuchupengdaodeshiliba——

 xiaoluoshigehenmeilideguniang，zhuiqiuwanmeizhexuduo，danyouyuzongzhaobuzhezishenyaoxiangdeneileijuede，yinci yizhimeihenayigenanhaizizhenshidelaidaoyiqi。shubuzhishierdouhuiyouchanshengzhuanzhedeshike，zaiqinrenfenpeideyicixiangqinyuehuizhong，xiaoluopengdaoyimingshifenrangzishendongxindenanshi，yongtazishendehuaeryan“jinguantakanshangqubuzuchuse，danqueshiyaowohendongxin，zhitongneixin”。danshizaichupengzhong，zheiyinanhaiziqueshifenrangtaxinhan，youyuzaichupengzhongxiaoxingluodouhuijuededaotayuqingguzong，aishitiande，zaijiaowangdesangeyuezhongjinyouwuliuciyouhui，pingchangliwulunxiaoluoruhejiji，wulunxiaoluozenyangdesheqizishendezizun，naizhiqudaozhui，guanxintitie，suishidaiming，xiangyaobianchengtade7-11……kezheiyinanshiyebuhuiyouguoduodedadong，lianggerendeguanlianhuanshizaimohubuqingdeqingkuangxiaxiangqianzhe……

 zheishishenmeyuanyinni?qishibushihennan，wulunshibushinanhaiziduixiaoluoshibushiyouchongzudeqingyi，dannantiganghaochanshengzai“taijiji”zheiyiyaosushang，youyuxiaoluojijidaosheqizishendezizun，yincizainanshikanlaixiaoluodeganqingfandaoyuelaiyuehenbianyi，zheijiushinantichanshengdezuiguanjianyuangu。

 shide，ninengjiji，haikeyifanzhuinixiaidenanshi，danyidingyaozhangwohaofencungan，xunzhaotanlianaizheigeyouxizhongdebiaozhun，wulunjiushinijijihuanshichuyubeidong，bixubawoguishuyuzishendetanlianaizhudaoquan……erwogengxiangshuodeshi，jibian nijiji，danbukeyichaochujijidejiexian，yidangchaochujijidedaodedixian，nikenengzaizheiciganqingzhongshudehenwanquan!

aishiliudongde,weishenmebukeyitaijijini?ruguonigangkaishijiji，neikenengdaibiaozheniwubijienaxiabiandebiaozhun：

 ruguonijijizhuiqiuwanmeitashi，feichangrongyilaidaoyiqi，danjiexiaquhaixiangyaonidejiji，jijitongdianhua，jijimingquetichuyouhuidezhunbei，jijipapa……naizhijijimingquetichutijiaodezhunbei，jiusuandangdajiazhengchao，niyedejijihongta，zhizhizheiyinanshigaoxingyijing。shide，gujinihaowuyiwenyefajuele，nigaizuodeganle，buyinggaizuodeyewubiganle，nizaoyibazijijingzhundingweibianchengnanshi。naizhizuiweirangnibenkuideshi，jibian zheiyinanhaiziyiqingbielian，waiyu，neizuihouhaijiyoukenengneiyangshuo：quanshinijijide，yinweiwowuxutaichengdanba?

 yinciwoshuodeshininengjiji，danyidingyaogaoqingchunijijidibuliangyingxiang，youqishiruguonitaijiji，bananshigaijijideneileijingtoufangjinzishendeshenshang，zuihoubudanhuiweizijifeichangdadegongzuoyali，dalianghuodebushangzishenyaoxiangde。

 aishangzenyangderen？ruguonixihuanyigenanshishi，linxijiaoshigengtiyidehuanshixunzhaoheshidefangfa，yongzishendefengcaihefangfaxiyinzhuta，jiecijihuirangzheiyinanhaizilaizhuiqiuni，jiniertouru，erbushidaozhui，zheicaisuanshiliangxingchijiuguanliandeyagen。