爱是甜的 男友不想结婚，如何引导？

 aishitiande，xiangyu、xiangshi、enai，suihoushunliditaruhunyinshenghuoshiyizhongjiandandekuaile，shubuzhixuduo nvshengpengdaolenanpengyoubujiehundezhuangkuang。huoshitahaimeiyougaohaojindaohunyinshenghuodetiqianzhunbeihuoshixiangzaiwanliangnianhuoshidanyouyiwanhunzishenbianhuibeijushu，danshinvhaierdenianjidengbuqia，zenyangzhengqueyindaonanpengyoujijixiangnilangmanqiuhunni?qiekanxiamian。neimeaishangzenyangderenni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishiliudongdedewenzhangba。

第一招、寻找男朋友不结婚的缘故，对症治疗

zhangwotabujiehundeyuangu，nanshengbujiehundeyuanguyouhenduo：

1.他感觉你不是最理想化的完婚候选人，一拖再拖不愿踏入婚姻生活。

 xiangxinziji，nanrenzaiwanhunzheiyijianshiershangshifeichanglixingde，wulungangkaishideqingkuangxiaduomedefengkuangdezhuiqiuni，aishitiande，jiaowangchulaitaganjuenibushishihezuolaopodezuobangyoubei，jiuburongyijijitiwanhundeshier，tahenyoukenengzhaogezhonggeyangtuoci，duiwanhundeshiyituozaituo，shuodaodijiushitaganjuenibushizuiheshidelaopohouxuanren。

 tips：zuoweinvpengyounixuyaozuochuxiangduidediaojie，liru，tazongshixiannitaoqianhuaqianruliushui，neimaniyinggaishoulianxingyixie，suzaocunkuandelianghaodexiguan。taxiannibuhuizuofan，neinijiumaiyigelaidan，kexueyanjiuyixiatesemeishi。

2.受爸爸妈妈婚姻生活的危害

 banduladeshehuifazhanxuexililunyouyigedingyijiaotidaiqianghua，jiangdeshi，xueshengjiarujiandaobuchenggong、shouchufadegerenxingwei，bianhuixiaoruohuoyizhichanshengzheileigerenxingweidequxiang。

 ershijiandaozishenbabamamahunyinbushun，yitiandaowanyoukuyounao，chaochaodayida，tahenyoukenenghuixiangliangzhezhijianliangrentongchudejiuchanbuqingzaiyiqi，haiburuyigerenhuodeyouxianzizai，yinci zhidaotazijiwanhundeqingkuangxiabianhuiduihunyinshenghuowangerquebu。

 tips:genggaitaduihunyinshenghuodepianmianxinglejie，youbuxingdehunyin，yiyangyeyouxuduo meimanhunyin，duodaitayuyouzhemeimanhunyindepenyou、tongxuemenchupeng。

3.taganjuezishenhaixiaoxiangzaiwanliangnianhuoyigongzuoweiyou

 buqingchudajiashifoujiedilianqing?ruguoshi，neimabianhuichangchangpengdaozheileinanti，nvshengganjuezishennianjihendayaoxiangjielehun，nanyouganjuezishenhaixiao，xiangzaichuangdangliangnian，yeshiyoukenengshixiangweiwanhunzuoxiejingjifazhantiqianzhunbei。

 tips：jielehunjiubukeyipinbolemeiyou?yongyoujiazhongdenanshengzongshiduigongzuogengyouxiezhu!falvfaguidejiehunnianlingshinanfadingnianling22sui，nvnianman20sui，yaoshichaochuzheiyinianji，douhendale，jiarudajiatanlianaizaiyinianzhishang，nenggoukaolvdaowanhun。

第二招：引起他想结婚的想法，恰当运用三个時刻激起男朋友想完婚的主观因素

jutongji，nanshengzuixiangjiehundesangeshikeshi:

1.盆友的婚宴上

 meiyinian，dajiadoushihuibaomingcanjiapenyoudehunyan。kanjianxiaohuobanmendoutongshitaruhunyinshenghuodeshengdian，niyizhizaixintongchixuhuachulaidejiehunlijindelingwai，yeshiyanxian，ninaizhihuixiangxiangxinlangguanbianshini。weishenmeshuonanshengjiubuyuanyiwanhun，zaibaomingcanjiaxiaohuobanmendehunyandeqingkuangxia，nanrenmenyehuichuxianneiyangdeniantou，neiyike，tashiduomedediqipanyaochengjialiye!

 duohetayiqibaomingcanjiapenyoudehunyanba，shitakanyixiatarendexingfukuailejing，gengshitaqutingxiaohuobanmendexutao，rangxiaohuobanmenzaitaerpangducutawanhun。kanjiantarenneimaxingfukuaile，dianjizhezishenyiranguduyiren，zaitingzhexiaohuobanmendequanjie，wojuedenanrenmenshifeichangrongyixindongde。neishidenanshengzuifeichangrongyibulizhixiaguzuyongqijiuxiangnilangmanqiuhunle。

2.酒醒后

 nanshengduoyoujiaoji，zaisuonanmianyouhezuijiudeqingkuangxia。zaizuijiuhoudediertianzaoshang，toutengyulie，yikanshenpang，jinyouzishengushenyiren，tudeyidiquanshi，wuzililuanqibazao……nanshengzheishidinghuishenxianwuqiongdejiliaozhong，danshitaquehaipobudeyizishenzhaoguhaoziji。xiangyixiangcishishenpangruguoyouyigenvxinggaiduomehao，tagangkaishixiangnianmamazhudejiejiutang。

 aishiliudongde,nanshengyehuichuxianmingandeqingkuangxia，zainanshengneixincuiruodeqingkuangxiajiarunizaishenbiannuanxinfushi，jiusuanshitieshixinchangyehuibeironghua。yinerhebuzainanshengzuijiuhouzaishenbiannuanxinzhaogu，fugechunmianmaojin，huanyigeyifu，zhudianzhengjiutang……zainanshengxinglaishideqingkuangxia，fajuenifuzaichuangqianfushi，yiyemeixiexi，tadexinyidinghuiwennuande。cishidenanshengzuifeichangrongyibawanhunshuochurukou，tashenshendiganshoudao，youyigewennuandejiazhong，yigexianshudelaoposhifeichangdadexingfukuaile。

3.看到他人可爱的孩子

 meinvmendouaixiaohai，youyutamenxinlingshenchubianshiwuqiongdemuqindeai。meimeikandaotarenkeaidehaizideqingkuangxia，meinvmenyanlidoushihuiwailuwuqiongdemuqindeai，xiangjitamendianfumo，xiangqinqinxiaohaideliandaner。niyiweinanshengjiutaoyanxiaohai，youshinanshengbinvxinggengaixiaohai。

 aishangzenyangderen？dajiazongshuoxuduo nanshengjiuhaoxiangmeiyouzhangdaledexiaohaiyiyang，shide，nanrenzaizishenxinyidenvxingyanqian，yizhihuisamaimeng，huizhuyaobiaoxiandexianggehaitongyiyang。yexugengshiyouyunanshengxinlingshenchudeyouzhizaizuoguai，nanshengkandaokeaidehaizideqingkuangxia，tamenyehuiwuqiongtengai，shenzhixianggankuaizishenyenengshenggexiaohai。danshinaliyounvxingneimashahuhumeiwanhunjiugentanengshenggexiaohaini?yinci ，dangnanrenkandaotarenkeaidehaizideqingkuangxia，jiufeichangrongyijiqitayaowanhundexiangfa。