不安的爱,男生同样需要你的关爱

 bukesiyideaiyoushenmeni？xueguochuzhongwulikedeguniangyidinghenqingxidelejie：lidezuoyongshihuxiangde。shijishangzaizheimeduoniandetanlianaijutizhidaoquanguochengzhong，yinweiwohenqingchudelejiedaoyidian，neibianshi：aiqingdenengliangyeshihuxiangde，yijingaiqingzhongderen，suoyourendoubukeyiyiweidesuoyao，yiweisuoyaodeaiqingnanyichijiu，ziranyiweidetouruyouwusifengxiandeaiqingyeyiyangnanyilaogu。rujinxiangyixiangnideqingkuang，yijingreliandeni，shibushiguangdianjizhesuoyao，feichangshaoweizijidenanyouqieqieshishidetouruni?neimebuguyiqiedeaiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanbuandeaidewenzhangba。

 qingjilao，nanshijinguankanshangquhenwanqianghenkeguan，danshijishangtamenyiyangxuyaonideaiyi，ruguoniwenhedeaiqingshikebaoweizhezhetashi，zheiyinanshikenengshikeyouwennuandejuede，yedangranhuigengweitengxini……aiqingshihuxiangde，nigaoqingchuruhequguanhuaitama?

zheipianwenzhangneirongzhong，linxijiaoshijiangdaizhunantibangnizhengli，jinibianchengtaneixinshenchudouxiangyaotengxidenvshi——

恋爱技巧一：心存感恩是第一因素

 zainidexinli，niyizhixiangdeshibianchengnanyouneixinlizuijizhidenvshi，shijishangzainanhaizixinliyouhechangbushineiyangxiangdeni?bukesiyideaiyoushenmeni？nanshiquanshihenaimianzideweishengwu，tasuozuodeyiqie，suoweihubaoyangdeyiqiedouxiangshidianjizhenengbianchengnixinliduyiwuerdenanshi，keyizhengshizishenqingkuanglemeiyoubuzhengque，tayougongzuonengliainiyibeizi。

 yinci douhuixiangyaowusifengxian，xiangyaorangnitouruchongzuduodeqingyi，zheishihoudeniyidingyaomingbaixincunganen。errenfeishengxian，sheidoushihuizaiyixieshiershangfancuowu，takendinghuichuxianfancuowudeshike，pengdaozheizhongshi，xuduo guniangdoushihuiyuelaiyueshifenkeqiu，buduandexunchilingyifang，henbunenglikeranglingyifangzhiqianjiuzheng。danwogengxianggaosunideshi：nvxingliyingxuehaojianliang，duojitamenyixieguanzhuhetiexin，erbushiyankedediaonanta，burandajiadeaiqingnanyishenxinjiankanghelidifazhanqushi。

恋爱技巧二：爱情还要留些隐私保护

 aiqingdegangkaishishihengongzhengde，youyuyiduanganqingdegangkaishiquanshichuangjianzaininongwonongdeqiantitiaojianxia，danwojuedezaiaiqingzhongsheidoushihuiyoumimide，yixieguniangyiqianshedaozheigewenti，bianhuiyuelaiyuechuxianyichangdefengkuang。yinweizongdianjizhefajuenanyouyulaiyuduodemimi，wulunshibaguaxinlizhuangtaicujinde，huanshihuaizhegengshenrulejielingyifangdemudi，zongeryanzhizaizheijianshiqingxihuanniyekendingfengkuangguo：tajiaojishiniyejiufengkuangdetongdianhua，ruguonidenanyougongchujiubuduandichaqin，lailashengshudedianhuahuoshiduanxiaoxijiufengkuangdebiwen……

 zheileigerenxingweizhiyoushitagengjiadewukenaihe，poshizheiyinanhaizitongchu，nijuede“zaiyiqijiubukeyiyoumengpian，wodegerenxingweishibimiantademengpian”，danqishiwogengxiangrangnishuodeshi“aiqingyebixuliuxieyinsibaohu，aiqingbingbushikendingdequantouming，youshihouliuxieyinsibaohufandaogengfeichangrongyirangaiqingshenxinjiankangdefazhanqushi”。

恋爱技巧三：对爸爸妈妈的孝敬不可以阻止

 womenzhongguorendeyishizhong，baishanxiaoweixian，zainanyouyunyingzishendexiaoxinshi，ganwanbukeyiyouyudadongzishenneimayidingdiandequanyierhuomaosanzhang。

 buguyiqiedeai,zaijiaowangshijianzhangle，guniangmenchangchanghuiwenyixiazijinanyou“hetamayitongdiaoshenshuilininengxianjiushei”neiyangyumeidenanti，weicilaitansuozishenhelingyifangmamanayigegengguanjianyixie。nizaiguanjian，yeburutademama，meiyoutademamashengxiayangyu，zenmekenengyoulenidenanyouni?yongxinzhaoliaoershiyunian，dangtayujiannihouxiangyaobuqiuhuibaodejiniwusifengxian，shijishangzheijiushinidefuqi，nizuiliyingxiexiedebianshinanyoudebabamama，shitamenrangnichanshengzheibanchusedenanyou。

 yinci dangnanyouxingxiaodaoyunidequanyiyouyidingdemaodunshi，shiduderenrangba，gaozhinidenanren：quzuonigaizuodeshier，woshoudianbiequshimeishierde。

恋爱技巧四：无理取闹还要在适度的机会

yinweishenshouchongni，guniangmendouhuiyouwuliqunaodeshike，yingduinidewuliqunao，nidenanyouhuishiruhedezhuyaobiaoxianni?

 youshihoukendingjinjinshaxiaozhe，yongjiaoguandexiaobiaoqingganenhuikuini，danyoushihouyekendinghuichengshoubushang，niyaoguozaiqizhongdeyuanguma?

 wuliqunaohaiyaozaishidudejihuide，dangdajialianggerenzaiyiqishi，nixiangyaoruhezuodounenggou，danruzaitadepenyouyanqian，huoshizaitadeqinrenyanqian，wojianyiniyidingyaozaiyidaotadeqingmian，buranninengsidefeichangcan。yaoxiangtamingmuzhangdandechongni，huanshixuehaokanhaojihuiba。

恋爱技巧五：重视标准和道德底线

 buandeai,sheidoushiyouzishendedaodedixian，gujinidenanyouyiyanghuichuxian，niguanxinguozheizhongma?zaitadeyanqian，ninengzhuyaobiaoxiandehenmingmuzhangdan，zheiyinanshiyehenxiangyaojiangnipengzaishouxinli，danzheiyiqiedoushiyouqiantitiaojiande，neibianshichuangjianzaichongzuzhongshitadeqiantitiaojianxia，zaiqizhongzuibixuzhongshidebianshibiaozhunhedaodedixian。zhiyaonibubaituozheizhong，wojuededajiadeaiqingkendingnengshunxinruyi。