爱是一切的答案 盘点女生在恋爱中的错误想法

 aishiyiqiededaan,jinxieshenghuofajuejiaoweiqitedenanti：nvshizaitanlianaihuichuxianxuduo buzhengquedehexinlinian，danzishenqueguannianbushangtashizishenhexinlinianshangdenanti。zhuizeqizhongyuanyin，guanjianhuanshiyuanyuyutanlianaideganjuebugou，qiemeiyouwanshandeganqinghexinliniangongjiemeimencanzhao，ernanhaizizaiyixiecengmianyouhuijiaoweifangrenzishen，neizuihoudangranhuirangzishenjiuyixiepiandehexinlinianyicuozaicuo……neimeaishiyiciyicidelunhuiyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanaishiyoududedewenzhangba。

 danbingchizhebuzhengquedeaiqingguannian，zhenduiganqingdezhangjiufazhanqushishijiweibuhaode。rujinnidehenyoukenengyoudianer“bushilushanzhenmianmu，zhiyuanshenzaicishanzhong”dehanyi，buqingchuzishenshenmeyishibixujiupianzhuangzhi，neixiabianjiuzhuixunzhezheipianwenzhangneirongdebufa，yiqikanyixiazailianaizhongdeyixiecuowuxiangfaba——

意识一：我越骄纵他越宠溺我

 lianaizhongdenvhaihuifajueneiyangyigenanti，zaiyingduizishendenanyoushi，aishiyiqiededaan,zishenyoushihouzhuyaobiaoxianchudejiaozong，fandaohuishitazuoweishizishenzaimaimeng，huiwanbanchongnizishen，yincijianjiandidegangkaishizainaozilichanshengneiyangdeyishi：woyuefajiaozong，tayuefahuichongniwo，yinci zairuhejiaozongdoumeishenmewenti。

 keqianwanbuyaoyouneiyangdeniantou，zaireliandenanhaizixinlizhuangtaishijihaode，nidemaimenghejiaozonghuishitaganjuenihenkeai，zheinenggoubianchenglianaizhongshouchongnidemimiwuqi，danneiyangdeqiantitiaojianshi“lianai”he“zaitadechengdanfanchouyinei”。yaoshidangtanlianaidaoyidingshuipinghou，dajiadeganqingkenengyuelaiyuepingpingdandan，zaizaijiashangruguonidejiaozongchaoguolingyifangdexinlichengdanfanchoushi，bidinghuibianchengganqingliekaidedaohuoxian。

意识二：兴趣爱好务必一致

 zailianaizhongnikenengfajue，jinguandajiabeixianghusuoxiyinzhu，danwojuedeyiweizhexianghujianjiuyongyou quanbudexiangtongdian，dajiazhongjianhaowuyiwenhuichuxianxuduo buyiyang，youqishizaigerenaihaoshang，naizhiyoushihouhaihuijixuyoumaodun。yincizaicanzhaolexuduodelianaishujihou，nigangkaishisuzaozishendexingquaihao，yaoxianghelingyifangbaochiyizhi，youyunideyishizhongjuedezheicaisuanshilianggerenjiaowanghemudejichufangfa。

 danruguonizhenshiyishijicaozuoqilai，bijianghuichajuezijizhenduizheiyijianjiehuanshibuzhengque，youyugerenaihaoshiyoubenrenxingqingkaolvde，youshihouxuduo shierzhikaosuzaoshibuzude，queshibukeyitaisheqiu!

意识三：争执是沟通交流的方式

 yinweixingqingdouhuiyouchabie，chuduixiangshidezhengzhishimianbulede，danhenyoukenengniyeguanchalaidao，zaizhengzhizhihou，dajiadeganqinghuigengjinyibu，yincinidedaoleneiyangdejieguo：zhengzhishigoutongjiaoliudefangshi，zhengzhihaihuijixuxiezhuzishendeganqinggengjinyibu。

 aishiyoudude，danzheiyiniantoushipianmianxingde，zhengzhiqueshishigoutongfangshideyizhong，danzheileifangfaqueshishitaixiaochen，bingqiesuiranzhengzhihouganqinghuiyuelaiyuetianmei，danzheiqiantitiaojianshinenggoudiaohedezhengzhi，jiarudajiachanshengdezhengchaotaimenglie，neizhongjiangzhongcuoganqing!

意识四：恋爱中理应随时随地保持联络

 tanlianaisuochanshengdexiyuehuijinixingfuyiji，nixiwangzhedaliangdexingfukuaile，yinciniyaobadajiadeguanlianyuelaiyueqinmiwujian，shikezhandaoyiqi，neixinligangkaishiyouneiyangdeniantou：lianaizhongliyingsuishisuidibaochilianluo，qudelianxihuidafutigaoyouhaodu。

 aishiyiciyicidelunhui,dannanhaizizaibixutiexinheguanzhudelingwai，shijishanghaibixuyixiegerenkongjian，zheicaikeyishitazaitanlianailingwaijianjugongzuozhonghebiedeganqing，shijishangxiangfanxiangyixiang，shaoyixiezhanzhelingyifangdexingwei，shitazaizuobiedeshiershangyizhidiannianzheni，xiangnianzheni，buyeshiyijianxingfukuailedeshima?