男人变心，自己需要怎么应对第三者

 disanzhe，tongchangbeizhengshimenjuedeshihongyanhuoshui，youyuxuduo zhengshiyouyunanyirenshoulaogongdepanbian，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomajinerbanaonudehuomiaodoupianxiangdisanzhe。keshiqingxubuwendingdeshengsilijietongchangnanyijiejuejiatingmaodun，nanrenbianxinhaihuijixujiangnihelaogongzhongjiandefenqituishangqudianfeng。zenyangyingduidisanzhe?zheibudanshigeshijinanti，huanshigeqingshangzhishangnanti。zheierjiujiaonizheijigechangyongzhaoshiyingduidisanzherangtazhinanertuidefangfa。

第一招：分辨善与恶，再以其人之道还治其人之身

 dajiakaoliangtaren，tongchangxiguanxingyizishendeguifanhemuguang，yinci dajiananyitiaochulaizishendeluojisiweijiagou。dajiahuisuibianfourentarendejiazhiguannianherenshengjiazhiguan，duizishendejiazhiguannianherenshengjiazhiguanjianxinbuyi。benzhishang，shehuifazhanwangwangduozhongduoyang，gengshiyouyurenyurenzhijiansiweimoshidebuyiyang。niyaoyingduidisanzhe，nijiuxuyaogaoqingchu：tashiyigeshenmeyangderen，niyejiuyinaxiedefangfaduita。youyujiarudisanzheshineileixindishanliang，shiyishimishiyibuxiaoxindezuishanglenizhangfu，nijiaruguyididuifu，zongshihongtuocaihuinidedijianhejicengdezhili，bingqieyuanjiayijiebushihejie，jitarenshengchanzhizaofannaodelingwaizishenyebuyidingbianhuikaixin。jiarudisanzheshineileiliejibanbandenvxing，neimanibiranyaocaiyongyidingdeduicejitajingyanjiaoxun，rangtalejieqiangzhongziyouqiangzhongshou，daogaoyichi，mogaoyizhang，niyebingbushihaodezuide，jinerrangtayouyuqienuohejupaerdujuenidelaogong，dujuenidejiazhong。

第二招：与你丈夫果断不提离异

 youyudisanzhedechuxian，nihezhangfuzhongjianchuxianlehenhouzhangbi。zheigeshihouninengshengsilijiedishangxin，nanrenbianxinkeshiyuefazaishangxindeqingkuangxiayuefayaotingdezhu，youyuzheigeshihoujiaruniyouyushangxinerhezhangfuliyi，weilainihuodedebingbushitarendelianmin，eryiyangshitarendeqiaobuqi。haodehunyintongchangyeshiyouxiacide，nixuyaogaoqingchuzheiyidian。lingwai，haodeaiqingzuihouquanshiyihunyinshenghuoweizuizhongdeguichu，disanzhezuodejiule，biranyaozhuanzhengdingji。tangruobaneiyangdejiyusuiyijiujileta，zongshirangtahuodedelisuodangran。yinci ，buguandisanzhezairuhexiazheteng，nibixushouhaonidehunyinshenghuo。ruguonihelaogongbulihun，disanzhejiumeifachenggongzhuanzhengdingji。neimazaishehuifazhandeshehuiyulunhegongzuoyalixia，zaishijiandemolianhejiancexia，huoxutayunizhangfuneidianlushuiqingyuandangranhuibugongerpo。

第三招：去见第三者的爸爸妈妈和亲人

 disanzheyiyoudisanzhedelaichu。jiarutaruhedoubuyuanyichechudajiadejiazhong，neimajiuxiangbanfadaidianlipinqujiandaodisanzhedebabamamaheqinren。yaojianxindisanzhejibian keyijienanidezhangfu，keshidisanzhedeqinrenbuyidingjiukeyijiena。zhongjiuyigejielehundenanshengduiyigenvreneryanzhenshideshiyongjiazhijiubingbushifeichangda，youdejinjinwannongshaonvdeneikexin。zuoweidisanzhedebabamamaheqinren，yidingyeqidaidisanzheweilaiyouyigewennuandejia，erbushizaizaitarendejiazhongdangzuodisanzhe，jitarendexiaohaidanghoumu。jiaruninengshuodongdisanzhedebabamamaheqinrenquandaodisanzhemituzhifan，neimabianhuirangdisanzhezishencongxinliyaobaibudingzishendeguandian，jinerwukenaihehexiaochenxiachechudajiadehunyinshenghuo。

 yaoyingduidisanzhe，nijiuxuyaoquchunideguoduanhejianchibuxie。buyindisanzhedechuxianjiufangkaishouhunyinshenghuo。yaoxianjizhongzhuyiliyingduidisanzhe，rangdisanzheganshoudaonideyingxiangliburongzhiyi，jinerzhinanertui。duiyuchuguinanrenzheiyidianbuzhengque，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomazhihouguanqimenlaizaijiejue。jiaruninengweichineiyangdelixing，niyejiuyougongzuonenglizaiciwanliuguishuyuzishendexingfukuaile，jinerzuihoudoudeledisanzhe，zuowenzhengshizheibayi。