男人变心，自己能够怎么应对第三者

 dajiajingchangshuo：nanshengfuyoujiushoudaoyingxiang，nvxingshoudaoyingxiangjiufuyou。zheijuhuajiushizhinanshengfuyouyihoubuzhongchengjiazhong，aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomawaibianzhaodisanzhe。nvxingquwaibianganxinqingyuandidangbierendedisanzheneimajiuyouxierenchuqianle。nanrenbianxinzuoweizhengqi，nibaoshizhongrileneimejiudejiazhong，turanyouyitianbeidisanzhejijiaoluanle，yidinghuishebudewangji。neimazuoweizhengqi，gaizenyangqiadangdiyingduidisanzheni?

最先，不必以逸待劳

 yaoyingduidisanzhe，jiuxuyaoxiangdaoyigeshiquanshimeizhice。zaifangfameiyouxianghaoyiqian，qiejiyiyidailao。youyuyoushitangruobalaogongrejile，huoxutahaizhendeganrangnizailaiyigeliyixuxianni!disanzhechuxianzainiyulaogongzhongjian，suiranjinishanggan，keshinixuyaolejiezuoweiyigechengshuderen，shangganshimeiyouyiqieyongde，zongshizengjiakunaodefudu。jinyouhuaaitongweinengliang，haohaodixiangyixiangruhejiejuezhongzhongzhizhongcaisuanshizhongyao。yingduidisanzhe，jiranshiyuanjia，jiuyuanjiayijiebushihejie，youxiuderentongchangyishengbuxiangdijiubashierjiejuezaimengyaqihuanjie。jinyouxiangdaohaodefangfa，rangtaganxinqingyuandichechudajiadehunhoushenghuo，nidejiazhongcaihuizhongguiningjing。

次之，得换种构思去解决你与第三者的冤仇

 renzheiyisheng，shijishangwulunpengdaoshenmeshiqing，huoxuquanshizhongjiuyaopengdaodeshier。buyiyangdejiushiniduishierdeguandianhexintai，weihaizhenidemanzugan。disanzheganyuledajiadejiazhong，zheishizaoyifashengle，jiububiqumaiyuannaxie。nanrenbianxinnihebubadisanzheyuechuqu，qukafeitingzuoxia，huoshiquchidunfengshengdewucan，bianchibianliao。rangtagaoqingchuniyunanshengdeyiwang，rangtagaoqingchuchuangliyigejiazhongdebuyi，nigaozhitanikendingbuhuiyouyutadeganyujiusuibiandichechunidehunyinshenghuo，bingqienidezhangfuyebuhuichechuzheicihunyinshenghuo。tahainianqing，jiarutabukeyilejiehegaoqingchuyigenvrendejianxinhexinsuan。niyeyaorangtalejietabixuduizishenderenshengdaoluchengdan，erbushizaitarendehunyinshenghuolidangdisanzhe，zuihoubudeshanzhong。jiarudisanzhekeyitingjinlainidehua，biaomingtayeyoujiu。jiarutatingbujinnidehua，neimanixiayibuzaixiangbanfajiejuedajiazhongjiandeshier。

再度，和老公谈一谈你对第三者的观点和责任与担当

 niyaowanhuihunyin，nixuyaodeshiyingduizheiyijianshierdedanliangheqipo。helaogonghaohaotanyitan，bingbushitanqita，zhishitandisanzhe。ninengtanchengxiangjiandigaozhilaogong，jiarushinanxing，niyexiaidisanzheneiyangdenvxing，youyutanianqing、tahaokan，tatongqingdali。danshizuoweinansheng，jielehun，hainengpengdaozishenaideren，haikeyidongxin，biaomingzishenxinlizhuangtaihaihennianqing。danxiaibingbuyiweizhezhanjucaihao。jiarunixihuanyigerenerbukeyijitajianglai，bukeyijitayaoxiangdeguishugan，erjinjinxiangbangzhuta，neineiyangjianzhiduitataitaobizerenle。jiaruxuehuifangshou，rangtahaiyoujihuixunzhaozhenshifeichangzhidetaaihexunmideren。rangtaxingfukuailedi，kuailedihuozhu，zheijianzhigenggaocengcirencaidixiaime?nirenweizuoweiyigechengshunanren，liyingzhisuoxingzhi，erbushirenxingwangwei。jiarulaogongkeyitingjinlainidehua，neimabianhuiduandiaozheiyifenzhinian，zhongguijiazhong。

 conghuidelaopotongchangshinanxingdeyizhanzhiluren，jibian nanrenzaiheianzhizhongyehuixunzhaoxiangqiandelu。zuoweizhengqi，nixuyaoyingduidisanzhe，jiuxuyaotongshijinxing，zaidiaojiehaozishenxinlizhuangtaidelingwai，quzuodisanzhehelaogongliangrendesixianggongzuo。aiyigerenzhendeyoucuomajiarunikeyibatahuadoushuojintamendexinwozili，jianxintamenyehuizhisuoxingzhi。jiarunijiejuedehao，jiujiwanliulezhangfu，yehuihuodedisanzhedejingpei，xiaoshihuale，caihuijiejuediaohunhoushenghuozhongdezuai，jinermaixiangningjingheanxiang。