拯救婚姻生活的方法：老公出轨了怎么应对？

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一、提升自己的魅力

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二、不要针锋相对

 ruguonishiyaowanhuichuguilaogongdexin，neimebachuguideshiqingpukaizhihoudachaodanaodehua，jibenshangshimeiyoudaotuideyudide，yinweizheishihoushuangfangdoumeiyouzouxiaqudetaijie，huidaobukewanhuidedibu。

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三、不要急于找对方理论

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忽视这个女人对她来说是的挑战和刺激，当对方连敌人都算不上的时候，那么你就有更多的精力和时间去思考如何改善夫妻关系。战略上藐视敌人，战术上重视对方，知己知彼。