怎么让第三者无处遁形呢?

 anquanfangfanfangdisanzhe，zaoyibianchengzhengshilaopozuidanyoushier，danzenmerangdisanzhewuchudunxingni?gongxiangzheijigechangyongzhaoshizhengshidoudisanzhedefangshi，fangdisanzhejinidezhangfuyagenmeifadisanzhewaiyu。

激励适用他

 taxihuanshenmejiujilitawanshenmeyouxi，taxiangxuexishenmejiuyaotaxuexishenme，bingpeitayiqi。bubichangshiqugenggaitadexihao，qugenggaitadeshenghuoxiguan，zhishiyaozhaoxunxianghukeyirongrudefangfa，youqishilingyifangdegerenaihao。neiyanghuishitagengweideaizheni。changchangpeitayiqizuotaxiaideshier，bubichangshigenggaidetadexihao，shitalejieyounizaishenpang，ganshenmedoushihuiganjueyoupinjing。

积极致歉

 fuqijianhuizhengchaotashimianbulede，nvxingyibandoujiaoweipianzhongyuxiangrangnanshengpaichuzhiqian，shijishangzheigeshihounvxingzeyaojijidegaodianchucuolairangnanshengzhengli，fangdisanzheneiyangzuojinengrangnanshengyouqingmianyouhexieledajiadeguanlian。liruxianzaodeqingkuangxiawangdiaonayifukuzijinqu，suihourangzhangfuna。zhangfubianhuididigugudeshuo：“jianwangzheng，xianzaodoushihuibujidenayifukuzi，haixingwohaizai。”

和他盆友做朋友

 lianggerenxianghudeweixinpengyouquan，yaorangdajiadeqingganyuelaiyuegengjiatuijinyixie，congzheizhongpenyoudedeshenshanghuodezhangfudezuixindongtai，quanxinqingkuang，youyunanrenzhijianyehuiyixiemimi。balaogongdepengyouqingdaojiazhongbaifang，haohaodidejiedaitamen，rangtamenhenyouqingmian，suihouyizhijuedenishihaosaozi，neiyangtamenfandaoguoyibuquyuezhangfuchulai，haihaipadaraodaodajiadeerrenshijieni。

使他依靠

 rangnanrenduinvrenzaochengqiangjingdeyilaixing，dacongneixindezhongshi，yongxindeweiminglaizulan，bibushangyiqiyutarongruyugong，neiyangnanshengduinizaochengmingxiandexinrengan，erzheiganghaoshiyifenmeimanhunyinsuobibukeshaode。danzhongshibingbubiaomingfangsi，yinerzhongshitadejianyiqian，dajiayaogaohaoyigelianghaodegoutong，huoshishiyitapenyoudedeshenshangzhangwotadeqingkuang。

学好宽容

 lianggerenjiehunnianlingjiule，dangranhuichuxianyixiemoca，danhaijideyaokuanronglingyifang，shidudekuanrongnenggou huanchengnanshengdaliangdeai，shitalejieaishibaorong。hunyinshenghuobixuyikekuanrongdexin，haohuaibufenzhinenghuoshangshaodian，disanzhesheimeiyoufancuowudeqingkuangxia。qingshanggaodenvrenzaikuanrongnanshengfancuowuhouyeyaochunfengdeyijiuzheng，zheicaihuirangnanshenglejieruheganenhexuehaokuanrong。