面对老公出轨的婚姻，妻子如何正确应对？

mianduilaogongchuguidehunyin，qiziruhezhengqueyingdui？hunyinshenghuozhongzaoyuyifangdebeipan，faxianlaogongchuguigaizenmewanhuilaogongdexinni?jiejuehunyinzhongdedisanzhe，congmingdenvrenyaoxuehuiyongzhengquedefangfawanhuilaogong。

一、客观性看待老公外遇

 hunyinjingyingshiliangrendeshi，waiyuyeshiyouhenyoukenengshiyouyufuqihunyinjingyingdefangfabudangzhichuerrangwenchongdingleyoufengdedan。zenmewanhuilaogongdeai，laogongwaiyuhou，nvxingxianbubiqifen，zhishifangongzishengzishenpingchanglishibushijinlaidaoyigezuolaopodeyiwu。

jiaruzishenpingchanglidezuofabukekao，xianxianglaogongzhiqianbingqinfenjiuzheng;ruguoshilaogonglanqingxiangbei，xianwenyiwenzishenyaobuyaolihun，ruguobuliyijiuxuyaogulvhouwaiyujieduanxianghudetihui，yinci，bukeyihelaogongchaonaodetaiqiangda，buranyoukenengmeiyoujietixia。

二、解决好和公公婆婆的关联

zenmewanhuilaogonghuijialeni，xinshiqidabufenmeiyigejiazhongquanshidushengzi，gonggongpopodangranhuijiangerxidangzishennverkandai，suiranshuogonggongpopoyixieqingkuangxiacunyoutanhuhuoyixiezuofanibunenggoutong，danyaoxuezherenshouhelejie。

xinhunyinshiqi，yigenengquyuegonggongpopodeerxizaijiazhongzhonghuichengxianzhiguanzhongyaodeyingxiangli，youjuhuajiao‘bukansengmiankanfomian’，laogongchuguizhihou，jishibuzaiyixifutihui，haiyaokaolvdaobabamamatihui。pingchangxingshanjidele，gonggongpopodangranhuizaizuijinyaoguantoutinizaichuquzhushi。

三、打扮，提高风采

yixienvrenxihuanyongwaiyudefangfaduifulaogongwaiyulaihuodexintaipingheng，shijishang，baofuxintaiwaiyubingbukeyiweijienvxingposuidexin，zongshirangnvxinggengweixinfanhuozoushangbuguilu。

tichufenshouzenmewanhuilaogongni，nvxingzailaogongchuguiyihou，yaoquchuzhuangchuqudedandingcongrong，bubixiaochen，zhishibazijidabanqilai，ciwaijianmanhuijialedejiaobu，rangnanshengyoudianerhuanghuanghuhu。

ruguonishenmiqilai，nanshengbianhuihaoqixin，nizhixubingliangdejiazhuangwusuowei，nanshengbianhuiduinihenjiaolvbuan，renyoutaxinfanyiluan，duitawaiyudeshidouzizibuti，dengdaitarangnizhiqian，niyejiujiandaoshenglideshuguangle。