发现老公出轨后，原配很着急如何有效挽回老公？

 faxianlaogongchuguihou，yuanpeihenzhejiruheyouxiaowanhuilaogong？henduonvxingzaiyudaozijilaogongchuguihou，douhenzhejibuzhidaoruhezhengquewanhuilaogong，wanhuinanrenyoufangfahejiqiao，benwenfenxiangjigewanhuinanrendefangfahejiqiao。

1、不可以把全部的义务都归咎于在老公的身上

laogongchuguisuiranneishinihenshengqi，biciqingganchuxiannantibingbingbushidanfangdeyiwu，zuoweilaopodeyifangyoufanshengzijidegerenxingweima?yinci nixuyaoxianjienazaoyiwaiyudekeguanshishi。

suihouziwofansizishencunzaidebuzu，sikaotaduizishendebumanyishibushicunyou。lirunidexingqingshifenqianghan，neimaniwubixuehuifangxiatadeqianghan，meiyounanshengtaoyanwenrouqieyouzhujiandenvxing，zheileinvxingtiefuxianxiaqueyouzhezishendeshejiaoquan，gedeqisuo。

2、看待老公要尽可能多一些贴心与溫柔

nvxingdetiexinyuwenrouduifangzhichuguinanrenshishidewuqizhuangbei。jiusuanlaogongqueshichuguile，tayehuilaolaoshishidizainiwenroudejingongxiajianqibaiqi。

shijishang，yumulaohuduibi，shanjierenyidenvxingyizhibulushengsedijiangnanshengannaibuzhudexinwanquanxiyin。niyuelaiyuegengweiwenrou，tashizhidegenggai，nanshenghaowuyiwenhuiganshoudaode，neiyangtacaiyongyouyaoxiangchupengnidechongdong。

3、这个世界不应该围住他转

tayoutashejiaoquan，jininizijideshejiaoquan，niduitadeyaoqiuyutaiqiang，tayehuijuedeshenxinpibei，juedemeiyoushineikongjian，duihunyinshenghuojuedeshijuedeshenmeipilao。

yinciwanhuilaogongruguoniduitadeyaoqiumeiyouneimamingxiandeqingkuangxia，niyejiubixuyouyigebianhua，liruyibuxiangguoquyiyangnianzhetale，niyongyouzishendexingquaihao，neishitafandaohuigengqidaichupengni，youyunijuedezaoyiyibushitayulaiyudichudeneinvrenle。