婚姻遭遇第三者，老公出轨妻子怎么办？

hunyinzaoyudisanzhe，laogongchuguiqizizenmeban？dangqizifaxianlaogongchuguihouzenmezuocaikeyiwanhuihunyinshenghuoni？mianduichuguidehunyinqizishouxianyaoguanlihaozijideqingxu，ranhoushilengjingyiduanshijianxiangmingbaiyuanyinhewanhuicelvezuihoukaishixingdong。

1、理智于己

yibanlejielaogongchugui，shenbeizishenzaiwaimianheqitanvrenshangchuang，nvxingdediyifanyingbianshimeng，nanyipingjingxialai，keshijishiruci，nvxingyingdangyeyaoxuehaoguanlizijidexintai，bubiyuwangdequdongshounengli。

xianyaopingjingxialai，huoshizhaoyigexuanxiedefangfa，queshibuhaonenggouquzixunxintaizhuanjia，qianwanbiemangmugenfengdezhaogepengyouchuxinzhao，youyuzheiyibuxuduonvxingyifandebuzhengque，zuizhongshudeyibaitudi。

tebieshizaibubiyiqizhixiazuochuliyidetiaoxuan，gengbubizhaoqinpenghaoyouquduifudisanzhe，neiyangzuojiushizishenshiquyouyidebiaozhun，zuizhongrangzishenbianchengbeishangsuren。

2、不必威胁恐吓

xuduonvxinglejielaogongwaiyuhou，quanshiyiweixiekonghedexintaizhuangtaiqujiejuekunnan，huoshisixialiduifulaogonghedisanzhe，shijishangshicuodelipu。

neiyangbujinbukeyijiejuekunnan，fandaorangnantigengweiebian，neiyanghuirangnanshengbachibuzhu，zhiweiliquzheiyijiazhong，zuizhongdejieguozhiyouliyibianweiliyijiating，neiyangduihaizichengzhangshibuhaode。

3、剖析外遇缘故

zaichuguidehunyinzhongchuguinanrenyifangmianshishengliwenti，lingyifangmianhunyinshenghuozhongchuxiandenanti，shijishangfuqidoushiyouyiwu，zheigeshihounvxingjiuxuyaoziwofansiyixia，zuochuxiangduidegenggai。

xiangchenggongwanhuihunyin，yaozhidaodabufenchuguinanrenbingbushiyiliyiweimudi，nvxingkeguanxingfenbian，qiebukejinugongxin，ziran，yebubilengtunbudequyinglai，budanjiaoguandelianren，yerangzishenbiandehendijian。