老公出轨了怎么挽回？离婚不是唯一办法

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一、出轨的男人还可以挽回吗

1、调节自身的心态

 youxuduonvxingcaizhidaozishenzhangfuchuguidezhuangkuang，sheidoushiqubuduandechizelingyifang，shuoyidaduimaiyuandehua，youyunitanqizheizhongjiunengzaochengtadeyanegan，jinerzhongtouzailaile。

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2、不必四处去传扬

 suirannanshenghenlanqing，keshiduizishendeshehuifazhanpinpaixingxiangjiaoweizaihu，tayeyoujiqiangdezishenfangfanyishi，jinguannvhainenggouxiezhunifaxieqingxu，danyidingyaoweichiyixiedaodedixian，wanwanbukenaodeqinqipengyoudoulejie。

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二、老公出轨了怎么挽回

1、要找到难题

 lijihezhangfugoutongjiaoliu，yaoxiangwanliuyigeduiniyiqingbieliandenansheng，jiuyingdangxianzhaodaoshitayiqingbieliandeyuangu，yigenanrenhuiyiqingbielian，nantiyidinghelingyifangyouguanxi。

 zuixianyingdangcongzishendedeshenshangzhaozhaoyuangu，jiushinishuhuchuanzhedabanbianchenglerenlaozhuhuang，shitaduinishiquxingquaihao，shinixingqingshangdequedianshitaganjueyunijiaowangdenanshoule。

 zhaodaonantiyihoujiuyaochangshigentagoutongjiaoliu，jiangchuninengfanzheizhongbuzhengquedeyuangu，jiqininengzuochudefangfancuoshi，suihouzixiaochugangkaishi，jianjiandizuochugenggai，rangtajiandaoniduizheiyiduanhunyinshenghuodejiandingbuyi，manmanditabianhuigangkaishizaochengkuijiugan，jiugangkaishifanshengziji，shifoubenshenyecunyouzhenanti，caihuizaochengqinggandeliekai。

2、yaozhongshizaicixunfangxinlaigan

丈夫有一次外遇，没办法确保没有第二次和第三次，许多女性都是那么想，当丈夫聊下不正确之后，不必一味地去训斥他，尽管这一对大家的婚姻生活造成了挺大的严厉打击，可是，人不可以总珍惜当下，不可以总抓着他的动作没放。