爱情中出现第三者，应该如何解决

 liangrenzaiyiqizuidanyoudeyingdangshipanbianhewaiyule，jiarutaoyan，jiububicouhezaiyiqi，tiaoxuantichufenshoushizuiheshidexuanze。keshijiarushidisanzhechazuneigairuhejiejueni?tiaoxuanyuanliangdehuazheiyiduanqinggannengwanliuma?jiexiaquxiaomanjiuhedahuoeryiqijiexixia：-ruhe wanhui

yidanchuxiandisanzhe，ninengzuoxiabianyixieshi：

1.不可以太在乎这件事情，无论另一方如何表述必须说动自身去挑选坚信或是忘掉。

 youyutaizaihu，yidancaiyilingyifangyouhunhouchugui，renmendoushihenxianglaiqueding。zishennizishenjiubuganxiangxinta，yincininengganjuelingyifangxuduodiqudouzuigaiqucaiyi。dangniganjuelingyifangbutaidui，haibibushangxiangtatiaomingjiangchunidexinliniantou，kankanxiatayounaxiefanying。zheishihouwuluntashuodeshihuanghuahuanshikeguanshishi，nibixutiaoxuanqujianxinlingyifang。

2.不必去和第三者碰面，更不必和第三者开展語言进攻

 youxierenhuifahuodejiangchubuguhouguodeyuju：niweishenmehuikanzhongneimeyigeren。neiyanghaowuyiwenhuibazishendeqinglvdihui。lingyifangneixinshijishanghuanshiaizhenide，keshiyouyunidedihuifandaohuiyidianneijiudexindouburongyiyou，jinguantazuobudui。

3.不必四处去散布广告词

 nanshenghenhenvxingzaiqianyishizhonglidoushihenzaihuzishendeshehuifazhanpinpaixingxiang，jiarubeibierenhuoshipenyoulejiewaiyudeshier，weilefangzhibeibierenshuodaodelunsangroulinqinggan，neiyanghuiduinihaipa，tiaoxuanshuobuaizheni，henizaiyiqitaitongchu，naizhixiangfenshoushuonibuganxiangxinta，tajinjinshouhairen。

4.当众沟通交流，打开心扉的聊一聊

 dangdajiadeqingganchuxianweijideneishihou，shidefangfashijixianghujiyuzuozheyiqipingxinjingqidetanyixia。jiangjiangxianghuduizheiyiduanqinggandexintai，zhunbeiruhejiejuezheijianshi。wulunshijihundehuanshidanshende，yidanyoudisanzhechazu，doushijilingyifangchanshengbuquedingxinghebuganxiangxin，yincixianghujianzhenxinshiyidegoutongjiaoliuhuanshiyaobixude。

5.挑选宽容另一方，给另一方一次纠正的机遇

 dangjinshehuishangyinyoudejiyuguoduo，jiarulingyifangjinjinyishihulihutuhuoshijiuhouluanxing，bingqieshifenhouhuimojidehuachedinenggou jilingyifangyicijihui，zhongjiuzaiyiqibuyi。jilingyifangyigejiyu，weicengbingbushiweizijiyigejiyu，duizheiyiduanwanmeideaiqingchengdan。

 yaoshishipengdaoguodisanzhedepenyouhuanshitanguolianqingdepenyou，neixinduiganqingyingdangchangyouzishendeguandian。duinvxingeryan，zheiyineishihoushiduoqusisuo，yongxindeduidaizishendenanpengyou，bubiqurenzhengzhenxiang，bubimingqueshifouhuoshiweihe。zhengchangnanrenshiburongyirenkezishenzuodeshier，jiusuanlaidaozuizhongtichufenshouyeburongyirangnilejiezhenzhengcankaodaan。

 zhenduibunengxinlaizhongshengdenanshenglijitiaoxuansheqi，jiarutaduinihenyongxinzuigainilaiai，neimejiuqinfenquzhengde，suihouduitashuonihenzaihuta，jitamenyixieyiwaijingxi，yigewennuanlanmandeyouhui，bukeyijilingyifanggongzuoyali。