预防第三者先从自己男人身上下手

 yufangdisanzhexiancongzijinanrenshenshangxiashou!fangzhidisanzhegonglvefenxiang：hunyinzhongnvrenruhetuoshanguanlizijidenanren?laogong☞ chugui disanzhezenmeban?hunyinzaodisanzhechazugaizenmechuli?

一、预防第三者先从自己男人身上下手

 nanxingweishenmeyouwaiyu?zaizheigedisanzhexingshengdeshidai，nanxingdewaiyuyijingbushixinxiandehuati，yeyounanxingjuededisanzhetixianlezijidenengli。

 laogongchuguidisanzhezenmeban?hunyinzaodisanzhechazugaizenmechuli?zaizheiyangdenanrenyanli，yinweijuedezijinengpaidawaimiandeqizhi，suoyijialidehongqibuhuidaoxiayeshibenshi。 shehuifengqizhuzhanglenanxingdezheizhongaoman，nanxingdenanziqigaiyezengjiale，nanxingchuguideyuanyindabufendoushitazijizhanzhuyaoyinsu，shijishanggengduodenvxingwufaguanlizijidenanxing。

 xiangyaoguanlizijidenanxingxuyaofangfahejishu，bunengqiangxingbazijidenanxingguanzaijiali，zheizhinengxiangfan。 qici，disanzheshuofutuishi，jiaohuiruheshanyuguanlizijidenanren。

yongyuanrangzijiyoumeilidongrendewaibiao。

 henduonanxingchuguishiyinweishentichuguile，suoyizaiwaimianxunzhaobiedenvxing，shiweilewanshuaxunqiuciji。 weishenmeni? henduoyiqianmeilidenianqingqizixianzaibianchengle“huangyanpo”，duinanrenmeiyoulemeili，suoyinanrendebenxingjiuxihuanzhuizhunianqingmeilidenvren。

 faxianni20suideshihoutonglingnanxingxihuan18suidenvhai，30suideshihouxihuanpangbiandenanxinghaishi18suidenvhai，50suideshihouxihuangaolingnanxinghaishi18suidenvhai。 suoyi，ruguonizongxiangxiyinnidenanren，nijiuyaochengwei“bulaodexianrenqi”，bujinyaozhuangbanziji，haiyaorangzijisuishixiandenianqing。

bixuhezijidenanrenyiqiqianjin。

 zheilisuoshuodegongtongqianjin，yiweizhenimenbujinyoutongyangdeshijieguan、jiazhiguan，erqiezijideshenghuoshuipingyehenimendenanxingyiyangyoushangshengdeqingxiang。 weishenmezheimeshuo?

 laogongchuguidisanzhezenmeban?hunyinzaodisanzhechazugaizenmechuli?xuduonvxingjiehunhou，yinweixuanzezaizijijializuoquanzhiqizi，bujinshenghuoquanfeichangxiaxiao，zhengtianmianduideyeshicailiaomikangyanzheizhongweixiaodexianshishenghuo。 zhangqiyilai，tamenmingxiangandaozijiyuanlishehui，zijidezhangfusuizheshidaidebufaqianjin，fuqijiandejuliyezaichansheng。 suoyi，nvxingjiehunhouhaiziduannaihou，jinliangchuqugongzuo，bixuquanzhidaizhehaizihuijia，yexuyaozijideshenghuohepengyouquanzi。

qianwanbuyaozuohuaihenzaixindeshi。

 nanrenzhidaozuitaoyanshenmeyangdenvrenma?yizhengtianweilexiaoshizaizijierbianxianliaodenvren，shizuitaoyannanrendenvren。 taduzixiao，duzilibujinzhichengbuzhuchuan，yanjingliyemeiyoushazi，bushunlijiuxihuanfaxiebuhaodexinqing。

 suirantamenbuhuihehaopengyoutukoushui，danshitamenxihuanbaoyuanzijidenanren，tamenduizijidenanrenshuo，juedezheigenanrenduoshaonengtiliangziji。 qishixiangfan，nanrenzuitaoyandeshizuonvrendeganqinglajixiang。

 nanrenzaiwaimiangongzuohenlei，suoyihuijiahoubangzhuchuliqizidehuaiganqing，tamengandaogenglei，henjiuyiqiantamendouxiangquzhaozijibuneimeleidenvren。 yinci，nvrenmenyingdangxiaoxinbuyaopaoqizijidezhangfu。

youxienvxingzhidaozijihezhangfuchaojia，hezhangfuzhengchao，danshijishangqueshizijidexingxianggengjiaehua。

 laogongchuguidisanzhezenmeban?hunyinzaodisanzhechazugaizenmechuli?rangnanrenjuedeqizishibuhelidesaodong，bingbushihenhaodijiejuewenti，ershiyuelaiyuexiangniandisanzhedewenrou，qizisuoqidaodexiaoguofashenglebianhua。 chuyubulidiweideqizi，wufazhangwoduanzandeshijian，shiqujiehundekenengxingkuoda。

zuoyigeruizhidenvren，zhidaozuoshenmeyangdeshiyoushouhuizhangfudexiaoguo，zaiduifangxinliandingzijidediwei，ganzoudisanzhe。