发现丈夫有情人妻子该怎么做

 faxianzhangfuyouqingrenqizigaizenmezuo?baoni·weierhelusi·wenteerhexieguoyibenshu《hunhouchugui，kekuanshudezui》，zhuanyetanshuzheiyinanti。danshi，xianjieduannizuibixuchulide，bingbushikuanshubukuanshudenanti，zhishizenyangkandaidenanti。nanrenhunneichuguilezenmeban？hunyinchuxiandisanzhezenmebanhao？ruheyingdui ☞chugui weiji？

一、发现丈夫有情人妻子该怎么做

wen：nandaoshuohunhouchuguishinenggoukuanshudema?

 da：meiguohunyinnantiquanweizhuanjiabaoni·weierhelusi·wenteerhexieguoyibenshu《hunhouchugui，kekuanshudezui》，zhuanyetanshuzheiyinanti。danshi，xianjieduannizuibixuchulide，bingbushikuanshubukuanshudenanti，zhishizenyangkandaidenanti。

wen：neimewogairuhekandai?

 da：huanshizheijuhua：nibenzhiwuxuwen，wuxuguan。huoshiyeyaojiashangyijuhua：nibenzhiwuxutongchu、wuxufahuo。jiuhaoxiangnaxieshierdoumeichansheng。

问：但是我做不到。

da：nimeifazuodao，biaomingniyishiquzishen。

问：这句话怎讲?

 da：zhangfubingbushiniyishizhuxingdesuoyou，nicaisuanshinidesuoyou。laogongchugui，jiubuyuanchi、buyuanhe、buyuanhuo，niyeyouzishenma?

问：那我该怎么做?

 da：feichangjiandan：gaichijiuchi，gaichuanjiuchuan，gaiwanjiuwan，gainulishixianzhiyeshengyafazhanjiujijizhudongnulishixian，yiqiedoububidange，naizhinikeyiyoulenideqingxingjiyu。huanjuhuashuo，yaohuodexiaosagengweijingcai，youyunibingbushiweitaersheng，bingbushiweitaerhuode。

wen：danshizheiyangyilai，hunyinshenghuoyeyoushijiyiyima?

 da：huoxugengyouyiyi。youyuhunyindeyiyijihudoubingbushiyigegudingbudongdechangliang，zairenshengdaoludebuyiyanghuanjie，hunyindeyiyishichedibuyiyangde。

问：如何了解?

 da：nanrenhunneichuguilezenmeban？hunyinchuxiandisanzhezenmebanhao？hunyinshenghuozairenshengdaoludebuyiyanghuanjie，zuishaojubeisizhongbuyiyangdeshijiyiyi：yishiquanguochengshijiyiyi，jizaijincunshehuifazhantixixia，rendaoyidingnianji，yidingyaozhixing“wanhun”zheiyiquanguocheng。buxiangjiehun，buzhixingzheiyiquanguocheng，jiubianchengjijutese，yitiandaowanbeibierenshuolaidaoqu;

 sanshi“xianghujingjidaguo”shijiyiyi，hunyinshenghuozaijinrizhongjiuhaidanfuzheguanjiandejingjifazhanzuoyong，meirenyibiangengweipinkunerwanhun，erzhinengwanhuncaikeyikuaisutigaoniyizhizaizheiyishehuifazhanzhongdejingjifazhanzhipeili;sishi“baitoudaolao”shijiyiyi，dengniwuliushisui，quandouzuomeidongle，cike，laonianfuqibulibuqi，caituxianhunyinshenghuodezuiguanjianshijiyiyi。

wen：nijiangzheizhongshijiyiyi，yuwolaogongdewaiyuyounaxieguanlianni?

 da：taiyouguanlianle。ruguonizhangfubuhuiyinhunhouchuguiermingquetichuliyi，zenidehunyinshenghuojiunenganshijinichongfenfahuixuyoujijizhudonggongxiao，nidehunyinshenghuozongyou“kechixufazhanguan”deshichangqianjing——zhangfujinizhixinglerenshengdaoludejichuquanguocheng，nibingbushijijutese;

 zhangfubangnizhangchulezishendexueyuanguanxizisunhoudai，niyibuxinshengudan;zhangfutishengleniyizhizaizheiyishehuifazhanzhongdejingjifazhanzhipeili，niwuxuzaiduziyirenkuchengyishizhuxingdejianku，naizhinicongeryibudengtian;

 nanrenhunneichuguilezenmeban？hunyinchuxiandisanzhezenmebanhao？laidaozhangfuyunizaoyiliangbinhuabaideneishihou，woquebaotajueduiburongyihaiyouhunhouchugui，tayidinghuihaohaodipeizhenianduwannian。nikankan，hunyinshenghuodesidaguanjianshijiyiyi，zainidehunyinshenghuoshangdoucunyouzhe，niyoumeiyoushenmeyaotongchu、younaxieyaofahuodeni?

wen：danshi，taduinagenvrenheduiwozhen，tayelichangqupeita!

 da：neijiushilinshide，tabutaikenengpeitayibeizi，tabutaikenenghunhouchuguiyibeizi!yaoshitabuxiangnimingquetichuliyi，jiubiaomingtazaoyijiangnicunchuzaineixinshenchu，biaomingtayiranjiangnizuoweitarenshengdaoludezuizhongguichu，jiangnizuoweitadejia。ertaxianjieduanchanshengdehunhouchugui，danshinanrenyishixingqi，yubujingyipengdaodekexinnvshengwanxiaeryi。

 yexuyaoshigaohaonizishen，meiribucaizhuangbuwaichu，meiribugaitaoxinyifukuzibuwaichu，meiriquefazixinbuwaichu。zhumingxiaoshuojiayishushuoguo：“yigenanrentiaoxuanyigenvren，jueduibingbushiyouyutabenzhiyouduopiaoliang，zhishiyouyuzheiyinvrendewaizaipinpaixingxiangdailaitaxingfudejuede。”