丈夫有外遇怎么办？老公有第三者咋办

 zhangfuyouwaiyu zenmeban?jihunrenyuanchangyouzaoshouhunwailiandejianghui，xiandaiqingganshehuidaodehexingdaodeyejihunwailianchanshengyixielunlidaodeshangdegenju。zaiyingpian《disanzhe》li，laopozaoyuneiyangzheizhongnankan：yingduihunyin，lianrenhaowuyiwenshidisanzhe;eryingduiganqing，laopoquebianchenglezhazhashishidedisanzhe。

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首位，要理智沉着冷静，切勿自乱阵脚，选准缘故，有时候能够无音中处理第三者儿。

 shibushiniyuexiangyueqinao，yuexiangyuejiaolv，xiangqichongchongdipaoquyuenilaogongduibugongtangleni?woquannisansierxing，woxianzaibixuzuodejiushishuoxianrangzishenpingjingxialai，gaozhizishenzheirenhejiranzaoyichansheng，neizishenjiubixunenggouchengguoqu，zhongjiumingrihaihuigandao，yishizhuxingyehaijiangzaici，weizijichongyudezixinxin。

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其次，搞清第三者儿目地，究竟是为情還是为钱?

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