其实相亲也没有什么不好，相亲有哪些征兆是不好的

 zaimougedifangkandaoyigetiezi：lunluodaoxiangqindenanhai，nvhaishishei？xiamiandehuifuhenshao，bushirementiezi。dangwodiyicikandaotadeshihou，woshenmeyemeiganjuedao，danshizixikankan，zheishifeichangfengcide。xiangqinyounaxiezhengzhaoshibuhaode？

xiangqinzhendeneimezaogaoma？cankaomuqiandijiehunlv、kuaijiezoudeshenghuo，xiangqinzhendezhishiyizhongfeichangpubiandexianxiang。

 quxiangqinbudaibiaozheixienansheng。lowbeitaotaile，haiyouyizhongkenengshizheixienanhainvhaideyaoqiugenggao，yegengkantoulehunyinshenghuo。

 yixienianqingrenfeichangkangjuxiangqin。tamenxiangxinxiangqindexingshihuiyindaoshuangfangbuyaoguanzhuzijideganshou，ershiguanzhuduifangdetiaojianshifoufuhetamendeqiwang。

worenshideyigenvhai，jianjuejujuexiangqin，tashuoxiangqinhuirangtajuedezijixianggeshangpin。

 shishishang，suoweideshenghuojiushimianduixianshi。dangnimeiyounengliyikaozijilaishixiannixiangyaodemubiaoshi，nixuyaofuchuyixieshouduan，biruxiangqinlaicujinmubiaodeshixian。

meiyoushenmekezhizede，zhiyaonidexinshizhongshiganqingde，jishishixiangqindehunyin，yezuyiyongailaibaoguo。

erxiangqinzhuoduimianzuozhedeshishenmeyangderen，nihuiquxuanzeta，kannideyanjingliangbuliang，nengkantoutadexingge。

xiangqindehaochushixianeryijiande：zhijizhibi，jieshengshijian，mubiaomingque。

bineixiedahailaozhendeaiqing，neixieshuoyouqingheshuideqinghua，laideduo。xiangqinyounaxiezhengzhaoshibuhaode？

 dangran，ruguonizaiquxiangqinzhiqian，nikeyiyikaoziji。“yujian”guanlihaoyiduanganqing，neiyeshizhidechengzande。danshi，zheibingbushinikanbuqixiangqindeliyou。

pengyouxiaona(huaming)shitongguoxiangqin，huodeletianmidehunyin。erqieyikaishi，tayekangjuxiangqinzheijianshi。

 yuxiaonaxiangqindenanhaizaikandaozhaopianhouyijianzhongqing。danxiaonazongshijujuexiangqin。zheishifumuyulaopengyoudeguanxi。xiaonajuedequxiangqinshitameiyoumeilidebiaoxian。

 xiaonazhiqianyejingliguoxiangqinjieshao，tabeidongjiadeneixieqqerweixin，tayaomeshiguyibatianliaosi，yaomeshiduinanfangdeyinqinlengchuli。

 jieshaorenhenanhaishuoxiaonadizhixiangqin，nanhaishejileyigelangmandeqingjie，rangliangrenxiangyu。suizhejiechudezhujianjiashen，xiaonayeaishanglezheigenanhai。

 zaiaiqingdeguochengzhong，lianggerenyehentianmi。tamenyouxiangtongdesanzhongguandian，zhidaoruhehuxiangguanxinheqianjiu。nanhaihoulaigaosuxiaona，tashixiangqinduixiang，zaijieshaozhiqianbeijujuele。

xiaonaxianzaihenzhenxizijidehunyinshenghuo，yehenqingxingzijimeiyoucuoguozheici“xiangqin”，meiyoucuoguozijidezhangfu。

 xuduoyuanfen，doushizaibujingyijianzhijian。zainideganqingmeiyouchenailuodingzhiqian，nanhaihenvhaiduokankan，fazineixindeganqing，meiyoushenmebuhaode。

 meigerendouyouyigelangmandeaiqingziwosheding，suoyihenduonianqingrenyikaishidoudizhixiangqin，dansuizhenianlingdezengzhang，tamenjinglilegengduo，kandaolegengduo，manmandikaishijieshouxiangqin。

 xiangqinqishizhishilianggerenxiangyudeyizhongfangshi。erqietadehaochushilingyibanshifumushaixuande，shengao、xueli、gongzuo、qizhi、jiatingtiaojiandoushipipeide。

neixiefumufanduideganqing，taibuxingfule。qingchunshizibenyeshibiduan，youqishilianaizhongdenvhai，tairongyimengbishuangyan。

zhengruyourensuoshuo：“meigerendouzhidaoshijieshangmeiyoubusandeyanxi，danyexinshidandandichengnuoyongyuan。”

neixieyongyuan，shijianlizaishengcun、shenghuo、sanguanqihedejichushangde。

 dangran，bukefouren，xiangqinyeshiyouquediande。danwulunzainazhongwenhuatixixia，zheizhongbiduanshifouhuifajiao，gengqujueyudangshirenbenren。

zaijuedingshifouxiangqinzhiqian，nizhixuyaowenzijilianggewenti：

ruguoyinweijujuexiangqinercuoguolezhengyuan，nihuihouhuima？

 xiangqinyounaxiezhengzhaoshibuhaode？jiarubicirentong，juedingjixufazhan，nihuifoudingnimenzhijiandeaiqing，yinweishixiangqinhuodedeganqing？