相亲怎么聊天微信的技巧，必备这些高情商技巧

 xiangqinzenmeliaotianweixindejiqiao，wulunniyihezhongfangshirenshinvhai，nidouxuyaotongguoliaotianlaijieshuguanxi。jishishixiangqinyebuliwai，danxuduonanhaixuanzexiangqinshiyinweitamenmeiyouzugoudeaiqingjingyan，suoyizaiweixinshangyuxiangqinduixiangliaotianzongshihenganga。zaizheizhongqingkuangxiawomengaizenmeban？neimeruhezaiweixinshangyuxiangqinduixiangliaotianni？

1.假装熟悉，不要刻板

 jishishitongguoxiangqinrenshidenvhaizailiaotianshiyebunengyansukeban。tamenrengranxuyaotongguoliaotianjianlilianghaodeyinxiang。xiangqinbushitanpanheshangye。buyaoyishanglaijiuguofenguanzhutiaojian，gengbuyongshuozhibenzhutile。

 shuangfangdoubushuxitamenganggangrenshidexiangqinduixiang，tamenzhengchuyuxiangduikezhihegangadejieduan。cishi，nikeyitongguojiazhuangshuxidefangshixunsudapojiangju，xiaochuzuichurenshiqideganga，jinruzhengchangdegoutongzhuangtai。

“nizaidengwoshuowananma？”

“zheimeredetian，nizainagekongdiaofangliliangshuangde？”

“niliuduanfayidinghaokan”

“shangbanwanshoujibupabeilingdaozhuama”

2.多提供，少提供

 yunvhailiaotianshi，buyaobuduandiwenwenti。zheijiazhi。ruguonideguanxibudaowei，wentaiduowenti，nvxinghuibanidingyiweidiqingshang。wenwentibunengrangnvhaixihuanni。nvhaixihuandeshinizhanshihetigongdejiazhi。

 nvrenshimuqiangzeou，tamenyaozhaodeshiyoujiazhidenanren，yaozhanshinideyoudian，shanguangdian，nvrendeqinggandianlucainengganshoudaoni。

“laishanghaichucha，waitanyirujiwangdeyongji”

“zuijin，womeitiandouzaikongzhitizhimashangjiuyaobengkuile。”

3.调动情绪，适当暧昧

 nvrentebiexihuanyoumoyouqudenanren。yuanyinshizheiyangdenanhaikeyiweinvhaitigonglianghaodeqingganjiazhi，rangtakaixin。yinci，jishishixiangqinrenshidenvhaiyebunengtaikebanhewuliao。

“nidezhaopianhenkeai。wojini8fen。”“manfen100”

“xuexikenengbuhuidanwuwanzheimezhongyaodeshiqing”

 xiangqinzenmeliaotianweixindejiqiao，ruguolianggerendeguanxixiangyaojinbu，jiubixubuduankuodashuangfangdeaimeiqingxu，jinyibushengwenguanxi。aiqingguanxiyouyigechuangkouqi。yidanchuangkouqiguozhang，guanxijiubuhuishengwen，nvshengyebuhuizaijinijihuile。

“wohaimeixingguolai。niwojiushineigeqizhebaimajiaoxingnideren。”

“laikankannijintianchuandepiaoliangbupiaoliang。”

“suoyihuizhaogurendemuqinshuohuizhaogurendenvhaishihejiahuijia”

4.来回切换，螺旋加热

 yunvhailiaotianyouliangtiaoxian。yishirenzhenwenzhongdezhuxian，tanlungongzuo、shenghuodengyansuhuati；lingyigeshimolengliangkeheyouqudejiarexian，molengliangkedediaoqing，qingsongheyouqu。zheiliangtiaoxianyinggailaihuiqiehuan，bingbuduanwennuanguanxi。

 nanrenyinggaixuehuiyuhui。tamenbunengyiluzoudaoheianzhong。dangwendushangshengshouzushi，tamenhuiqiehuandaowendingdehuati；wendingdehuatijihubeitanlun，ranhouqiehuanhuimolengliangkedehuati，suoyixunhuan。

男孩：这么晚才睡觉

女孩：哈哈是啊

nanhai：dengwoshuowanan(diaoqing)

女生：没有

nansheng:woyeganggangwanchenglemingtiankaihuidewenan(renzhen)

女生：辛苦

nansheng:meiyouniwojiumeiyounaozigongzuo(diaoqing)

女孩：哈哈哈

 xiangqinzenmeliaotianweixindejiqiao，yishangjiushiruheyuxiangqinduixiangweixinliaotianfenxi，xiwangdajianengchenggongxiangqin，shouhuozijideaiqing。