婚姻恋爱，相亲找对象须知

 jintiandeshehuishiyigetichanggexingdeshidai。suizhenianqingrenjiaoyushuipingdebuduantigao，tebieshifunvdeshehuijiazhiriyituchu，shifunvhuodegengduodedulixing。xiandainvxingyuyiqiandenvxingbutong。xiangqinzhaoduixiangzenmezuo？

 weishenmegudainvxingmeiyoudiwei，yinweitamenzhuanqiandenenglibinanxingruodeduo。yigerenshifouyouzugoudefayanquanyutadejingjijichuhuozhuanqiannengliyouhendaguanxi。

 xiandainvxingchulejuyouchuantongdeshengyujiazhiwai，haijuyouhengaodeshehuijiazhi。xuduonvxingdezhuanqiannenglishenzhibuyayuyixienanxing。youyuxingbiebilibupingheng，nanxingwangwanggengnianqing，nongcunpinkunjiatingdenanhaihennanzhaodao，xuduoweihunnvxingliurudachengshi。tamenkenengbuxianghuidaonongcunhuoxiaoxiancheng。

 nianqingrenhenyougexing，kenengbuhuisuiyirongnarenheren。yinweixianzairenmenbujiehunyekeyishenghaizi，keyixiangshouyixieshenghuo。hunyindechengbenyehengao，suoyiyuelaiyueshaodenianqingrenyuanyizaodianjiehun，yemeiyouxiangyiqianneiyangshenghaizi，jinguanguojiagulisangehaizi，yinweifuyanghaizidechengbentaigaole。

婚姻将是未来的一大难题

danshiruguowomenrenleixiangyaofanyanhoudai，womenbixujiehunshengzi。putongrenhaishilaolaoshishijiehunshengzi。

从时间维度开始。

nanhaihenvhaidouyouzuihaodejiehunnianling。

 zuoweiputongren，nvhaidehunyinhuangjinnianlingshi22-28sui，xiaochengshibuchaoguo25sui，dachengshizuihaobuchaoguo28sui。ruguoshinansheng，22-30suidoukeyi，chufeiniyouqian、youxueli、youjiating，fouzebunengchaoguo30sui。

fumuzai25suizhihoujiukaishitoutong，25suiyihoudanshendefumugujibanyeshuijuedoubuwending，tamendanxina。

 suoyishijianjiedianfeichangzhongyao。ruguowomenzaodianshangxue，womenhuizainianqingdeshihouzaodianzhuiruaihe，danjizhuyaobaohuziji。buhuaiyunshidixian。daxueshengyinggaijinkuaizhuiruaihe。airangnilejieyixing。xiangqinzhaoduixiangzenmezuo？

 nibubijiehun。womenbixujizhu，youqishinvhai，tamenkeyisuiyiditanlunfengkuang，dantamenzaishenghaizishiyinggaixiaoxinlingqujiehunzheng。buyaoweileshenghaiziershenghaizi，yinweinibunenghouhuishenglehaizi。

 womenxuyaolianxigengduoderen，zheiyangwomencainengzhidaosheiduinizhendehenhao。duinihaoderenbujinzongshixiangzheni，erqieyuanyiweinihuaqian。zheibingbuyiweizhenihuadeqianyueduoyuehao，ershijinkenengduodijinijihusuoyoudeqian。

 zuihaozhaoyigeheshideduixiang，zheiyangmeigerendouhuigengpingdeng。ruguonihenfuyou，nikeyitongguoailaibangzhuqiongren。bijing，nibingbuqueqian。niweishenmebuzhaoyigenixihuanderenni？

 taxiangyaonideqian，nixiangyaotadeqingchunhehuoli，zheiweinitigonglehengaodeqingganjiazhi。danshiruguoniyehenqiong，zhaodaoyigehenqiongderen，shenghuohuihenbeishang，chufeininengcongtashenshangkandaotadeqianli，dadutajianglaihuiyouweilai，huozheduifangdeyoushiduinilaishuofeichangzhongyao。

 xunzhaoyigeduixiangzongshixiangyaoyixiedongxi，wulunnishixiangyaoqian，yanse，womendounenglijiedejiyin。wobuzhidaowoyindebenzhishijiazhijiaohuan，danbuyidingshipingdengde。ruguonimendounengweiduifangtigongtamenxiangyaodedongxi，nimenkeyijixu。

 buyaoqidaitonghualideaiqing。buyaoxiangtaitannikehaonannvzhujiaodeaiqinggushiyouduomei，yinweijiejubuhao。zuihaodeaiqinggushidagailvzhicunzaiyuxueshengshidai，dagailvzhicunzaiyuxiaoshuozhong。

如果梁山伯和祝英台的故事放在现代社会，你会先选择哪个结局

nanhaizimendouxiangzhaodaozijidebaixuegongzhu，dantamenbixushiwangzijibiea。

nvhaiziyexiangzaizijixinzhongzhaodaobaimawangzi，danniyeyaochengweigongzhujibiea。

 zheibingbushiyaodajimeigerenxunzhaowanmeidebanlv，danxunzhaowanmeibanlvdejihuihenxiao，yinweiwanmeiderengenbenbucunzai。jishitacunzai，tayekenengshiyigeweizhuangderenlaiqipiannikongzhinide，henduonvshengdoubeipianzipianqianpiansepianshenghaizi。

nvhaizilianaishibuyaojiduifanghuataiduoqian，yinweifenshoukenengbuhuihuilai。

nvshenglianaishiyebuyaohuataiduoqian，ruguofenshou，youdaezhuanzhangjilu，nanshengkeyishouhuibufen。

 buyaozuobierendeqingfu，yinweinihuadeqianyekeyibeiyuanlaidebanlvzhuihui，nidehaizikenengwufajichengyichan，yinweiruguoyizhumeiyouliujinidehaizi。

 nibunengjianchaaiqing，danzaijiehunzhiqian，nibixujianchaduifangdezhenshiqingkuang，yuduifangdefumujianmian，bingyuqinqipengyoujinxinggengduodejiaoliu。ruguonibuxiangjiandaotadeqinqipengyou，nikenenghuiyouyigeweizhidemimi。jianchaduifangdehunyinzhuangkuang、shengyuzhuangkuang、yuanjiatingzhuangkuang、fangdichanzhuangkuang、zhaiwuzhuangkuangdeng，jinxingjinqianhunqianjiancha，shuangfangqinzichujuxinyongdiaochabaogao。

 xiangqinzhaoduixiangzenmezuo？nibunengjiehun，dannibixuyouzijidehaiziweinidewannianzuozhunbei。meiyouhaizidelaorenheyouhaizideyanglaoyuanyouhendadebutong。