再不结婚就老了，90后春节相亲指南

 xiangqinzhinanyounaxie？2010nian，mianduigaofangjia，lianggechengshidenianqingrenpincouzaiyiqi，taokonglejiating，fuleshoufumaifang，dengshanglefangjiakuaisushangzhangdekuaiche；lingyifangmian，wozongjuedegaofangjiabuheli。dangfangzijiangjiashi，wozaiyemaibuqile。

 suiranmeiyouzhengju，danwomomingqimiaodijuede，ruguo90houbujiehun，tamenkenengjiubuhuijiehun。nianqingrendeyiyuanzhujianxiajiang，hunyinchengbendandiaozengjia，renshanrenhai，quehennanzhaodaozhiji。

2022nianchunjiejiuyaodaole，nizaijiaanpaixiangqinlema？

一、改变思想认识，相亲是一件有趣的事情

 xuduorenbaoyuanxiangqin，shenzhijuedebilaobangengnanduifu。shishishang，zheishimeiyoubiyaode。suiranxiangqinkenenghenganga，dantayehuiyudaoyixieqiguaideshiqing，danxiangqinyeyouhenduohaochu。xiangqinshilejietarenhelejietarendeyizhongfangshi。

 nikeyijileijingyan，zengjiajingyan。xiangqinhou，nihuiyudaogezhonggeyangderen，zheihuirangnigengqingchunixiangzhaodaoshenmeyangderenyiqiduguonideyisheng。yinci，jishixiangqinshibai，yehuiyoushouhuo，suoyinibubiyuxiangqinkangju。

二、正确认识自己很重要

 xiangqinshiyigeshuangxiangxuanzedeguocheng。jintiandenianqingrenfeichangxianshi。dangnixuanzebierenshi，bierenshijishangshizaixuanzeni。meirenhejieshaorentongchanggenjushuangfangdeqingkuangheshilijinxingpeidui。nanrenyinggaibijiaozijideshengao、waibiao、shifouyoufangziheqichedeng；nvxingxuyaokaolvzijideshenti、waibiao、wenrou、xianhuideng

 dangnidetiaojianzhiyou80fenshi，nibunengzhiwangzhaodao100fendelingyiban，chuleneixiewanqude。liru，duiyuyigezaigegefangmiandouyoufangzi、qichehewendinggongzuodenanrenlaishuo，taduilingyibandeyaoqiutongchangbudi。

三、一些相亲干货(针对男生)

 xiangqinzhinanyounaxie？chuanzhedeti：nvhaihenhao。xuduonanhaibunengdaban。nikeyixiangnidexiongdijiemeixunqiubangzhu。nibubichuandetaishechi。zhishaoniyinggaichuanzhedeti，kanqilaihenshufu。xiangqintongchangbuchuanxizhuang，zheihuishiqifenyansu。

 shijianguannianyaoqiang：xiangqinqianwanbuyaochidao，zheishijibendelimao，yenengshuomingnidetaidu。ruguoxiangqinchidao，zaixiangqinduixiangyanzhongdeyinxianghuidadajiangdi。

 zixin，ziran：henduonanshengdouhenzixin“men”，buhuihenvhailiaotian，kannvhaibunengshuohua，feichangbuzixinhebuziran。zaixiangqindeguochengzhong，shuangfangzaixiangqinshidoushipingdengde，yijiaopengyoudexintai，jibuqianbeiyebuzhuanheng。

 tiqianzhunbeiyixieliaotianhuati，birunvhaixihuanchishiwu、lvxing、kandianshijudeng，nikeyicongzheixiefangmiankaishi。ruguonizhendezhaobudaozheigehuati，neijiushizhezhenchengyidian。ranhougengduodeshenshi，birujinvhaidaoshui，gengduodeguanxin，rangnvhaizoujinqu，dengdeng。

 kongzhixiangqinjiezou:xiangqinjiezoubunengkuaiyebunengman。dangnizaixiangqinzhongyudaonixihuandenvhaishi，buyaobiaoxiandehenhao“jike”buyaoshuoshenme“woaini”，“feinibuke”dengdeng，zheizhongxingweizainvshengxinzhongqishiyoudiandiaojia，guozaobaoluxuqiu，huirangnizaixiangqinzhongchuyubeidongzhuangtai，daozhizuizhongdejieguoshideqifan。

 lingwai，xiangqinjianmianyiliangci，kanbudaoduifangzhenshideyimian，duifangkenengbushinizhenzhengxiangyaodecai。danshibuyaotaiman，fouzenikenenghuicuoguobingjishibiaodanidexiangfa。xiangqinhou，ruguoninengyuyue2-3ci，zheitongchangyiweizheyouyichangxi，nikeyijinyibufazhan。

 xiangqinhou，ruguobudadianhuajiduifang，jiuyaoweiwandibiaomingtaidu，haohaojuhaosan。ruguoduifangbuyuanyifangqi，keyishishi“lengchuli”duiyuduifangdedianhua，xiaoxixianhuifu10fenzhong，ranhouzaihuifu1xiaoshi，zuihoubuhuifu(zhijiebuhuifu)。buyaoshuoxiangqinduixiangdehuaihua，yebuyaosuibianshanghaiduifang。

 xiangqinzhinanyounaxie？90housihuzongshimaodunde。yifangmian，tamenshengchengzijimeiyoujiehun，dandangtamenkandaozijichengshuangchengdui，jiatingxingfushi，tamenbujingandaoxianmuhetanxi“meiyourenwenwozhoukewen”。zaiwokanlai，renmenzongshixiangyaoyigejiaheyigegangwan。