高质量相亲指南，如何学会相亲

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如何在恰到好处的时候遇见自己的命运

 buyaoqidaiyigebuchumen，bushejiaode“rushiqiangjieshi”ai，zuihaozhudongzouchujiamen，lianxiwaimianderen。ruguonizhengchangcanjiashejiaohuodong，rengranmeiyouyudaozhenai，nikeyikaolvxiayibudexiangqin！duiyuxuduolianaizhongdexiaobaihedanshenmuqinlaishuo，xiangqinshijinruhunyindiantangzuikuaidefangshi。

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 shuodaoxiangqin，henduorenyiciyouyicidijujue，yinweizheixianghuodongjiuxiangbazijidangzuoyigemingquequebiaojiayiyang“shouhuoji”qianrenxuanze，tongshi，niyongyuanbuzhidaosheishinidexiangqinduixiang。dangtayudaotashi，tahuishuotayouduomaofan，tahuizuochuduomebuyadexingwei。weilejiehunerjiehun，hebanlvzhuzaiyiqi，meiyourenhuixihuanta。

yinci，pengyoumen，guoduanjujuedizhiliangxiangqin，buyaolangfeishijianquxiuruziji！

 yidanxiangqindedaoluxingbutong，shifoumeiyoujihuiyudaolingyiban？dangranbushi。dizhiliangdexiangqinshibukekaode。womenkeyichangshigaozhiliangdexiangqin，xuexi“hui”xiangqin，nikeyizaixiangqinzhongzhaodaoheshidelingyiban。

quxiangqinbingbuyiweizhenihuiquxiangqinyuyigeci-“hui”。zenmezuocaishi“hui”xiangqinni？

 buyaoyikaishijiujiandancubaoditanlunnianling、shengao、jiaoyuchengdu、zhiye、yuexin、chekudeng。zheiyang，ruguotiaojianguoyuwuhua，jiubuhuiyujiaoyiwangzhanyouhendadebutong。womenkeyigaibianwomendexiangfa，tanlunbutongdeshiqing。

例如，我们可以尝试以下主题

diyi，huoquxinxidezhuyaolaiyuan。

 liru，meitianshiyongzuiduodezaixianmeitishishenme？zheixiemeitidezhuyaoneirongshishenme？meizhouyuedudepingjunchixushijianshiduoshao？tongguomeitianxianghuxishouxinxideneirong、qudaohepinlv，womenkeyichubulejiebicideshijieguan。

第二，人际关系。

 xiangqinzhinanyounaxie？liru，yuqinpenghaoyoujianmiandepinlvshiduojiu？niyoujiarujulebuhuozuzhidejingyanma？nizaigongsitongshizhongbanyanshenmejiaose？zhiyoulejieleshuangfangdeshehuizhuangkuang，womencainengkanchutamenshifoushitongyileiren。

disan，jingjitaiduhejinqianxingwei。

 maifangmaichedetaidushishenme？ninianqingshixuyaoweituixiuzuojihuama？richangxiaofeidegainianshishenme？duijinqiandetaiduwangwangshixuduoqinmiguanxidewuxingdingshizhadan。ruguonicuxindayi，nijiangyinglaishenghuo“dabaozha”。

第四，家庭关系。

 hunhouruhechulisangejiatingzhijiandeguanxi？ruhehexiefuqiguanxi，poxiguanxi？ruhekandaiyinbuheerlihundeqingkuang？zheixiewentimeiyoujueduideduicuozhifen。guanjianshikanshuangfangshifouyuanyiyiqitaolunzheixiewenti。

第五，生活习俗。

 zheiyeshiyigejingchangbeihushidewenti。shishishang，zhuruzongjiaoxinyang、teshudejiatingxisuhexinnianwenhoufangshidengwentibukedigu。tongguozheixiexijie，womenkeyikandaohenduoneirong。

 yiweijiaoshoucengshuo：“kandaiyigerenshiyigepianduan:nenglihao，xueligao……shishishang，zheixiebingbudaibiaoshenme，zhiyouzoudaoyiqishenghuocaihuifaxian。”deque，gaoxueliderenzhayebushimeiyou，yugefangmianlvexianpingyongderenbuyidingnengxiangyixiangbanyisheng。

 wulunruhe，jiranwomenxuanzelexiangqin，womenyinggaixuexi“hui”xiangqin，jinkenengdibameiyicixiangqindoubianchengyigegaozhiliangdexiangqin。tanlunshangshujigebuneimemingquedehuati，zongshibiqiche、fangzi、xinshuigenghao，bukebimianditaiganga。zuihou，wulunshuangfangdeguanxiruhejieshu，aihuoyouyi，womendoukeyichengzhiweigaozhiliangdexiangqin。#xiangqin#

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