情感问答：相亲对象介意我不是处咋办？真正爱你的男生会介意你不是处吗？

 hexiangqinduixiangshizaixuexiaotuijiandexiangqingongzhonghaojiashangde，diyicijianmianjiuliuwohaoma，dangwanwenwoyuanyitanlianaibu，liaotianzhongduocicemianwenwoshibushichu，bushihoubiaoxiandehenjieyishaonvqingjie，yancijilie，getianhouyouhuilaiwanhuiwo，shiwogaopanlema?

 zizhizhangxiangpingfanquanzixiao，xingfuyaokaozhengqudelai。zaixuexiaotuijiandebendigongzhonghaoshangzhudongjialezheiweinansheng。diyicijianmianliuwodianhua，dangwandadianhuawenyuanbuyuanyihetatanlianai。woshuokeyimanmanfazhan，tabiaoxianchuxiexubuman。duociqiangdiaozhencheng。

 zaiqianshouzhihou，tadegongzhonghaoxiangqinneirongbingweishanchu，shuojianlejiazhangcaishan。woxiangkantashoujitabiaoxiandefeichangjieyi，danwohaishibanqiangpokanle。tacengduocianshixiangyaowoshuochuzijishibushic，buhaoshuoyeganjuemeidaoneishihou，houlaizijishizaidingbuzhutayouxingwuxingdeyali，zhudongcemian(qishihenzhengmian)tanbai。

 tabiaoxiandefeichangjieyi，yancijilie，zizhicailenancnvfeicdeleiqu，zhiqulikai，woyeshizheigeshihoucaizhidaotashic，yinweiwomenrenshidayuecai15tian，jianmianbuchaoguo3ci，weixindianhuadaoshidale10cizuoyou。diertiantafaxiaoxiguolai，sihushixiangwanhui，wogaopanlema?womenzhijianyoukenengma?

花镇情感导师回复：

 congnidemiaoshulaikan，zheiweinanshiduinibingmeiyoushenmechengyi，bujindiyicijianmiandangwanjiudadianhuawenniyuanbuyuanyihetatanlianai，haiduini“keyimanmanfazhan”dehuidabiaoxianchuxiexubuman;erqietazaiqianshouzhihourengbuyuanyishandiaoxiangqinneirong，youhenjieyinikantadeshouji，henmingxian，tarenweizijiyouzhudongquan，zhibanidangzuoyigebeixuan，haichuzaiguanwangjieduan。

 qici，tahaihenxihuansuoquqingxujiazhi，youbutaizunzhongnvsheng。taxiwangninenggoupengzhetahongzheta，napatabingweifuchurenhechengyi，yexiwangninengdanfangmianjitareliedefankui。

 zuizhongyaodeshi，tahaiyouhenyanzhongdeshaonvqingjie，qingxuyouxiangdangbuwending。ernimenganghaocailenanshaonvfeichudeleiqu，suoyitayizhizaiyiyizhonggaogaozaishangdetaidujinishiya，yihuiyancijiliefoudingni，yihuiyoufaxiaoxixiangyaohuanheguanxi。zheiyangdenanshengzhudingbushiliangpei，ruguonihetazaiyiqi，shenzhiyoukenenghuizaoyujiabaodengwenti。

 danniyaoshuotazheigerenjiushihenlanma?yebuyiding。ruguohuangemvgaoyutade，manzutayaoqiude，huoxujiushilingyigegushile。

 shishishang，zheiyiqiezaozainizhudongjialezheiweinanshengshi，jiuzhudingle。zaozaitachucijianmiandangwanwenniyuanbuyuanyihetatanlianai，bingduinihuidabiaoshibumanshi，nijiuyinggaiyishidaotabingbushinidepipeiduixiang，jibutaizhongshini，yemeiyoubanifangzaiyigexuyaozunzhongdeweizhishang。

 keniquerenyoushitaifazhan，haihetaqianleshou，zheishuomingnimeiyoujishizhisundeyishi。xinghaotayoushaonvqingjie，ruguonihetazhijianzhende“youkeneng”，neicaizhenzhengshiemengdekaishi。

最后要提醒你三点：

 1. “zizhizhangxiangpingfanquanzixiao，xingfuyaokaozhengqudelai”zheizhongrenshishigewuqu。buzhinitingmeitingguoyijuhua，zhudongjiushibeidong，beidongjiushizhudong。yisishishuoruguonizaiganqingzhongzongxiangzhudong，neimenidediweijiuhuihenbeidong;ruguonizaiganqingzhongyizhidoushibeidongdengzheduifangshihaodeneiyifang，neimenijiusuanzhangwolezhudongquan。

 zizhipingfan，neijiuyinggainulitigaomv，erbushizaidaotieshangshijing;zizhiquanzixiao，keyitishengxueli/zhiyenengli，quwanggengdadepingtai。

 2.nixingrongzheiyangyigedananzizhuyidenanshengyou“xiaonanshengqizhi”，zheijuhuajibuheshiyiyebufuheshiqing，jianyikeyitigaoyidianqingshangheganzhili，yimianzaiganqingzhongshoudaoshanghai。

3.congzhaopiankanqilai，nidezhangxiangheziworenzhicunzaihendapiancha。shaonvqingjiezhongyaoma？