过年相亲，男方年过百万为何女方嫌弃？

 jinqikandaoyigetiezi，xiaohuozishi91niande，xiangqinduixiangshi92niande。guonianzhenghaodouyoushijian，zhongjianrenbaliangbiandouyuelechulai。nanfangzijifuyue，nvfangshidaizhetamamalaide。

先说下背景：

 jiulinghouxiaohuoshizuozimeitide，qunianzhengle100duowan。zaixianchengmaile120pingdefangzi，youmaileyiliangche，luodi20wan。zheishitadewuzhitiaojian。

xiangqinquancheng，nvfangmeishuojijuhua，doushinvfangmamazaitiwen。

jiandanhanxuanjijuzhihou，xiangqinjiujinrulezhengti。

duiyujianverdeyifanglaishuo，nvfangmamazuiguanxindeziranshixiaohuodegongzuo。

xiaohuozishuo，woshizuozimeitide。

nvfangmamabiaoshibulijie，tameiyoutingshuoguozimeitishizenyangdegongzuo。

 xiaohuozijiujieshileyixia，shuozijidegongzuo，jiushimeitianxiewenzhangfadaowangshangzheiyangzi，pingshizaijiagongzuo，zijishizijidelaobantongshiyeshiyuangong。

nvfangmamayitingjiuzhoumeitoule：

“neinizheigegongzuobuwendinga。”

xiaohuoxiaoxiaoshuo：“ayi，woqunianzhuanleyibaiduowan。”

女方妈妈抬高声调：

“wozhidao，nimennianqingrenhuicongshiyixiexinxingzhiye，womenbudong。

danshiyaowokanya，zheixiegongzuodoubuwending。nijinnianzhuanyibaiwan，mingniannengbaozhengzhuanyibaiwanma?”

xiaohuoziyaoyaotoushuo，zheigebunengbaozheng。zuozimeitigenzuoshengyiyiyangde，xingqingyouzhangyoudie，shouruqiqifufuyeshihuiyoude。

nvfangmamayikanzijide“lilun”dedaolezhengshi，likekaishizuoda，yangyangzidedishuo：

“suoyishuo，wojuedenihaishizhaogebanshangbijiaohao!zhishaonengjijiatingdailaiwendingdeshouru。

jielehun，jiububidanshenshihoule，fanshiyaoweijiatingkaolv，weilaopohaizikaolv。”

qishizheihuadexianwaizhiyinsheidounengtingdong：

 ruobushilaigennixiangqin，woguannicongshishenmezhiye，zhengduoshaoqian? xiangqindaodiyaojubeishenmeyangzidetiaojiancaisuanhege？kuailaidianjichakanyixiaba>

danruguoyaogenwojianverjiehun，bixuyougewendingdegongzuo，rangwojianveryougezhangqiwendingdefanpiaocaixing。

xiaohuozitingwanzheihua，buhuanbumangdesuanleyibizhang：

“ayi，xiangwomenzheizhongxiaoxiancheng，dagongyuexinyiwan，suandingtianleba。

yuexinyiwan，nianxin12wan，yaozuoshiniancainengzhengyibaiwan。

zheihaishibuchibuhedeqiantixia。

woyinianzhuanyibaiwan，bubishangbanqiangma?”

——jiexialai，nixiangdouxiangbudaonvfangmamahuiruhehuida。

差点没把我雷焦了。

nvfangmamazhenzhenyoucidifanbo：“zheihuadaoshimeicuo。danshinianhouni?”

xiaohuozitinglezheihua，dangchangliekai：

“ninbuhuiyiweijiexialaishinian，woyaozuochishankong，shenmedoubuzuoba?!”

qishi，shuangfanghuashuodaozheigefenershang，jixuxiaquzhendemeiyoushenmeyiyile。

平心而论：

zairujinzimeitirucibujingqideqingkuangxia，zheigejiulinghouxiaohuohainengnianrubaiwan，zhendeshifeichangyounenglidenianqingren。

 erzheiyangyouqianli、younenglidenianqingren，queyaobeixiangqinduixiangdemamashuo“buwending”、“buruzhaogebanshang”，nianxinbaiwanhaibeigezhongxianqi，kanbushang……

zhenbuzhidaogaishuozheinanshengdexingyunni，haishizheinvhaidebuxingni?

xingyundeshi，zheigenanshenghenkenengtaoguoyiduanzhudingbuhuipingjingdehunyin(yinweiyouruciqiangshi、quemeishenmejianshidezhangmuniang);

 buxingdeshi，zheigelaixiangqindenvhai，youkenengcuoguoleyiduanzhishaozaiwuzhicengmianhaibucuodehunyin(bijingzaixiaoxianchengli，nianrubaiwandekendingshishaoshurenqunba)。

wofanlefanzheigetiezixiamiandepinglun，zhendehenyouyisi。

youzhichixiaohuozide，danyeyouzhichizhangmuniangde。

支持小伙子的一方：

shouxian，nizuidadecuowu，jiushishenweiyigenianrubaiwandechenggongrenshi，haizaixiaozhenshangxiangqin。

dier，yinixianzaideshouruhecengci，zuowei91niandenansheng，wanquankeyizhao95yixiade。

nunuli，00houyebushibukenenga。hebizhao92de?

92niandenvsheng，jinniandou30suile。

zaixiangqinshichangshang，zheigenianlingyiweizheshenme，nandaonvfangmamahenvfangziji，xinlidoumeineigeshuma?

zijiaguinv30suilechulaixiangqin，duifangnianxinbaiwanhaiqiaobuqirenjia……

zhenshigaoxiao，quanshijienandaojiushengniyigenvrenlema?

disan，baziyouzhiyeshizuo“buwuzhengye”、“buwending”，zheishishangyibeirendepianjian。

nidecuowubingbuzaiyunicongshiziyouzhiye，ershicuozaishitugaibianlaoyibeirendeguannianhexiangfa。

youneigeshijian，niduoxiejipianwen，duozhuanjiqiankuaibuhaoma?hebigenmeiyoujianshiderenyibanjianshi。

支持女方妈妈的一方，则也有自己的看法：

shouxian，ziyouzhiyebenlaijiuyiweizhegaofengxianhebuwending，zheibuyongsheiteyizhichu，ershifangzaiyanqiandexianshi。

xianzaiyiqingdangqian，meigerendeshenghuodouchongmanzhegezhongbuquedingxing。

bulunshikaidiandehaishikaigongside，80%douchengbuguoliangnian，tazuozimeitiyebuliwaia。

zuoweizhangbei，danxinzijidenverweilaishenghuohuixianrubuwendingdezhuangtai，qingyoukeyuan。

第二，说到年龄。

nixianqinvfang30sui，dannibuye31suilema?haoyisishuobieren?

xiangqinshichangshang，dalingnvxingweishenmehuishoudaoqishihebianyuanhua，qishizhuyaohaishikaolvdaoshengyuwenti。

dandajiaquehenshaoyishidao：qishishenticengmiandeshuaitui，shibufennannvde!

nandao30suiyishangdenanxingjiubucunzaizheifangmiandewentima?zhishizaiwomenzheigeshehuiyizhikeyihulveleeryi。

haixiangzhao95hou，00houdenvsheng?

renjianianqingnvhaipingshenmekanshangnizheigechaolingdashu?jiuyinweiniyouyibaiwan?yougexiaoxianchengdepofangzi?

yaozhaonishuode，00hounvshengnianqingmaomeiyouxuanzeyoushi，tamenhebuquzhaoyouyouxiu、younianqingdetonglingrenni?

neimenizenmekandaizheigeguonianxiangqin，nanfangnianguobaiwanweihenvfangxianqideshijianni？