内向的人相亲怎么聊天，加了你微信却不聊天，这是一种什么样的心态？

 shijishang，woxiangwendeshi，jialeshoujiweixinweihejiuxuyaoxianliao?shoujiweixinjinjinyizhongzhuanyonggongju。neixiangderenxiangqinzenmeliaotian？jiufangfozhiqianyiyang，jialeqqbuyidingyouxierenyuenixianliao。henyoukenengniyizhidanxindeshi，yongyoushoujiweixinjiuxuyaoxianliao，shijishang，liaobuxianliao，quanshiyiqiezhengchang。danxinzheizhongnanti，burongyikaixin。xiangqinweixinyaotiantianliaoma？

 youderenjialenishoujiweixinyihou，yexu，woyuenideqingkuangxiabianjieyidian，youyixiebutaiguanjiandenantifaleshoujiweixingaozhiniyixia。

youguannanshengbuzhudongxianliao，wodelejieguanjianyousangecengmian。

1.性情缘故，过意不去，不清楚说些什么

 juedaduoshu，bixuxiangxijieshaodenanhaizi，henyoukenenghuixiangduixingjiaoweineixiangxing，xiuseyidian，tebieshizaihenvshengjiaowangdeqingkuangxia，huijincou，buqingchuruhezhaohuatiliaotian。pingchangmeiyoushenmegongzuojingyan，zhoubiandepenyouqinfenjitamenzaojiujiyu，huranjitamenyigenvshengdelianxidianhua，taburongyijijixunlian。keshizhibuding，nvshengzhudongyiliangciyihou，nanhaiziganjueniyaoliaodelaibianhuijijidianlianluonvhai。

2.工作中缘故，确实比较忙，此后工作中是女朋友型

neixiangderenxiangqinzenmeliaotian？zheiyibingbushijinanhaizizhaojiekou，shishenpangjiuhuiyouneiyangdeshi。

 woyegenjupenyoudeguanlian，weizijidehaoguimixiangxijieshaoguoyigenansheng，zheiyinanhaizizaiqixiangjugongzuozhong，queshijuedemeirimangchenggou，tazijirujindezhongxindianbianshizaigongzuoshang，zhenduizhaonvyouzheishi，xiangqilailejiuliaoyiliao，mangdehuijialedaodibuqijiushui，neimejiuburongyiqulineigeguniang。youyutaganjueyaomuqianhuaxuewuzhidejiben，caikeyiquchuduixiang、hunhoushenghuo。

zheikenengshigean，keshidoubuqingchuyixienanhaizi，yigongzuoweizhu，linshixianbaernvsiqingfangyibianlaidaode。

3.看过相片或者听盆友叙述，对你没什么兴趣

zheiyitiaozuichuoxin，yincizuizhongshuo。

 nanhaizijuedabufenquanshishijuexiaoguoxing，zheiyishiyizuxiandaichulaide，bukedongyao。zhenduiyixingpengyou，tamenzuixianhuikanyanhuoshishenxing，yidanzheizhongchaduocaihuilierudaotamendehouxuanzhong。youyutamendezhenduixinghenqiang，burongyixiaohaozaitamenganjuechanchulvbudadenvhaideshenshang。yincijiarubulianxi，henyoukenengjiushitazaoyiyongqianyishijiangnishanchule。

 yinweiwoyudaoguoneiyangdezhuangkuang，youqinengganshounideqingxu。keshi，zaimeiyouyouqidongxindenanhaiziyanqianwoyiyangyebuhuitiaoxuanjiji。youyuwoyizhijuede，nanhaizijijidianshiyingdangde。keshiyeyongwomamadehuaeryan:niyenenggoujijizhaobierenliaoa，wenyiwenzaiganma、nichifanlema？tinglewojiushitixiaojiefei。yidingshiganjuewonianlingdale，zaizhaobudaonanpengyoujiuyidezhaobudaonanpengyoule。

houbianzishenyezaisikao，shijishangbingbushiwobuhuijiji，jiarupengdaoyouqidongxin，woshihuijijide，keshinantishiren？

 nvhai，qidainibuyaotaibeinanhaizidegerenxingweisuodanxin，tamenruheshitamendeshi，dajiayouzishendejianchibuxiehezhuiqiuwanmei。yigerendeqingkuangxiajiuguohaoyigerenderichangshenghuo，kanshu、lvlvyou，rangzishendeyankanhebujuchixutigao，niruoanhao，qingfengzilai。zheixiequanbulijingdoushihuibianchengnixingmingdexiangwei，xiyinzhulaiyunitongyangpinlvderen。neiren，yidingburongyirangnicaicaidongcaixi，zhishixianghuzhijianyongyouyouqidexinyoulingxi。neiyangfeichanghao！

最先，不清楚你的年纪，一般大龄单身男孩子都还没目标，要不丑，有么穷，要不不当人际交往。

不当人际交往

 budangrenjijiaowangfeichanghaolejie，tabuxiaodegaizaishenmeshihougennvshengliaotian，yaozenmegennvshengliaotian，doubushanyugennvshengliaotian。zheiyejiushitaweishenmebujijixianliaodeyuangu。ruonenggoujienaneiyangxingqingderenlianai，ninengjijixie。

丑、穷

 chouheqiongnenggouguidaoyilei，quanshinengxunzhaonvyoudezuaibiaozhun。yibanzheileiquntizaizhaonvyouzheixiefangmianyexuchangchangzaigentou，zaodaoguoneixinwaishang，zaibuquedingxingnishibushineiyigenengbunengjieshoutaderenyiqian，buyuanyizijintourutaiduodehuoliheqinggan。tamenyexudianjizhe、dengdai、guanchazheyigeshihedejihui，ganjuezishennengduideqixihuanniqingkuangxiahuoganjuebenshendebiaozhunnengmanzunidezeouyaoqiushicaihuijijijiqingdelianluoni。xiangqinweixinyaotiantianliaoma？

次之，你那样问，也是有3种状况的投射状况。

niweixinpengyouquansirenxinxishaohuohenshaoweixinfapengyouquan

 weixinjiahaoyounidexiangqinnan，tianjiameizaidajiapenyouneilidedaochongzunidexinxineirong，tamenbulejieni，yincicaibukenjijilianluoni。youyuyexutamendanyou，bulejieni，buqingchuninengruhehuiyingtamendedahua，ruoshiyudaogebinglengde，haibuzhidaohaokanbuhaokan，yincitamenmeiyouqudongliqujijixiangnitaojinhuqiuxianliao。

niweixinpengyouquanzhanxiandexinxineirongtaibangle

 danchulaiderenyexushiyouyubenshenbiaozhunbutaihao，dangjiandaoniweixinpengyouquanneimayigejijinjizhideni。tadediyiyinxiangyexushi：biaozhuntaihao，burongyikanshangwode。zheishihouzaijijilianluonidehua，genjudajiadeshenrulejie，huiyulaiyuxianxianchutabiaozhunbutaihaodecengmian。youyuzhishihaopengyouxiangxijieshao，zhongjiuhenyoukenengburongyiqudechenggong，ganshenmehaixuyaoquranghaoyoudoulejiezishenbiaozhunbutaihaoni。tashitamenbuzhudonglianluonideyuangu。

niweixinpengyouquanzhanxiandexinxineirongbufutadezhaoduixiangbiaozhun

 xiangqinweixinyaotiantianliaoma？tajialenideweixin，genjunideweixinpengyouquanzhangwolenidesirenxinxi，genjuzonghexingfenbian，tajuedetanenggouxunzhaoyigebinichenggongderen，yincibianhuibuzhudonglianluonini。zheishihoutangruojijilianluota，pobudeyidajiapenyouxiangxijieshaodeguanlian，tayehuiyunixianliao。danbingbingbushimeiyigenanhaiziquanshifanqingde，jianyigeaiyige，ruotamingquenibushitadecai，tashitabujijiyuenixianliaodeyuangu。

xiangnijuededeneiban：yexutayoubiedemubiao，nishibeiyongtai

 neixiangderenxiangqinzenmeliaotian？yexutayoubiedenenggouxianliaodemubiao，ertamendouhaimeiquedingguanxihuoshishitadouhaimeizhuishang。cikenishibeiyongtai，tamenwanbi，dajiazhujian。