怎么跟相亲对象聊天？未见面相亲微信怎么聊

 rujinhenduorenquanshigenjuxiangqinyuehuilaigaobiedanshen，keshijiarunimeimingbaiqiadangdeliaotianhuati，zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？neihenyoukenengbianhuibiaobaibeijujue。neimananpengyouruheliaotian？tashixuduodanshenrenyuanhuizixundenanti。niwennvhaixiangzhaoyigeruhedenanhaizizuonanyou，dabufennvhaihenyoukenengyaoshuokanjuedeba。zheiyihuiyingkanqilaijianyi，shijishangshifennanyilijie。nvhaizheiyihuiyingchedishinimobuzhetounao，niyongyuanbuzhidaoyaozenyangcainengrangnvhaiyouganjue。weishenmenvshengyaoshuokanjuede，erbushishijideduinishuoduoda、duoshuai、duofuyou？shijishangzainvhaideneixinshenchu，tamenduizheizhongyaokandebuzhongyao，tamenqueshiyaoxiangdeshiyizhongjuede，youqidejuede，chuliandeganjue。neimazheizhongganjuejiujingshishenme？hexiangqinduixiangruhejiaoliu？

 jiarunibeihuokaodao，ninengyouganjuemeiyou?jiaruyouxierenmanini，ninengyouganjuemeiyou?shiba，qianbianshishenglixuefangmiandejuede，houmianyizhongshixintaicengmiandejuede。dixiongmen，woshijishuzhuanyeganqingjingyingtuanduizixunguwenlaina，dajiayouyiqieganqingwenti，dounenggoulijilianluolaoshi，suihoubanidewentigenwoshuojiukeyile!yinci，nvhaichangshuodejuedeshixintaishangdejuede。eryaoxiangrangnvhaizaochengchuliandeganjue，bianshijiqitadexintai，ranglingyifangganjuegennizaiyiqiyouqu。

 zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？jiarumeiyicinigenlingyifangchulaiyouhui，zhuyaobiaoxiandejiaowangqifenhenpingpingdandan，zhihoubianhuimeiyouxiawen。nixuyaodeshirangtaduinirisiyexiang，ruhebaozhengni，bianshiranglingyifanghenizaiyiqiyouxintaishangdebodongqifu，ziranjinjinzaiqizhongyidian，houbianbixusanguan，xingqinglingzhezheixie。erzenyangcijixingnvxingdexintai？renherenzhijiandegoutongjiaoliudui，jiaotanzhanlejuedaduoshu。yinci，xianliaoshicijixingnvxingjuededeqiaomen。zenyanggenjuxianliaorangnvhaiaishangleni？

 xiamianwogongxiang4gefangfa，shinidexianliaochongchizhemofa，cijixingnvxingdexintai，rangnvxingduinirisiyexiang!bawozhunvshenghuatineirong，huoshimouyiguanjianzi，jinxingyixiangtiankaidesuiyixiangdao，buhuishoudaoziranhuanjingdejuxianxingquchixuyigehuatitaolunhuoshidakaixinhuatitaolun。zaizheierjidahuoergongxiang4gexiangdaoxiaoqiaomen：

1、平行面想到法

 bianshiyijunvxingdeciyihuoshimouyiguanjianzijinxingyuzhipingxingmiandehuatitaolun。liru：nvshengshuo：“wojintianguangjiegouwuhaoleiya”。pingchangrenhuiying：“shibushi，haohaoxiuxiyixia”。jiaruneiyangfanshexingdehuiying，houbianjiumeiyouhuatikeliaole..guanjianjiedu：guanjianzi：jinri、guangjiegouwu、ganjuehaolei，kesuiyixuanyigehuoshiduoxuanti。nan：wojintiangenjigepenyouqukgele，fashengleyijianhenyouyisideshi。nan：guangjiegouwudoumeiyoulaichanglanmandeouyuma?nan：guangjiegouwuyehaoleiya。xiayiciwozainishenbiandeqingkuangxiajiuburongyichanshengzheileizhuangkuangle。

 pouxi：xiangrangnvhaihuiyingni，nidehuaderangtahaojie，huoshiderangtayouhuiyingdechongdong!jiarunixianliaodeqingkuangxiachangchangshuong，e，xingba，huoshifalexiaorongdehua，nirangbierennvhaizenmehuifunilei?zhongjiu，xuduoqingkuangxianvshengyebushanyanci..xiangyaoniquzhengqueyindao，qugouyin!

2、往上想到法

 wangshangxiangdaofabianshiyijulingyifangdeciyi，wangshangshuli。liru：nvhai：gongzuozhonghaoleiya。nan：nixuyaoxiexiezheiyifengongzuozhongdailainidejianku，bulijingmolianzennengjiandaoqisecaihong。zheijiushigongzuozhongleideqingkuangxiangdaodaorenshengzhelizheifangmianshangqu。liru：nvhai：buhuizaiaiqingzuimeilile。nan：dageduba，yinianhounichuduixianggaizenmeban。juedaduoshurenshiquandao，neimaniyongdeshangyicengluojisiweijinvhaiyishunjiandaidaodaogennidadudeluojisiwei，youyuwulunnizenmequanlingyifangdeluojisiweishizaitichufenshoudekeguanshishizhong，zheiyijuhuadaidaolelingyifangyunizhongjian，zheijiushiluojisiweishangdechabie。shijishang，kuanweiyigerenbingbushiyuyanbiaodaduomedejingzhi，jiaruqianyidaolingyifangrujindeyoushangxintai，zheicaisuanshihelidekuanwei。bingbushihuoshiranglingyifangzaisisuozaoyichanshengdeaitongjieguo。

3、往下想到法

 wangxiaxiangdaobianshiyijulingyifangdeciyi，wangxiaxifenhua。liru：nvhai：jinqilaoshishimian。nan：laikanbingbushigongzuozhongbianshiaiqingredehuo。(lingyifangbianhuiduinishuohuida)nvhai：wozuocaidejiyihenfeichanghaode。nan：shizhendema？neirangniyitiaoxianyunihuizenmezuo？yueliaoyuexi，bianshiwangxiaxiangdaofa。

4、向后想到法

 xianghouxiangdaobianshiyijulingyifangdeciyi，xianghoutuokuan。liru：nvhai：dajiahenyoukenengcajianerguo。nan：touyuanderenrihoudinghuixiangyu，hebixincunjiedi。lakailingyifangbubijiqiebiaoshuzishenchengxinchengyi，youyulingyifangzaoyifourenni，nijiaruzaishangganlingyifangcishishiburongyizuoyiqiejienani，youyurenzuoyigejueceyidingbingbushihuranzhishixiangxianghaozhangshijiandeyigejuecezaizheigejuecehounimeifazaiduanqineineidadao，nixuyaogoujianjiyu，weizijiyigehuanbingzhiji，zaizuoxiyinzhu。

 lakailingyifangranglingyifangganjueniyemeiyouyali，zhihouyeyouchupengdejiyu。sipilailianmeiyouyiqieshijiyiyi，jilao，sipilailianquanshinizishendeluojisiweishijiao，meiyoukaolvdaotarendeluojisiweihetihui，feichangrongyiranglingyifangjuedeyalifeichangda!nvhai：woyexiangfangjialexiuxiyixia。nan：neiqiahao，dengzhenifangshujiale，dajiayiqiquxxx······yiqifufudezhengba。xianghouxiangdaobianshishiguangdehoutui，shiduijianglaidexiangxianghexiangxiang，yijuzhuangkuangnenggoubajiemianchangjinglaishidudejinxing，zuojiemianqianru。ciwai，liuyixianliaodeyixiefangshi，yeshishifenguanjiande。

第一：常用视频语音和女孩聊天。

 liaotianjirendeshijiannenggoulijingshenzhongkaolvde，dixiongmenyongwenbenhenvhailiaotianhaisuanbushangduojiannan，keyidanrangtahenvshengtongdianhuahuoshiyongyuyintonghuadeqingkuangxia，jiuyuelaiyuexiangxuexiyingyuyiyang，jiaolvbuandanxinhaishuobutaihao。tiyiniduoxunlianyongshipinyuyingennvshengliaotian，youyuyaoxianghenvshengyouhui，nizongshihuipengmian，zongshihuijianghuade。jiaruniyongwenbenzaiwangshangliaotiandeshunfengshunshui，niubwuwu。

 danshiyidanyuechuqu，nvhaiquefajuenixianliaodeqingkuangxiaxianggezuojiahuoshigaoshuaifu，kepengmianlebianshiyigeneixiangxingxiusedesifeizhai，xinhandetahenbudelikeliqu。danshi，zhujiandeqingkuangxiahuoshitiyichangyongliaotian。youyunixianliaodenenglibuzudeqingkuangxia，liaotiannenggourangnichongyudeshijianqusisuo。dangdajiadefenweishuxiqilaideqingkuangxia，shipinyuyindexianliaohuibiwenbendexianliaogengfeichangrongyilingrenjuedelajinjianju。wenbenshibingliangde，ershipinyuyinnenggoulingrenjuededaonideqingxuzhuangtai，gengweilingrenjuedezhenzheng。

未碰面相亲约会微信聊

 keshi，zheieryouyigejiannandeshierbianshi，dixiongmendanxinhaipa。zheiyiruhebaituoni?tanbaishuo，tingnande，keshijiaruruguonixiajuexinneiyike，ninengganjueshifenqingqingsongsong。jiarunibukeyixiajuexin，youxiangzhanshengkongju，zhiyouyidiandiandequshizhe，yongshijianquleiji。

第二：积极给予使用价值

 jiaruyouxierenxunwenni，shifouyoushijian，bangwobandianwupin;shifouyouyan，bangwoyigenyanchou。yici2cinihenyoukenengganjuemeiyoushenme，danshipinciduole，nishifouhuiganjuezheigerenhaofan，yizhixiangtarenyaowupin，zishenyoubumai？nvxingyeshizheiban，meiriyouhenduorenwenta：nizaiganshenme？zainaer？nichifanlema？fazhanxiangpiankanyixia!tayehaofan，zheichengweisuoyaoshiyongjiazhi。neimazenyangjijijiyushiyongjiazhini？nixiangaozhitarennishisheiya，nizaiganshenme，nishinalide，zaiwentaneiyangjiukeyile。hexiangqinduixiangruhejiaoliu？

 liru：woshibeijingshide，zaizheiligongzuozhong，nileinaerde?zheiyibinilijiwen，ninaerde?gengrangnvhairongyijieshou。buzhengqueshili：kanyixiashibushiniyeshineiyangxianliaode!xianliaojihui：lianhuaishibawen，yigejingtiwenti，huirangnvhaihaofan，congkaishixiangyaogennixianliaodaojianjiandilengdan，daozuizhongbuyuanyilicaini。nan：zainaer???nv：ena。nan：mangwanhou？nv：ena。nan：jinrixiabanlezaoa？nv：buzao。

第三：讲话要简明扼要

 hexiangqinduixiangruhejiaoliu？buyaoshuonvxingle，bianshinanshengzishendouchibuxiaonansheng。zuihaoshidejulishuomingbianshixiyoujiyuanzhulibian，tangsanzangyizhixutao，jieguobianshangdeyaojingchibuxiaotangsanzangdelaotao，qidaotuxue。nvxingyeshizheiban，jiarunimeiyicihuiying，huadouyouqiduo，laotao，tayehuihaofan，suihoujiubuyuangenniliaole。bingqiezhaotaxianliaoderenkebujinniyige，yincitaizhangle，kenengtakanyebukan。youyizhonghenkongbude，nvhaibuhuixinxijiukuanghongluanzha。zainaer?zaiganshenme?ruhebuhuiwo?rujinzaiganshenme？wohaoxiangni。nizenmeyizhibuhuiwo，shishuijuelema？niqueshihenpiaoliang，jipinnvshen。zheixieneiyangdexinxineirong，nvhaikanguohaowuyiwenhenchubianbujingde。(shibushiniyeshizheiyangzideni)

第四：慢一点回应女孩

 zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？xiangyixiangnizijishifouyouguoxiaidenvhairangnifaxinxilaila，niyejiumashanghuiyiwang。nvxinghuilejie，nimiaohuixinxineirongshiyouyunitaiaita，taixiangyaotale。cizhi，nikendingshiyizhinazheshoujishangzaiwan，wusuozuowei，meitianjiuzaijialihuaizheshoujiwanyouxidesifeizhai。taifeichangrongyihuodedewupin，nvhaidouburongyiyouxingquaihao，tashirendebenxing!nvshengweixinfaxiaoxilaila，ninengdengjishimiao，shufenzhong，naizhisanshifenzhongzaihui。liruniquyiju：wogangcaizaihuibaogongzuo，yinweiniyouxiangwole。jiashangyigekeaibiaoqing，neiyangdejuedeshifouhuilingrenganjuebutongxunchangni?