相亲聊什么？以下几点教你怎么把相亲对象“聊到结婚”

 zaixianrujinnanduonvshaodeshehuifazhan，juedaduoshudenanshidouchuzaidanshenqingkuang，zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？youyuhenduorenyinweigongzuozhongdengyuangu，richangshenghuomeiyouchongzudejiyuquchupengdanshennvsheng，zaizaijiashangbabamamacuideji，yinci“xiangqinyuehui”jiubianchengledahuoertanduixiangchangjiandetanlianaifangfa！xiangqinliaoshenmecaibuhuiganga？

 xuduoxiongdijuedaduoshudeshijianhuoli，douzijintourudaogongzuozhongzhizhong，pingchangchupengdenvshengjiaoweishao，doumeiyouganqinggongzuojingyan，ganjuezhixuduinvshengchongzuhao，chongzuguanzhu，jiunengdedaoxiangqinduixiangdehaogandu，huodejiyu。neiyangqueshihuichuxianjinduma？

 youxuduoxiongdi，tamenhexiangqinduixiangzaoyijianmianle，pingchangduinvshengyeshifenguanzhu，danshiyouyuzishenbushanyanci，nvshengduitayagenmeiyouganjue，gaizenmeban？xiamian，wojidahuoerkanyixiawodezaiqizhongyigexueshengdezhuangkuang，kantayikaishishizenmehetadexiangqinduixiangxianliaode：

nan：libaitianyoushenmefenpeima？

女：没有，怎么啦？

nan：neiwojinifenpeihaola（touxiaobiaoqing）

nv：suanleba，wojuedezaijiadaizhe

nan：zaijialiduotaiwuliaole。quwanma，yiqichifan

女：没去

nan：zenmela？nishiyaotiqianzhunbeijianfeima？

ranhounvshengjiumeiyouhuinanshengle

 zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？dajialaipouxizheimingxiongdixianliaodezhiguanzhongyaodewenti，qidaidahuoernenggoucongzheidangzhongjiqujiaoxun，huodegongzuojingyan，neiyangjiukeyirangzishenshaozouyixiewandao。

 nanti1：nenggoufajuexueshenggenxiangqinduixiangdexianliao，shifenqianbo，huatitaolunyizhiquanshizhiliuzaibiaoceng，meiyouzhenzhenzhengzhengshijiyiyishanghenvshengkaizhan“shencengcidegoutongjiaoliu”，quefaqingganhuatitaolun，zheijiunanyihenvshengzengjinganqing，guanlianyebuhuiyoujindu。

 nanti2：xueshenghexiangqinduixiangdexianliao，zhenduixingtaiqiang，laoshidianjizhehexiangqinduixiangxunsufazhanqushi，renweigennvshengxianliaojiugennandeyiyang，yuechuquyiqichifanjiukeyile，zheijinvshengliuyouleshifenbuchengshudeyinxiang，yincilijijujueleta。

 jiandaozheier，shibushiniyejuedepengdaolexiangjindenantini？benlaixiangqinduixiangyikaishijilezheimingxiongdijiyu，keshitayouyuzishenbushanyanci，meiyoubanfahenvshengjinyibufazhanqushi，zaochengnvshengduitadeyinxiangyulaiyucha。zheimingxiongdixiangqinyuehuijiukuaishibaile，neiyingdangzenmebanni？xiabiandajialaijiandaoqiadangdejiejuefangan。

方式1:根据真心实意闲聊，再次提升女生对你的友好度

 youxierenrenwei，henvshengxianliaoyaoyonggeshigeyangdezhaoshucaiyouyong，shijishangbingbushizheiyang，ruguonishizhenxinshiyixiaitadehua，jiuyongzhenxinshiyidexintaikandainvsheng，rangxiangqinduixiangganshoudaonidezhenxinshiyi，neiyangnvshengcaihuiduinizaochengjuede。

genjuzhenxinshiyidehuatitaolun，caikeyihexiangqinyuehuiduizengjinganqing，rangnvshenggenggaiyiqianbutaihaodeyinxiang：

nan：youshijuedezijijianghuaqueshihenxiangxiaopengyou，taihaiziqile

女：嗯，之后呢？

nan：youqishiyunixianliaodeqingkuangxia，youqijiaolvbuan

nv：zheiyoushenmehaojiaolvbuandeni

nan：youyuhaipashuodehuatitaolunnitaoyan

nv：neizhiyoubiaomingbicizhijiancunyougehe，caihuizheiyimoyang

nan：lejie，woduinidezhangwotaishaole

女：你才发觉啊

 zuixian，worangzheimingxiongdigenxiangqinduixiangjijirenkeyiqiandenanti，jinvshengliuyouwanshandeyinxiang，keshihenduorenbuyuanqugaibianxianzhuangdenanti，neimejiuzhiyoucuoshiliangjile，womenzijideshenshangjiranyoushenmewenti，neijiuxuyaolijiqujiuzheng，fouzechidakuidehuoshizishen。

zheimingxiongdilijingjutizhidaohou，jianjiandidefazhanle：

nan：jinguandajialianggerenlejiedeshijianjiaozhang，keshiyongxindegoutongjiaoliutaishaole

nv：duide，yincidajiayizhishiyibanpengyou

nan：rujinfajuehaiyoujihuima？

女：不清楚

nan：neijiuyaoshijianshuohuaba，woyidianyebudanxin

nv：keyia，shijianhuizhengshiyiqiede

nan：guojitianhouzaishuo，woxiangzhongxinlejieni

女：好

 henvshengxianliaodeqingkuangxia，zongshihuipengdaogezhonggeyangnandian，zheibiaomingnvshengyijingmolianni，youyuxiangqinyuehuikendingshiyiwanhunweimudi，nvshenghaowuyiwenburongyiqingyijiujienayiduanqinggan，yinci，nvshengdoushihuigenjuxianliaodejieguo，laijuecexubuxuyaoyunizaicifazhanqushi。

 yingduixiangqinduixiangdemolian，xueshenggenjuzishenzhenxinshiyidexintai，heyongxindehuatitaolun，qudechenggongzaicidedaonvshengderenke，nvshengyezaicijixueshengzhuiqiuwanmeitadejiyu，keshiwomenbunengxinji，nenggouguojitianzailianluonvsheng，jinvshengliuyouyigehaodeyinxiang。

方式2:暧昧关系闲聊，和女生增进感情

 xiangqinyuehuiyihou，haipadebianshituozhe，jiarubukeyijinkuaihexiangqinduixiangquedingguanxi，neisuishisuidihenyoukenengchanshengbianhua，youyudajiadoulejie，nvshengdouhenxinuwuchang，suishisuidihenyoukenenggenggainiantou，keshizaiquedingguanxiyiqian，wubiyaohenvshengzengjinganqing，fouzezongshibeijujue。

 xuduoxiongdimeitianzhaonvshengxianliao，danshihenvshengzhongjianmeiyousuzaochuyidianqinggan，suihoujiuxianghenvshengquedingguanxi，neiyangnvshengzenmekenenghuitongyini？yingduiyigemeiyouganqingderen，nvshengshibutaikenenghuikaolvdaode。

 zaizaijiashangbuyiyangxingqingdenvsheng，xingquaihaodoubuyiyang，xiaidehuatitaolunyebuyiyang，dajiahuixianxiezhuxiongdimenpouxinvsheng，suihouzaijiaodajiaruhequliaoheshidehuatitaolun，yibubuhenvshengzengjinganqing。xiangqinliaoshenmecaibuhuiganga？

 zheimingxiongdigenjuzishenduinvshengdezhangwo，henvshengdakaiyongxindehuatitaolun，zheirangnvshengshifenyouxingqu，youyunvshenghuiganjuezheimingxiongdihendongta，jiaruzheimingxiongdibuzurenzhen，neitahaowuyiwenbukeyijingquedejiangchunvshengdexinggetezheng。

nan：jinguannidexingqinghenmiantian，keshiworenweinidexinlishijishangshihenjiqingde

nv：heihei，shuozhengquele，haiyouni？

nan：yeyoubianshinimeiyouanquangan，duibuzuishuxiderenhuiweichiyidingdejianju

nv：woyouxiaodaodadouneiyang

讨厌自来熟

yinciyiqianwoquanshihuijueni

nan：zheiyiwolejie，ruguomeiyounidehuijuedoumeiyouxianzaidewo

nv：heihei，danshiniqueshigenyiqianduibiqueshichedibuyiyang

 xiangqinliaoshenmecaibuhuiganga？xiamian，nvshengzishenyejijidakailehuatitaolun，genzheimingxiongdideguanlianyulaiyuaimeiguanxi，nanshengmingquetichuyouhuinvshengjibenshangdoushihuitongyi。zuizhong，nvshengtongyilenansheng，zheiyebiaoming：nvshengyouxinlibianjienalenansheng，yemorenshezhinanshengshitadenanyou，nanshengyepingzheaimeiguanxidexianliao，shunlihenvshengquedingguanxi。

 zenmegenxiangqinduixiangliaotian？zheimingxiongdicongdangshibushanyanci，beixiangqinduixianghuijue，daoxianzaihenvshengquedingguanxi，zhihualeyigeyuebushangdeshijian，yucitongshitazijiyejiejuele“bushanyanci”zheigewenti，houbianhenvshengwangwanhuncengmianfazhanqushijiufeichangrongyiduole。