初次见面相亲聊天技巧，用什么心态去相亲成功率才能爆升呢

 jianxinxuduoyizhimeiyoutanduixiangerbeijiazhongcuizhededixionghaowuyiwenzaoyibeifenpeiguoxiangqinyuehuile……juedaduoshudedixiongshijishangyaoshimeiyoudaofeichangdadenianji，zhenduixiangqinyuehuidezheiyigerenxingweihenyoukenengquanshihuijiaoweidichude。keshishishishangzheileifangshishiziguyilaijiuhuiyoude，bingqieshuangfangdouhuaizheyigemudiqudehuaqipipeilvyehuijiaoweigao。xiangqindiyicijianmianliaoshenmehaoni？keshirujinyouyushehuifazhandebianhuazaochengxiangqinyuehuibianchengleyizhongbaibiaozhunqutanduixiangdeyizhongfangshi……zheiyeshixuduodixiongbutaixiaideyidian。youyuzheijiushifangfomeiyouzuodaolingyifangbiaozhunjiuwuxuzaishuoxialaidejuedeyiyang。keshijiarudixiongmenbeifenpeileneiyangdefangshi，hebuyonglianghaodexintaiquyingduiyixia，zhongjiuxiangqinyuehuidemubiaoyibanburongyihenheren。chucijianmianxiangqinliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？

一：别以“相亲约会”的心理状态去相亲

 xiangqindiyicijianmianliaoshenmehaoni？dixiongmenzenmehuijiaoweidichuxiangqinyuehuidezheileifangshini？zaiqizhongyigejiaoweiguanjiandeyuangubianshijuedexiangqinyuehuihaoxiangshiyizhongyouyuzhaobudaonanpengyouerpobudeyideyizhonggerenxingwei。erjiarudixiongmenyineiyangmingxiandexinlizhuangtaiquxiangqindehua，neiwulunshibushikeyikanzhonglingyifang，doushihuijinvhaidaozhifeichangdadegongzuoyali。yincidixiongmenxiangqinyuehuideqingkuangxianenggouhuanyizhonggousiqukandai，zuixiandixiongmenyaoyiyigejiaoyoudexinlizhuangtaiquyingduinvhai，neiyangzaigoutongjiaoliuquanguochengzhongbianhuijiaoweidangranchangshun，yekeyirangnvhaifajuenideyixieyoushi，neiyangzhishaozaidiyicideqingkuangxianvhaihuiduiniliuyoufeichanghaodeyinxiang，duiyunengfoucheng，jiudekandixiongmendechongfenfahuigennvhaidefanyingzenyangle。chucijianmianxiangqinliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？

二：提升自身的沟通的技巧

 chucijianmianxiangqinliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？jiarudixiongmendequedanshenleyiduanshijian，yeshiyoumanjiushijianmeiyouqugennvhaiyouguoduolijidechupengdehua，neimaxiangqinyuehuinenggoubianchengdixiongmengentishengzijidegoutongdejiqiaodeyigefeichanghaodefangfa。zuixiandixiongmenwuxuguannvhaishibushijiaoweidichuhuoshishibeifenpeide，zuixiannixuyaozuodeshikeyigennvhaigoutongjiaoliuchangshun，keyizaihuatitaolunshangyouyidingdegongmingdian。neiyangdehuazhixubingbushinvhaizaoyiyoumubiaoledezhuangkuangdoushihuixiangyaozaigennizaicichupengde。eryihoujiukeyigenjuguanliandedijinqujianjiandiderangnvhaizhendexihuanni。

三：同病相连心理状态

 xiangqindiyicijianmianliaoshenmehaoni？dixiongmenruguoshibeifenpeide，nenggougennvhaishushidebiaomingyixiazhuangkuang，jiaruzhengqiaonvhaiyeshibeifenpeidehua，shijishangdajiazaizheigeshihoujiuguishuyushitongyizhongren。jiarudixiongmenduinvhaiyouganjuedehuahebuyunyongzheileixinlizhuangtailajingennvhaidejianju，youyujiarulingyifangdefumuduiniyinxiangfeichanghaodehua，zheileixubaojinzhandefangfashinenggouhelideshinigennvhaidijinguanxide。