初次见面相亲聊天技巧：怎么和相亲对象聊天

 zenmehenanpengyouxianliaoshixuduoxiangqinnannvdoutoutongdenanti，xiangqindiyicijianmianliaoshenmehaoni？youyudiyicijianmian，youyubingbulejielingyifang，buqingchuzenyangjinxingliaotiandehuati。neimaxiangqinliaotianfangfanixuyaolejieyixia。chucijianmianxiangqinliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？

zenmehenanpengyouxianliaoni？

1.话题讨论

 liaolingyifangzuiguanzhudehuatitaolun，yibannengkaiqifangbianzhimen。danzheiyibiaozhunzhixianyuquanyibuxianggandehuatitaolun，lirugangwei，pingchangxiaiganshenme，yanzhanxingdixianliao。

2.重视另一方的主导权

 shehuixinliyanjiufaxian，27%deshibaixiangqinyuehuidouyuanyuyifanghuaduoderen、lingyifangwunaidenankanjushi!zairichangshenghuozhong，xingqingjieranbutongderenyekebianchenglianren、haoguimi，huoshihongyanzhiji，danzhenduidiyicijianmianlaijiang，bicibingbulejie，yiqieconglingkaishi，jiugaizunxunkendinggongpinggongzhengdebiaozhun。tiyiniyizhizaihuihuashijinkenengjiaojilingyifangjianghuashijian，lingrenjuededaonidetiexinhegongping。chucijianmianxiangqinliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？

3.合理的对视

 xiangqindiyicijianmianliaoshenmehaoni？yilingyifangmeijianweijiajiao，liangguanguweidijiaosuochanshengdesanjiaoxing，beixinlixuezhuanjiachengzhiwei“jiaodianguanzhuqu”。xiangqinyuehuishiyulingyifangjianghua，jiarunidemuguangchixufensanyuzheiyi“sanjiaoqu”，jiangjirenliuyoubeimingxianguanxin、zishenbianchengjujiaodiandejuede，zheihuilingrenduinihaoganduzengzhang。

4.高度重视另一方的强项

 xiangqinliaotianbubizhitukankanertandexianbaizishendeqiangchu，neiyanghuiranglingyifangyouyapogan，ninengduitadexihaohetezhangduozuoyixietichuwenti，neiyangyehuijifadajiaxindehuatitaolunhegoutongjiaoliuchongdong。

5.巧避厚重话题讨论

 chucijianmianxiangqinliaotianjiqiaoyounaxie？xiangqinyuehuiliaotianhuatibubiweilegenghaodituidongzhangwoerjiuyiweizhuigenjiudi，gengbubiqionggenjiudideduizheixiefenshouhou、tichufenshou、xiagangdengnantichongchizhehaoqixin，jibianniqueshihaoqixin，neiyeqingdengdajiajinyibulejieyihouzaizuolejie。

6.坚信第一觉得变大第六感觉

 xiangqindiyicijianmianliaoshenmehaoni？dangdiyijuededuinishuoyanxiadezheigerenfeichangzhidezaicixiangchuhejiaowangshi，jiuyingdangshidudebiandazishendediliuganjue，dangdiyijuedehediliuganjuedouchanshenggongxiaoshi，pingzhijuequkandaixiamianxiangqinyuehuihoudejiaowang。