那应该什么态度对我的相亲对象

 bansuizheshixiadalingdanshennanhaihenvhaiqingnianrenzengjiadexiankuang，ruhetigaozixinxinxuduo diqudoujuxingle“shuwanrenxiangqinhuodong”，mudishijiweihunnannvchulizhongshengdashi。yinci，wodexiangqinduixiangwomingquetichulejigefangmianfangfa，hunjiexiangqinwangdanshendenikeyicongzheidangzhongchuleibacui。

方法1.平静心理状态

 “xiangqinhuodong”genqitajiaoyouhuodongdetexingshangtongyang，jinjindiqu、changjing、fangshishangdechabie。yiner，baomingcanjia“xiangqinhuodong”deweihunnannvbubiyouyiqiejingshenyali，yebubijiaolvbuan，yiyizhongpingjingdexinlizhuangtaijiejuejiukeyile。wojuede，pingjingqielianghaodexintaigengnengjiangzishendeyoudianzhuyaobiaoxianchuqu，rangtarenxiaixihuanni。

方法2.维持风范

 wojuede，fengfanzaiyidingshijiyiyikeyitixianchuzheigerendehanyangheqichang，dajiadouxiaiyoufengfan、youqizhi、youxiuyangderen。ziran，quchupingchangduoleijiyixiewenhuayishujianshi，ketisheng benzhisuzhiwai，waizaidefuzhuangdapei、zitaigerenxingweishenzhiwenminglimaodengcengmianyekeyituxian。nanhaiziyaoyounanzihanqigai，nvhaihaiyaoyouyazhidefengcai。

方法3.展现闪光点

 xiangqinyuehuiyoushigenyingpinqiuzhileisi，yingpinqiuzhishikanzhongduidegongsi、gangwei、laozong，wodexiangqinduixiangerxiangqinyuehuibianshizhaoduideren，nenggoujiaowangerqieshouhoudaolaodeairen。yiner，yaozhanxianchuzishendeshanguangdian，lingyifangcaihuijiyunigaokuanbiderentong，yedangranhuitiaoxuanni。wojuede，rangyigerenjiandaoniyoushiduo，quexianshao，youdianxianzhu，erquedianyinyinyueyue，hunjiexiangqinneitabianhuizaiyouganjuedejibenshangtiaoxuanyuni，youyunibitarenchuse。“shuwanrenxiangqinhuodong”changjingda，renbijiaoduo，henyoukenengwuxingzhizhongrangnitishengdegongzuoyali，nixuyaojijizhudongdezhuyaobiaoxianzishen，zaishichangjingzhengzhongzhisheng。

方法4.找寻共同语言

 yigeshanyuguanchaderen，zaiduanqineineifeichangrongyifajuelingyifangdetexing，naizhilingyifangdexihao。yidanbawozhulejiukeyihengdaozhichuan，jinxinglingyifanghenganxingqudehuatitaolun，zaiduanqineineixiyinzhulingyifangdeliuyi，rangtazhudongdiduinizaochenghaogandu，congercushidajiadeshizhijinkou。wojuede，gongtongyuyanlaiyuanyuxianghudejiazhiguannian，zheiyipipeidudegaodiyebiaomingdajiashihedeshuiping，ciwai，duoconglingyifanggerenaihaokaolvshizhaoxungongtongyuyandetupokou。

方法5.生产制造层次感

 zaixiangqinyuehuizhong，wojuede，chedidebaolushijihui，yaolejieshengchanzhizaoshidudecengcigan。huanjuhuashuo，bianshitagenjuyunijianyichupenghou，ganjueduinihao，danbuqingchuhaozainaer，erqie，haixiangyaozhidaonidaodihaiyounaxieyoudianhemimi。ruhetigaozixinxinzheijiurutongshitanbaoyiyang，lingyifangdeluojisiweihexinlizhuangtaibansuizhenizhuan，nidefengcaishenshendidebawozhuleta，neiyangfeichangrongyixiangqinyuehuiqudechenggong。youzhecengciganderenjianghuayibanhenzhangwofencun，burongyijianghuashuoman，huijilingyifangliuchuyidingdeshineikongjian。erchuzaizheileijianghuaqingkuangliangbiande，yigeshifeichangshaoshuo，yigeshihennengshuo，wotiyiyaoxiangzhengzhongjianhuanjiekanqi。