那么应该要怎么应对我的相亲对象

 xiangqinyuehuishirujinshehuifazhanzhongnanhaihenvhaiwaijiaoguanxidezuipubianfangfazhiyi。ruhetigaozixinxinkanqilaijianyiyichanggoutongjiaoliu，youxierenyipaijihe，wodexiangqinduixiangyouxierenquelvbailvzhan，hunjiexiangqinganqingxiabiangongxiangjigefangmiantihuixindeqidaidajiadounengxiangqinyuehuiqudechenggong：

一、知彼知己

 dajiashuobailedetouyuan，neiyeshiyidiyicixiangqinpengmianyihoucaikeyilejiedeshier。hebubiyanyuan，neiquanshizhihoudehuatitaolun。rujindajiadiyibushigaoqingchulingyifangdecailiao，ziran，ruguoshijiuzhaopianzheileicailiaohuanshijinzaosheqidehao。niyemeifapanduanlingyifangliangnianqianhaibuhaokansuihouzhei2nianxuehuilehuazhuang，yuelaiyuefeichangpiaoliang。

 jinguanhenduorendouxiailuozhuang，keshi，zheiyiquanshijiemeiyouneimeduoluozhuangqingxindanyademeizikeyiqiaqiaojinipengdao。yinci zhaoyixietayiwangdecailiaoba，lirutayiqianrichangshenghuodeziranhuanjing、tayiqianxuexipeixundeziranhuanjing，neiyangniqimakeyichuaimoyixiatayiwangdexiguanyangcheng。neiyangyefangzhidajiadiyicijianmianchanshengnankandeshier。hunjiexiangqinbubitingmeipode，meipochuidefeichanghaode，niyaoxiangyouduopiaoliang，meipojiukeyirangnichuiduopiaoliang。

二、服装得当

 womenshishijuexiaoguoweishengwu，keyishuodabufendajiaquanshiguishuyuzhinanaide。wodexiangqinduixiangchuanzhedabanhuijudadiweihaizhenijitarendediyiyinxiang，diyiyinxianghenzhongyaode，yinci zaixiangqinyuehuishinixuyaofuzhuangdedangganjingzhengjiedaqi，neiyanghuijirenliuyouhaodeyinxiang，rangnanpengyouduijinidaliangdehaogandu!

三、控制时间

 qin，haijideliufubi。changyandao。shibunengzuojin，huabukeshuojin。yiqietaijin，yuanfenbiranzaojin。caozonghaoxiangqinyuehuishijian，caozonghaohuatitaolunjiezougan，caibianjiedajiaxiayicidezaijianle，caibianjiedajiaxiayicidezaixianliao。jiaruzheiyiciquanliaowanhou，nixiangyaoxiayiciheyigebuzuishuxiderenganzuoma?

四、留意言谈举止

 bubijingonglingyifangdegezishoupanghexiangmao,shidudezanyang,zhuyaobiaoxiannanzihanqigai，ruhetigaozixinxinliaoyiliaogongzuozhong、suojiansuowen、duiweilaiderichangshenghuodexiwang、younaxiexihao、bubishejidaohenyinsibaohuhuoshifeichanggangadenanti,biruxinshuia,tanguojihuitanlianaizheileide。