应该要怎么应对我的相亲对象

 zenmehenanpengyouxianliaoshixuduo xiangqinnannvdoutoutongdenanti，ruhetigaozixinxinyouyudiyicijianmian，youyubingbulejielingyifang，wodexiangqinduixiangbuqingchuzenyangjinxingliaotiandehuati。hunjiexiangqinneimaxiangqinliaotianfangfanixuyaolejieyixia。

怎么和男朋友闲聊

1.话题讨论

 liaolingyifangzuiguanzhudehuatitaolun，yibannengkaiqifangbianzhimen。danzheiyibiaozhunzhixianyuquanyibuxianggandehuatitaolun，lirugangwei，pingchangxiaiganshenme，yanzhanxingdixianliao。>>dianyixiakangengduoxiangqinyuehuimiji

2.重视另一方的主导权

 shehuixinliyanjiufaxian，27%deshibaixiangqinyuehuidouyuanyuyifanghuaduoderen、lingyifangwunaidenankanjushi!zairichangshenghuozhong，xingqingjieranbutongderenyekebianchenglianren、haoguimi，huoshilanyanzhiji，hunjiexiangqindanzhenduidiyicijianmianlaijiang，bicibingbulejie，yiqieconglingkaishi，jiugaizunxunkendinggongzhengdebiaozhun。tiyiniyizhizaihuihuashijinkenengjiaojilingyifangjianghuashijian，lingrenjuededaonidetiexinhegongping。

3.合理的眼神交流

 yilingyifangmeijianweijiajiao，liangguanguweidijiaosuochanshengdesanjiaoxing，wodexiangqinduixiangbeixinlixuezhuanjiachengzhiwei“jiaodianguanzhuqu”。xiangqinyuehuishiyulingyifangjianghua，jiarunidemuguangchixufensanyuzheiyi“sanjiaoqu”，jiangjirenliuyoubeimingxianguanxin、zishenbianchengjujiaodiandejuede，zheihuilingrenduinihaoganduzengzhang。

4.高度重视另一方的强项

 xiangqinliaotianbubizhitukankanertandexianbaizishendeqiangchu，neiyanghuiranglingyifangyouyapogan，ninengduitadexihaohetezhangduozuoyixietichuwenti，neiyangyehuijifadajiaxindehuatitaolunhegoutongjiaoliuchongdong。

5.巧避厚重话题讨论

 xiangqinyuehuiliaotianhuatibubiweilegenghaodituidongzhangwoerjiuyiweizhuigenjiudi，gengbubiqionggenjiudideduizheixiefenshouhou、tichufenshou、xiagangdengnantitianmanhaoqixin，jibian niqueshihaoqixin，neiyeqingdengdajiajinyibulejieyihouzaizuolejie。

6.坚信第一觉得变大第六感觉

 dangdiyijuededuinishuoyanxiadezheigerenfeichangzhidezaicixiangchuhejiaowangshi，ruhetigaozixinxin    jiuyingdangshidudebiandazishendediliuganjue，dangdiyijuedehediliuganjuedouchanshenggongxiaoshi，pingzhijuequkandaijiexiaquxiangqinyuehuihoudejiaowang。