那么要怎么应对我的相亲对象

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实例再现：

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 wochixufaguoxuduotiaoxinxitacaihuiyingwoyitiao，daohoubianjiujuedewoliangzhongjianyulaiyumeiyouhuatile，changchangbuqingchuliaoshenme，bingqietaduiyinweiwoyulaiyulengmo，neishihoudewoniantouyetingjianyide，hunjiexiangqinshifoutameiyouganshoudaowodezhenxinshiyi?yinci xiwangkeyibatayuechuqupengmian，tadoumeiyouhuijue，dangridajiachiwanyidunfan，youyuwowan

 quanbuqingchuhetaliaoshenme，haizongdanyouzijishuoshuocuo，hetazaiyiqideqingkuangxiahenjiaolvbuan，zhuyaobiaoxiandejiuhencha。fanhuijiashi，woxunwentakaibugaoxing，taqueyaowozhihoubuyaolianluota，yebuyaoyuetale，wozuizhongchixudewanhui，haibiaominglezishendezhenxinshiyi，xiangtagaobaile，jieguoxianeryijian，beitajueqingdejujuele!

败因剖析：

 ——puluqiangxuqiugan：dangnvhaibuhuiyinglijiexinxishi，tazongshixiayishidejinvhaichixufaxuduotiaoxinxineirong，naizhiwenlingyifangweishenmebuhuiyingxinxi，baoludemingxianxuqiuganxuqiugan。

 ——meihuatikeliao：hezishenxiaidenvhaiwuhuakeliao，danyoukongzhibuzhuyaoxianghenvhailiaotian，yinci huiyiweidequzhaohuatiliaotian，zhenshibianshizaiganliao。

 ——xianliaozhongburongyihudongjiaoliu：xuduo dixiongdoubuqingchuzenyangzaixianliaozhonghenvhaihudongjiaoliu，changchangshijianyigerenzishenliaodaohengaoxing，shijishangnvhaibingmeiyouguoduodeqingxubodong。

 keshijiaruniyaohenvshengchuduixiangdehua，neimaniyejiuwubixuehaoxianliaozhongdehudongjiaoliufangfa，youyuxuehaoxianliaozhongdehudongjiaoliufangfahou，youxialiesidianyoudian：lajinhenvshengguanlian;rangnvhaixinrenganni;zhengqueyindaonvhaizijintouru;rangnvhaiganjueyunixianliaohenyouqu。

 ——bumingbaizenyangjianlilianaiguanxi：zheigeshixianliaozhongdezuizhongzhaoshi，bianshizenyanggenjuxianliao，jiunengzaiweixingoutongjiaoliuzhonghenvhaijianlilianaiguanxi，xuduo danshendixiongdoubumingbairuhequedingguanlian。

gaizenyangzaishiduqingkuangxiaquedingguanxini?

 diyishiqingjingqianru，qixianweinvhaiqianrutanlianaizhizhongdeqingjing，youyunvhaishilixingde，yinci tahuizaochenghenduozhongduoyangxiangxiang，zheizhongqingjingshimeiyigenvhaidouxiangxiangguode，yinci ruguonijiangchuzheizhonghuadeqingkuangxia，nvhaihuiganjuedajiashitongyileiren，huiganjuedajiazhongjiandeaiqingguanyizhi，yuniaiqingguanyizhi，yunichuduixianghaowuyiwenhenyouqu。

 diershimorenshezhijiaoyiliang，dangwomenhanxudebiaoshuchuyaohetazaiyiqideqingkuangxia，ruhetigaozixinxinnvhaidehuiyingduia，biaomingzheishitaxinlishichiyide，yinci zheigeshihouyong“morenshezhijiaoyiliang”zheiyifangfa，nvhaifeichangrongyijiutongyile，zuizhongzaiquedingyibian，fangzhilenvhailaizhang，tishengleyigeshuangbao。