那么到底婚介相亲要特别注意什么

 dalingshengnvnanti，jingchangbeidajiatidao，naizhishi“dalingshengnv”zheiyicijuzaoyikanbuchulaiyiqianshihanyoudebianyicihanyi，yuelaiyueyulaiyuzhongxinghua。zaidalingshengnvzhizhong，ruhetigaozixinxinyouyigehenguaiyidezhuangkuang，xiangqinjiehunbianshixuduo dedalingdanshennvxing，hentaoyanxiangqinyuehui，hunjiexiangqinyouqishibabamamalaorenxiangxijieshaodenanpengyou，zhenshibianshihenbunengzailiangrenpengmiandeqingkuangxiajiujilingyifangduihuilai。

nahao，neimewentilaile，jiujingweishenmedalingdanshennvxingtaoyanxiangqinyuehuini?rangwomenyiqipouxiyixia。

1、主观性觉得能出去相亲约会的男人都是“找不到男朋友”的剩男

 jiarushuogaobiedanshenyouqiantiaowantiaotiaoxuandehua，neixiangqinyuehuiyidingshinvxingzuibuyaoxiangdeyitiao。yixiedalingdanshennvxinghuizhuguanxingdejuede，zuozhezhengduimiandeneigerenshiyigezaoyibeiqitanvxingfourenguodenansheng，yinci yidinghuiyouhenduodechouwenti、buliangxiguan、pihaodeng，fouzetayeburongyi“lunwei”daoxiangqinyuehuidechengdu。

 yegengshiyouyuyouneiyangdeguaiyiniantouzuoguai，bianhuiduixiangqinyuehuiderenweichiyidingdemoshenggan，naizhishibaichengyifuaojiaodeqishi，xiangranglingyifangzhinanertui。neiyangzhuguanyiduandexintai，queshibulixunsuchulidalingshengnvdehunlianwenti，fanershihuiranglingyifangjuedezheiyinvxingbutaihaochupeng，erqieyehuirangshanxinxiangxijieshaoderenganga。

2、相亲约会有一种被当做“产品”一样的觉得，一点都不浪漫

 xiangqinyuehuiderendoushiyouneiyangyizhongjuede，hunjiexiangqinbianshizhengduimianzheigerenshilai“xuanze”zishende，ruhetigaozixinxinerbushilaizhuiqiuwanmeizishende。dangquanbudeyichengbubiandoubeishuzihua，geleizhibiaozhibizhaodouqingqingchuchu，liangrendechupengyejiumeilecengcigan。jiarulingyifangwendenantitaiguolijihuoshiguoduyinsibaohu，neigenvrenbianhuijuedetabuzuzunzhongziji，dichuyejiuwukebimianle。

 suoyishuodalingshengnvzaixiangqinyuehuideqingkuangxiayeshifenqide，jiran“bei”xuanzele，jiuhuiyoubeisheqidehenyoukeneng。jiarushuocicixiangqinyuehuidejieguoyidingbuledehua，neiwuburuzaidouhaimeichupengguoshendeqingkuangxia，zhaoyige“kekao”yidianerdeyuanyin，lijijijishuo“zaijianle”，neiyangqingmianshanghainenghaoyixie。

3、大龄剩女习惯单身，自身就抵触相亲约会，所以说原本便是“刚开始我是回绝的”的心理状态

 “yigerenjiule，huichengyin”zheijuhuafangdaodalingdanshennvxingdeshenshangye“meiwenti”。dangyigenvrenguojiuleyigerendeshenghuoyihou，neipobudeyixiangqinyuehuiyuanbenbianhuidichu。zheiyexuyeshisiweidingshizaizuosuiba，xiguandanshen、xiguanhuijue，yinci dangyigebeitarenjuedeliangrenshihedenansheng，zuozhezishenyanqianshi，neixinyiranhuidichu。

4、相亲约会丢面子，因此 有排斥心理状态

 dalingshengnvzuoweixiandaishehuilinenggoulianaiziyouderen，jiaruchuquxiangqinyuehuidehua，zishenbianhuijuedetashiyizhongrenshengdaoludebuchenggong，shibixutarendefuzhucainenggouchulizishenderenshengdashi。neiyangdebumanqingxuyeshidalingshengnvbuyuanxiangqinyuehuihuoshifuyanleshixiangqinyuehuideyuangu。

 zhishangsizhongyuanyin，jinjindalingshengnvhuidichuxiangqinyuehuideyuanyinzhongdeyibufen。zhongjiumeiyigerendezhuangkuanghepengdaodenanshengdoubuyiyang，yinci yemeifayigaierlun。

 buguanzenyang，shenghuoquanshibixuliangrenguode，yigerenzaisatuozideyeshilinshide。gequdangnilaoledeqingkuangxia，queshimeiyouyigerennengrangnitixiedeqingkuangxia，jiulejiexuduo shierqueshibukeyiyigerenganle。suoyishuo，xiangqinjiehunbulunshishengnanhuanshidalingshengnvbixuyongqiadangdexinlizhuangtailaiduidaixiangqinyuehui，zaimeiyouzhenshizhangwolingyifangyiqianshibubidechujielun，zhongjiuzheiyeshirenmaixianghunyinshenghuodejindaozhiyi。“tingrenquan，chibaofan”，aixibabamama、qinpenghaoyouhepenyourangnijieshaonanpengyoudeshanxinba，dangyouyitianrenherendoubuyuan、haiparangnijieshaonanpengyoudeqingkuangxia，yebianshinizuinankandeqingkuangxiale