究竟婚介相亲应该如何进行

 yibanzhuangkuangxiaxiangqinyuehuideqingkuangxiayinweishidiyicigenyigeyiqianchedishengshudeyixingpengyoupengmian，wodexiangqinduixiangrenhuoduohuoshaodoushihuijuededaonankanhejiaolvbuan。zhenduinanhaizilaijiang，xiangqinjiehunzaixiangqinyuehuideqingkuangxiayaoyouyigehaodezhuyaobiaoxiancaihuichuxianjiexiaqudechenggongfazhanqushi，neixiabianwojiuweidahuoerchanshengyixiexiangqinyuehuishidefangfa，hunjiexiangqinyiqilaiqiaoqiaoba。

第一次和女生相亲约会的方法一、闲聊留意措辞

 juedabufencijuquanshiyouqingganyansede，95%derendoushihuiduicijuzaochenggudingbudongdexinlixianxiang，doushihuiduicijudebaoyicihebianyiciyouyuanyoudechengjian。jianyanzhibianshicijufengjianmixin，beicijuyouqishixiushicijushuzhule。lirujianchibuxiezheileishi，duichenggongrenshilaijiangjiujiaoguzhi，duishujialaijiangbianshiguzhijijian。chenggongzhelvzhanlvbai，qingchangshiyiderenlvbailvzhan。wobenrenjuedeyuyanzhixushulekeguanshiwudehenxiaoyibufen，meiyigecijuquanshiyigecengmian，qishenhoudoukeyikaizhangengxinifanzaderongjieerqiutiejinzhenzheng。keshidixiong，xianzaishizaitantaoruhezhuinvxing。ziyue，nvrenshishifenlixingdexiaodongwu。yinerzaitoujihuiyouqishidiyicixiangchuzhong，shenzhongtiaoxuancuociyouweizhongyao。yurenxiangchuzhong，jinliangjingque、jianyue、qingchudibiaoshuzishenyeshizhongbufandegongdi。

第一次和女生相亲约会的方法二、维持包容和赏析

 renhuiyouqianwanzhong，renquanshiduocengcidehanshu，meiyigecengmianyoudouyishijianhelijingweizhuyaocanshu。hunjiexiangqinbubizaixinzhongyuqiyigelixianghuaairendebiaozhunmoxing。zheiyeshinanxingdeqigaihexionghuai。jiarunizhuangbuxiabuyiyangderen，xiangqinjiehunneiwulunlingyifangxihuanbuxihuanni，doushihuiyouyidingdejuedeermoranzhizhi。youhuizhongyingweichiduiwaikaifanghelianghaodexintai，zhenxinshiyidekuabieren，zhenxinchengyiguanzhuta/ta，shangxita。zaihudongjiaoliuquanguochengzhongninengyulaiyuzhangwoyixingpengyou，lingwaiyeyulaiyurenshiziji。

第一次和女生相亲约会的方法三、不必焦虑不安

 nvhaixiangqindediyimeirirenwubingbushiqukankanzheigerenhebushihe，zhishixiangbanfarangdiyicidejiaowangyuelaiyueqingqingsongsong、gaoxing。baituojiaolvbuandefangfabingbushibuduantishi、anshizhezishenbubijiaolvbuan，zhishixunzhaohuatitaolunzhaohuati，yongyouhuatitaolun，zhaowoliaozhaowoliaojiudangranbujiaolvbuanle。xiangyixiangzishenjinqidezhutihuodong、yuedu、dujialvyou、bagua、wangrilijingdeng，huatitaolunfushijieshi。ziranla，nixianggeshicibaci，dangranyebujiaolvbuanle。

第一次和女生相亲约会的方法四、观查另一方为人和性情

 zheijuhuajiangguoqianwanbian，danhuanshishuoqi：budanxukanrongmao，gengxukanbenzhi。juedabufennanshengdouhenzaiyirongmao，danbansuizhejingyandetigao，yedoushihuifanhuiweiren、xingqingzheizhonggengpingwengengshizhidefangmianshanglai。gaoshuaifuhexxoofashaoyouqingquanzidonghushicijie，buyaoshanghaiwomenaicuoqiong。nixuyaozhaodeshiheshinishangxinizhichinidejiajunvxing，bingbushiweilegenghaodibierendexianmu，yebushiweilegenghaodishifenkechidexurongba。renpinchahuoxingqingchadenvxingqianwanbiepeng，yushangniyejiudetuocengpi。

第一次和女生相亲约会的方法五、不要害怕被拒绝

 yaoquchuguanjunxiaoshouyuandexinlizhuangtaihegemingxianliewuweidejingshenshizhichuqulang。beijujueshifenyiqiezhengchang，zandoubingbushiwanrenmi，meiyouliyoudazhongdouxiaihuajianhuakaichejiancheluntaibaotai。bingqie，nixuyaozhaodeshi“deneiyige”，meibiyaoyebutaikenengrangrenherenduinisixintadi。beijujuesuanbushangbuchenggong，beijujuedanshimeiyouyiqieganwuheqianxingcaisuanshizhenshidebuchenggong。

 xiangqinyuehuishigetongchudequanguocheng，buduanjiepouxuezishen，wodexiangqinduixiangbuduanjienatiaozhan，chixudebeilaoqianbeimenwenhuajiaoyulaiwenhuajiaoyuqu，chixugengkegumingxingengxinidirenshiziji，buduanfanshengzijixiaishenmeyangderen，shenmeyangderenhenyoukenengxiaizishen。zuizhongturanyouyitian，zheigerenchuxianle，tianshidilidoudui，nijuedehensuiyi，henzijintouru，duidetemebukeyizaizhengquele。zhuhenile，nideqiongrizijiujieshule。