相亲约会后如何判断另一方的念头

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一.积极主动身体语言：

 1.youliangdemuguangchupeng——kanyixialingyifangdeshuangyanshifenbiantaduinishibushiyouxingquaihaofeichangjiandandefangshi。xiangqinjiehunjiarutademuguanghenyoushanbingduinibiaoshuchuzhenxinshiyi，neimahetazaicijiaowangxialaijiuburongyiyouhendadenanti。

 2.liangtuilveweishenkai——quanbunanshengdouyiyang，douyaoxiangzaixinaiderendeyanqiangengyoufengcai。jiangliangtuishaoweishenkaihuishitakanshangqugaoxie、gengshuai、gengyoufengcai。jiarutazainiyanqianyeneiyang，neimahenkenengtazaichangshixiyinzhunideliuyi。jiarutaxiangxianbaitade“gongjuxiang”dehua，ninaizhinenggoukuiyiyantadexiabian。

 3.fumotadexiufa——niyexujuedetashinvxingcaihuizuodeshier(youqishiroulinerduolimianshangdeneiyicuo)，keshiyingyongshouzhitouyeshixiaideyigehaozhengzhao。jiarutahuanhuandefumonidexiufadehua，jiuyaotaba。

 4.weixiaohenleguan——weixiaoshizhuangbuchulaide。jiarutashishunan，xiaoqilaishinaizhiwailulebiaoqingwenheyanjiaowen，neimataduinikendingyouzhenshidechimihexiai。youderennaizhihuixiaodaowailuliwo。

 5.fumozishendeliankong、mianjiahuozuiba——youshi，nanshenghuichupengzishendelian，youqishitadezuibalaibiaomingxingquaihaohexiai。youxierennaizhijuedetashinanrenzaixiangxiangzishenqinwendeqingkuangxiazuibajuedeyouduobang。

 6.shentichupengni——dajiadoushiyouzishendegerenkongjianjiqibierenyingdanglidajiadejianjuguifan，keshizaiwomenhezuiaiderenzaiyiqishitongchangburongyiliuyizheiyidian。jiaruyigenanrenchupengni，neimatashiyaoxiangjienanihuonenggougenghaodiqingtingnishuodehua。ciwai，tayezaianshizhenireliehuanyingqudaotadegerenkongjianbingxiwangniyekeyireliehuanyingta。

 7.chupengni——nanshenghuichangshichupengnidegebohuojianbuyibiaomingzishenduinidechongdonghechimi，ciwai，tayexiangjiecijihuiguanchaninengzenyangdafu。jiarutachupengnidejianbang，ninengshizhechupengtadeyaohuojian。niyenenggouwojintayijingchupengnishouzhoudeshou。

 8.fanjuanxiuzibingjiechuchenshanhuowaiyideniukou——tagangkaishiduinijuedezide，huoshiniyekeyishuotakanjiannizhihouzaichangshihuanjiejiaolvbuan。

二.消沉身体语言：

1.yanshenxili——jiarutadingzhunikankan，nijuedebuduijing，neimanijiuxuyaojinkenengbubizaicihetayouhui。

 2.yanguangshandong——zheihenyoukenengxianshixinxichutadebuzhenxinshiyi，huoshiyehenyoukenengtajinjinxiuse。youderenhenyoukenengshouyixiewenhuayishutaoye，zaigoutongjiaoliushibubidingzhulingyifangkan。

 3.nijianghuashi，tachixuhuangusizhoushangxia——henxianeryijianzheibiaomingtaduinimeiyouxingquaihao，naizhilaidaohuangusizhoushangxiakanyixiaqitapiaoliangmeinvhuoshiyaoxiangjinzaowanbideshuipingle。

 4.wojinxiahe——jiarutabijinxiahe，ninengjiandaotaziyaliezuihuojinmozuiba，neimataduiniheciciyouhuizaoyimeiyounaixinle。

 5.nijianghuashitachixudiandiantou——henkenengtayagenmeiyoutingnishuoshenme。keshi，niyekeyishuotadezhuanzhulijiaoweiduan。ninenggenjulejietadejianyilaikaizhankeneng。

 6.jiaochashuangbeihuoliangtui——jiaochashuangbeishizhuyaobiaoxianchufangyulideyizhongzhengzhao。zheizhiyoubiaomingtadouhaimeiduinilakaixiongjin。danbuyidingbiaomingtabuxihuanni，huoxuyouhuijihuizhihoutajiuburongyizaijiaochashuangbeile。

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 7.jiangshouchadaokudaili——hechashouyiyang，zheiyeshizhuyaobiaoxianchufangyulidezhengzhaozhiyi。keshi，yehenyoukenengbiaomingtaduidajiadeyouhuimeiyouxingquaihao。

 8.tachouyanshiyizhishoutuozhelingyizhishoudeshouzhou——fangyulihemeishenmexingqudelingyizhuyaobiaoxian。keshijiarutachouyanshipingfenshengmingjiubiaomingtazaoyiwanquanyanjuanlegaiciyouhui。

9.bashouzhitoulaolaodifangdaoxiahehuozuibashang——neiyangzuobiaomingtayijingnaohaizhonglipingdinghuopengjini。

10.shoutuoxiahe——jiarutabaxiahefangdaoshoulihaoxiangzaitingshangyelunlikeyiyang，neimatajiuzaiyanjuannihuoshibenciyouhui。

11.rentichuizhe——changshibubaichenghaoderentizitaijiudaibiaozhetameiyouchangshixiyinzhuni。

 12.couhejiyayisiweixiao——rutongshangwenxieguodeyiyang，weixiaoshizhuangzuobuchulaide。jibiantazaiduinixiaorong，yaoshibingbushizhenxinshiyide，tadeweixiaobianhuikanshangqushifencangbaiwuli。

 13.yizhibazhongxindianyazaituishang——zheishuomingtabuquedingxingzishenduinidejuede。zheiyehenyoukenengbiaomingtajinjinduigennijianghuajuedejiaolvbuan。

14.shouzhitouchixuqiaozhuozi——taduiciciyouhuihenishuodehuameiyouxingquaihao。

 15.tamocabozihoumian——jiarutazuochuzheiyixingwei，zheibiaomingtataileile。yaobubianshibeijianmianqiandegongzuozhongsuokun，yaobubianshibeizheishideyouhuisuokun。

 16.woquanwojinmuzhi——zheiyibanbiaomingtajijiangkaishichuipeng。niqidaitadeziwochuixushi“zhongrutaishan”erbushi“qingyuhongmao”。

 17.chixufunongzishendeshuixingbihuoqianzibi——taduiciciyouhuiyaobuwuqu、yaobujiaolvbuan。xiangqinzhaoduixiangninengshizhelejietadexingquaihaobangtashifangyali。