相亲中的自卑心理

 mingzaojiuyaoquxiangqinle，turandezhixiangqinduixiangshiyinweijialiderenbihun，suoyicaichulaixiangqin，xinliyoudianbushuang。yuejianduifangdeshihou，duifangshuokaichelai，mingxianshixuanfuma!woheduifangshuoguo，woxiawuhaiyouhuodong，duifanghaireqingdeshuokeyisongwoqu，zheishishenmexintai?buguanzenmeshuo，yiduzideqi，yaozouma?neimexiangqinjiemuyounaxieni?xiamianjiugensuixiaobianyiqilaikankanxiangqinjidewenzhangba。

 haha，xiaowenzhenkeai。zhenhaoqi，zheigenvhai，nidezhenaijiujingshishenmeyangzi?yiwokan，renjiayouche，kaichelaixiangqinshihenzhengchangdeshi，ruguozhendexiangyaoxuanfuxianbai，wanquanmeiyoubiyaotichu“songni”，dakekaichelai，kaichehuilai，hekuhaiyaoweichucijianmianderenzuochefu?guangxianlianglidenanshengkemeiyoushenmefuwuyishiyo!danshi，nimenweishenmehuichanshengxianghupaichidexinlini?jiushiyinweijieshaorenshuoduifangshipoyujiatingyalicaiquxiangqinde，suoyiguzilijiuyoutiaoci?huozheshiyinweinidui“youcheyizu”depianjian?

 xiangqinji，shishishang，xianzaibeibizaijiaxiangqinderenhenduo，duifangyexubuxihuanzheiyangdexiangqinfangshi，huozhezaijiehunfangmianyouzijidexiangfa，danzheibingbudengyutaduilaixiangqindeduixiangyeyoupianjian。youyujuedingyaoxiangqin，tabiaoshiyuanyihuashijianjieshixinpengyou，huorenshini。zaishuo，wocongnidemiaoshuzhonghaikeyikanchu，duifangshigexiangdangreqingdenanhaizi，duirenshiniyidiandoubufangan。shuodao“kaiche”zheiyidian，wodaojuedenitaiminganle，nanshenghenkenengchuyulimaoxiangyaozhaogunvsheng，zheishishenshifengdudetixian。yinci，woguliniqugengduodirenshita，erzaixiangqinguochengzhong，buguanduifangshishei，doubuyaodaizhetaiduode“guaipi”sixiangququjieduifangdehuayu，youseyanjingzhihuirangniwufarenchuduifang，shenzhiwujieduifangdehaoyi。

 tongyang，qinaidexiaowen，ruguoniguanxindebushitabeipolaixiangqin，ershitataoyanduifang“kaidehenkuai”，zheikenengshuomingniduixiangqinzhong“gerentiaojian”tebieguanxin，niguanxindebushiduifang，ershiniziji。xiangqinjiemuyounaxie？neixiehuacongcemianbiaodalenidedirenyideng。zai“yingjianpipei”fangmian，nizijiganjuebugouhao，danzheikedabuyiyang!zhenshidepipeijiushinidejiazhiguanyuguanniandeyizhi，caifubusuanzuizhongyao，suoyibuyaoqingshiziji，yebuyaozudangbierenduinidehaoyi!zhaixiayouseyanjing，diaozhenghaoxintai，quhaohaorenshiduifang!